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Big Friend Problems...

Postby Tiny Bubbles » Fri Apr 30, 2010 7:27 am

I've fallen out with 2 of the 3 people I walk to and from school with.
The only person out of those 3 that's still my friend is my BFF who I've known since I was 3 years old. The other two are her friends, and all three of them are a year older than me. Yesterday, one of my friends friends was off. Lets call her No.1.
No.1 had to stay off school that day and my BFF, me and the other person, No.2 were all walking to school. BFF and No.2 were talking about No.1 so I said one tiny thing that wasn't almost as bad as what they said.
Now, today this morning, No.1 confronted me about it. When asked, I told her that Bff and No.2 were both talking about her too. Immediatly, No.2 made up an excuse that they were talking about someone else, even though it was obvious that they weren't. Cause No.1 knows them better than she knows me, she believed them and acted a little off with me.
Later on, on the way home, I had another friend coming home with me, lets call her Ell. Ell doesn't know No.1, No.2 or BFF well at all, so I walked ahead a little, and No.1 and No.2 accused me of ditching them. We waited for them, coz they are such slow walkers, but seconds later they were heading back to get some other friends of theirs, so me and Ell kept walking. At the top of the hill, No.2 started shouting at me, saying Why are you ditching us? She said keep walking, but we waited. When they caught up, No.2 started saying "I said just walk on. And don't give us growlers ever again!" I wasn't even giving them growlers! Obviously, she needs her eyesight tested.
After that, No.1, No.2 and the other friends started talking about me loudly so I could hear. I did my best to ignore them, but it was so hard.
We usually all get the train together, but me and Ell wanted to walk coz it was a nice day, so we did. On the way home, I did my best to talk about other things, but it didn't work. I ended up insulting No.1 a lot.
We were almost home, when I saw my mum. As soon as I explained what had happened, I actually broke down crying, and I hardly ever cry. I'm actually crying again now because of it...
Minutes later, I had to explain it again to my dad. Now, instead of walking to school with them, I'm wondering if I should just get the bus, along with a different person who hates me, but also my other friends. And walking home with my other friends too, or maybe getting a lift from someone.

Can anyone help me with my problems? What should I do?
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Re: Big Friend Problems...

Postby Cashcash » Fri Apr 30, 2010 7:53 am

Well i don't think you need friends like that. I would just stay way or stop taking to them. It sounds like there just trying to make you upset. Don't let it work.
I'm quitting for a while, And giving all my pets to my friend .:dragonfly:. I will be going on her account some times so if you need to contact me send her a pm so she can tell me. Bye bye CS.
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Re: Big Friend Problems...

Postby Tiny Bubbles » Fri Apr 30, 2010 7:57 am

Cashcash wrote:Well i don't think you need friends like that. I would just stay way or stop taking to them. It sounds like there just trying to make you upset. Don't let it work.


I am trying, but I hardly ever get to see my BFF apart from the way to and from school... Cause she's a year older, I'm not in any of her classes, and she's busy most days after school. I know she's still my friend because she was waving and smiling at me in school when we were walking past each other. Us two have never fallen out over anything, and I don't want to lose her just because two people are being idiots.
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Re: Big Friend Problems...

Postby Cashcash » Fri Apr 30, 2010 8:38 am

Well if shes really your BFF then tell her that No.1 & No.2 are really bugging you maybe she can talk to them
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Re: Big Friend Problems...

Postby Tiny Bubbles » Fri Apr 30, 2010 8:43 am

Cashcash wrote:Well if shes really your BFF then tell her that No.1 & No.2 are really bugging you maybe she can talk to them


She kinda already knows though, but she can't really stick up for me or she'll be on her own in classes, cause they'll fall out with her too. I'm thinking I'll just need to find someone else to walk home with, and hope that me and her are still friends after No.1 and No.2 calm down again.
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Re: Big Friend Problems...

Postby Cashcash » Fri Apr 30, 2010 8:47 am

Well it's not a very serious problem, I'm sure tgey will get over it soon XP
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Re: Big Friend Problems...

Postby Tiny Bubbles » Fri Apr 30, 2010 8:58 am

Hopefully. Thanks for helping Cashcash!
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