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[friedapplejuice]

This is going to sound waaay childish, but I really have to get this out. Pretty pointless, but I have no one to go to right now. I seriously don't know what to feel or think right now. He's always yelling at me, Trying to pick a fight with me, and trying to irritate me 'till I snap and get back at him. Sounds like normal sibling sort of thing, but when I ask him a question out of concern when he's not feeling well, just a simple "You feeling okay?" "Do you need anything?" but he just has to make a big deal out of it, like I'm being paranoid, or I'm over reacting. Then he has to go and tell our parents a complete lie, and say that I'm 'interrogating' him, and being too paranoid. He just started recovering from being pretty sick, and now I finally have the chance to talk to him, and he instead tries to fight with me, telling me I'm annoying or I just need to 'shut up' because I'm irritating him. I would respect him politely asking me to stop if he still weren't feeling well, but that is not the case. He's perked up and is obviously fine, and when I'm talking to someone else, he HAS to chime in and say something bad about me, or tell me to shut my mouth. He lies in front of our parents about me, he blames every little thing on me, he orders me around like I'm his personal maid, and I'm supposed to go fetch him something at his request, and he's just overall what you would call, a bully. He has his moments where he is in a good mood, and you can actually keep a nice conversation with him, but say something or ask a question that he doesn't like, he snaps at you, blames you, and then lies about it. It's frustrating, it's confusing, and it just makes me feel like I'm the bad person. I know I shouldn't let it get to me, but when our parents actually BELIEVE him, and then yell at me for it, there's nothing to do but just isolate myself from everyone or listen to music. He complains about that too. Like I always have my earphones jammed in my ears and I never listen to him. I think he should know why. I just don't know what to do anymore. He's nice to everyone else, but me. I think I need to go listen to angst-y music and draw some vent art.... *sigh*

[MEAT!]

I need a hug..
Just too much on my hands

♥
*hugs*
babe, if you ever need someone to talk to, just shoot me a pm. im all ears.

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well, lets start this off with a question.

have you ever been called worthless? by someone in school? in a chatroom? if not, then you certinialy haven't been called worthless by your stap-father.

i told him i couldn;t go to school because i was sick, and he said some things, and did some things that id rather not get into, and he called me worthless.

it stung a lot. yeah, i never like my step parents. i was never close with them, but it srill hurts, because step-parents are still supposed to care for you, just like your real mum and dad.

being called the things i am, it makes me feel like im worthless.

between him, and people at high school, i do feel like the things he's saying are true.

i just need a hug, and someone to tell me that itll be ok. that the bulling in school and at hime will stop.

sorry for waisting your time
~dani xx

[da .pimp. is here]

I'm in so much pain. I hate migraines.
In the past week I've had three.. One last Tuesday, one yesterday and now one today.
This is really going to affect my dang grades missin so much school. The pain is unbearable; I get nauseous and my head pounds. Plus I get spots making my eyesight kinda weird so I stumbled and bump into things.
Today I thought I was fine.. but suddenly the spots came in second hour and I knew I was getting another migraine. When going to third hour I almost bumped into someone and I was just really hurting. Asked my teacher to go to the nurse, she let me with no hesitation.
So I went to the nurse, mom picked me up, we went to the doctors .. turns out I'll probably get migraines quite frequently.. /: kinda wish I didn't.. but we have medicine like ibuprofen for me... I took it but I'm still in so much pain right now and I'm crying. I hate it.
I just need some comfort. Something to make me happy. ;-;

[Dymestl]

Can I have a hug please?

I'd rather not talk about it on a public thread...

(It makes me sound like a hormonal, self-centered jerk....)

[Nikki Amaranti]

Can I have a hug please?

I'd rather not talk about it on a public thread...

(It makes me sound like a hormonal, self-centered jerk....)

Hugs for you sis<3
Hugs every day, every week, every time whenever you need'em<3

I wish you lived closer so I could hug you more and bring you a tub of ice-cream- we'd watch Avengers all day<3

; A ;

[Arubi]

I'm in so much pain. I hate migraines.
In the past week I've had three.. One last Tuesday, one yesterday and now one today.
This is really going to affect my dang grades missin so much school. The pain is unbearable; I get nauseous and my head pounds. Plus I get spots making my eyesight kinda weird so I stumbled and bump into things.
Today I thought I was fine.. but suddenly the spots came in second hour and I knew I was getting another migraine. When going to third hour I almost bumped into someone and I was just really hurting. Asked my teacher to go to the nurse, she let me with no hesitation.
So I went to the nurse, mom picked me up, we went to the doctors .. turns out I'll probably get migraines quite frequently.. /: kinda wish I didn't.. but we have medicine like ibuprofen for me... I took it but I'm still in so much pain right now and I'm crying. I hate it.
I just need some comfort. Something to make me happy. ;-;

It's okay! Seriously, when I'm in pain, I usually think 'will I be thinking about how much this hurts tomorrow?' And, I know how you feel! I get headaches all of the time, but I always turn out okay. PM me when it starts hurting again or you just want to complain- I'll be here! -Hugs-

[lunar-lynx]

I'm nervous.
Ya know, that kind of scared nervousness that makes your hands shake?
I recently decided to come out and say that I am Bisexual, I am Atheist, and I am finally proud of who I am.
I putting my identity together piece by piece.
What makes me nervous you ask?
My Grandparents.
My wonderful, God-loving, Christian Grandparents.
I've always been their "Number One," as my Grandma calls me.
They aren't going want a grandkid that doesn't believe in their God.
A kid that goes against the Bible simply by not being straight.
How am I supposed to tell them this?
How am I supposed to tell them I don't believe in god and I'm interested in girls too?
How am I supposed to tell them that I have so many reasons not to believe and not a single one to believe?
How am I supposed to introduce my family to my girlfriend when I'm almost 100% positive I'll be rejected and probably have a Bible shoved in my face?
I don't want to hide these things from them..
They're my family after all and we've always been so close..

[dead poets society]

Can I have a hug please?

I'd rather not talk about it on a public thread...

(It makes me sound like a hormonal, self-centered jerk....)

PM me whenever. I can help anyone's problem.

[whoopsydaizy]

I'm in so much pain. I hate migraines.
In the past week I've had three.. One last Tuesday, one yesterday and now one today.
This is really going to affect my dang grades missin so much school. The pain is unbearable; I get nauseous and my head pounds. Plus I get spots making my eyesight kinda weird so I stumbled and bump into things.
Today I thought I was fine.. but suddenly the spots came in second hour and I knew I was getting another migraine. When going to third hour I almost bumped into someone and I was just really hurting. Asked my teacher to go to the nurse, she let me with no hesitation.
So I went to the nurse, mom picked me up, we went to the doctors .. turns out I'll probably get migraines quite frequently.. /: kinda wish I didn't.. but we have medicine like ibuprofen for me... I took it but I'm still in so much pain right now and I'm crying. I hate it.
I just need some comfort. Something to make me happy. ;-;

I feel for you. *hugs* I've had migraines since I was very, very young. And trust me, normal pain killers will not work. Ditch them, get some head scans (it may be something else), and some real medication for those things. When I get migraines I can't function at all, and I can't sleep it out. I can't even move my jaw as it hurts so much, so I talk weird. And if I move to fast it just makes it worse, (standing up fast) so I just sob or take a hot shower or something.

I have a few tips, that I'm unsure if it'll help you, but it's worth a shot, right?

First that springs to mind is a hot shower, but if you feel sleepy during migraines (which most do, but some people can pass out if they're too tired, while I can't as I have insomnia, so I don't just fall asleep or pass out) I wouldn't do it, unless you know what you are doing. (I use to sleep in showers as a kid during migraines)

If that doesn't help, but the sound of running water does, just pop on the tap, and listen. (I also found certain frog noises help) If you have a pet, sit with him/her, pet him/her.

Back to the water - maybe try a hot bath with soap. Blow bubbles. After awhile, I tend to feel light-headed, but distracted. (I use to do that as a kid) But.. light-headed feelings also distract..

And pacing helps me some, don't know why. Just no-effort pacing. Don't have to stand straight, can thump, etc. as long as it helps. (I use to do this until I puked.. ehh.. I tend to feel a bit better after puking) I'd reccomend either a heating pad on your forehead or an ice pack on your neck, too, I guess. And EAT once your stomach settles/before your migraines kicks in. I wish I had some sort of clue, for me, as I don't have aura's normally. (aura = spots, feeling, etc) If you eat, it'll be better than dry-heaving, which'll just set your head off more. And it'll make you feel stronger.

Oh and mellatonin (sp?) or graval. Anything that makes you sleepy, if you can mix it with your (hopefully) medication from the doctor. If you just want run-of-your-mill pain medication that isn't specially for your migraines, try muscle relaxers. I take them sometimes. Can help. It's all a gamble for me. Even my special medication.

Good luck! <33

[Mario]

I need a hug right now.

I was just informed that my old best online friend died a bit ago....

I just...