K, so I have a long standing policy of normally just canceling without a message for various reasons. Because of this I get PM's and messages on other forums even asking why did I cancel??@@@@!!
So, a little while ago I uh, decided to try explaining things out with a couple of trades when I canceled them. Totally intending nothing more than some trading advice and/or thoughts of my own as to why I didn't or wouldn't accept the trade.
This was one of them:
I understand if you cancel, but I thought I might as well try.I canceled with:
Sorry but the only thing of any real value you are.offering is the flower and you're expecting way too much from that little g
guy. I wouldn't even pay a BA for him let alone a high end high demand main list pet...
What I did not add was the fact that I specifically said in my trade rules in 150font that I want Wishlist Pets ONLY for any Wish List locked groups. They offered nothing on my Wish List except the Bunny, Lion, and Yellow Sortic. None of which will get anywhere near the pets they added to my side.
And I got the following PM
Don't you think its kind of harsh to say you wouldn't even pay a BA for it? I've gotten offers with at least a BA in it multiple times

. I even said I understood if you cancelled because I know the BA and BMD are pets demanded by a lot of people on this site. I really don't understand why people can't cancel without being rude in some kind of way on this site. I've cancelled plenty of times on plenty of trades without saying something negative, but others can never seem to do the same. I guess that's why I had you foed before though. I'll just learn from my mistake this time I guess.
lol! I have NO idea what they're even talking about as this is the one and only trade I've ever had with them. (I checked my trade history, nothing else showed up) Unless they're multi accounting and just let that one slip. Maybe I've had trading experiences with one of their other accounts or something...I dunno. All I know is that it seems I'm damned if I cancel with no message and I'm damned if I do. So I shall paste a link to this particular post in my trade rules as the ultimate reason for my continuing to just cancel. No message and if your feelings are hurt, it's not by anything I said that was taken the wrong way at least.
