Belle's Advice Column!!!

[.Arrow.]

Thank you everyone; it went really well, I got a perfect score. :3

Puffball; what you said wasn't annoying at all; I did pretty much what you just said. ^^

Congrats! XD

And Puffball, I think it's fine if you leave comments/your own advice... well, as long as it's okay with Maximum

[Departed]

I need some advice...
Okay well, I feel really guilty right now and I don't know how to say I'm sorry. I asked my friend if she could color some lineart for me, and she said yes. I thanked her. I tried to give her a good description of the character. So when she showed me the finished project, I feel like I just blew up on her. This was my actual reaction:

''Well...uhm...the red is not red lol its pink, her hair is pink, && you can't see green in her fur.''

She said back:

''Oh...well you said her hair was green''

That's when I felt like I just crushed her soul, && I felt really bad. I shouldn't of said anything, I should of just said it was awesome. I'm almost positive I said her hair was pink, not green. But I said ''what I did? Well sorry XPP''

We've also had some other experiences in the past where I ended up feeling really guilty.

The worst thing is though, her birthday is coming up, and I think I'm making it seems like I don't even know her birthday is coming up when I do.

So how do I say I'm sorry && tell her happy birthday? Do I just say it or say it in a gift? Or give her some art? What do I do?

Thanks in advance && sorry if I'm not allowed to post or whatever XP...

[.Arrow.]

You're allowed to post, no worries there

As I'm not an artist, I'm not entirely sure on the best way to apologize, though I do know stuff like that can be a touchy subject.

It's too late now, what's done is done. Concentrate on being really positive around her, when you get chances you could probably compliment her art, etc. That's more if she was quite upset about it, otherwise, you could leave it in the past. Plus, I find even if there are disputes and stuff between friends, it's often forgiven relatively fast and forgotten (at least, that's how it often is with my two close friends).

For her birthday, make sure you let her see that you're excited for her, I guess. If you were already planning on giving her a gift, then you should of course still do so. Saying happy birthday will also help (and you could also remind your other friends to say happy birthday to her, it might help). Just try and be thoughtful and nice, I guess.

I really don't think you'll have to much trouble patching it up, because you do feel guilty about it. And I'm sure you'll find other ways than what I've suggested, too.

Honestly, I don't think there's much more I can say, so hopefully this was somewhat helpful... XP

[EarthChild]

Laaa delima. Ok I have a boyfriend for almost 3 years I'm happy with him and I believe I love him. But I have a guy friend I met this year who I go to school with who I have feelings for I've discovered. I know everyone puts their best face forward and no one is perfect. So how he acts in front of his freinds might not be the real him. But it's really annoying cause I know better and idk I think I might be falling in love with him too. Since I took this semester off of school I haven't seen him really and I was ok. But when I went to visit him my heart went all crazy again. Like I said Laa delima. Do you think it's normal to be with someone and love them and still have a crush on another guy??? I'm not about to cheat on my boyfriend cause of this and I've never cheated on a boyfriend in the past. Just so everyone knows it's not like I'm one of those girls.

[.Arrow.]

I think that's relatively common, liking two people at once, though you won't find people admitting it when they have a boyfriend unless they have somewhere where RL friends won't see that.

If you're in high school, then this bit applies to you. There will be many other guys in your life, very few people find the one that they want to marry when they are still in school. You'll change a lot by the time you get out of high school, too.

If you still like you're boyfriend, I suggest staying with him. This new crush could go away quite quickly, or last a long time.

I must apologize, of course, as I've never been in a relationships due to where I live and have no actual experience in this department. I merely learn from my friends mistakes and remember things that I hear.

Overall, I don't believe it's abnormal to like someone while dating someone else. Just so long as you don't cheat on your boyfriend you'll be fine, and you said you weren't going to so... ya...

Someone with more experience would be a bit more help here... *hint hint*

[ghostboy]

I think that's relatively common, liking two people at once, though you won't find people admitting it when they have a boyfriend unless they have somewhere where RL friends won't see that.

If you're in high school, then this bit applies to you. There will be many other guys in your life, very few people find the one that they want to marry when they are still in school. You'll change a lot by the time you get out of high school, too.

If you still like you're boyfriend, I suggest staying with him. This new crush could go away quite quickly, or last a long time.

I must apologize, of course, as I've never been in a relationships due to where I live and have no actual experience in this department. I merely learn from my friends mistakes and remember things that I hear.

Overall, I don't believe it's abnormal to like someone while dating someone else. Just so long as you don't cheat on your boyfriend you'll be fine, and you said you weren't going to so... ya...

Someone with more experience would be a bit more help here... *hint hint*

If you mean me, I don't have too much XP
But this is very good advice ;3

[paigeandclyde]

I need some advice...
Okay well, I feel really guilty right now and I don't know how to say I'm sorry. I asked my friend if she could color some lineart for me, and she said yes. I thanked her. I tried to give her a good description of the character. So when she showed me the finished project, I feel like I just blew up on her. This was my actual reaction:

''Well...uhm...the red is not red lol its pink, her hair is pink, && you can't see green in her fur.''

She said back:

''Oh...well you said her hair was green''

That's when I felt like I just crushed her soul, && I felt really bad. I shouldn't of said anything, I should of just said it was awesome. I'm almost positive I said her hair was pink, not green. But I said ''what I did? Well sorry XPP''

We've also had some other experiences in the past where I ended up feeling really guilty.

The worst thing is though, her birthday is coming up, and I think I'm making it seems like I don't even know her birthday is coming up when I do.

So how do I say I'm sorry && tell her happy birthday? Do I just say it or say it in a gift? Or give her some art? What do I do?

Thanks in advance && sorry if I'm not allowed to post or whatever XP...

maybe even ask her for more art and pay her something really good.... it's okay, you made a mistake, you could also tell her you didn't mean to snap at her or something, i'm sure she'll understand, and as for her birthday, suprise her with a wishlist pet of hers or something

[EarthChild]

Thanks for the advice it really helps about like 2 different guys it really helps. ^^

[.:♥Pandora♥:.]

-Sighs- I'm always late! Curse my bad timings. -.-

[dasniu]

free bump..?