Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Wolfie♥Louis]

Hmm, if I were you and I was able to muster to courage to talk to him, I would be like "Hey,I was wondering if you wanted to catch a movie or something, maybe meet up on *Insert day here*, like a date?" But then that might be bold to say. I don't know...

I don't think I'd be able to get up the courage to say something like that, although I'd want to. And it's usually him that plans stuff, besides when I have parties or something so I'd feel awkward saying it. Thanks, though.

Any other thoughts/suggestions? (from anybody)

Strange unrelated note, i just looked at the forecast and it says it's still nighttime here... at *gasp* 12:34PM

Sorry I couldn't help more, but on another note, I myself need some advice:
I really like this guy, I mean I really really like him, but everyone says that it is weird and unnatural for me to (We have a slight age gap) I get teased just for liking him and if I were to ask him out or tell him I loved him, I am afraid something would happen really bad, but I can't go on without him knowing I like him What do I do?

[Wolfie♥Louis]

Thank you ^^ I think I will or at least try.

[Wolfie♥Louis]

Well I was talking to Harmonia, but the same advice goes for you, too! Just tell him! You can do it. Who cares what other people think. :] Just give it a shot and see what happens. If it doesn't work out it's not a big deal at all. You'll never get anywhere romantically if you never try. :]

Oh awkward^^, but thanks again, I guess that you are right, but I just get so nervous...

[Saule]

I suppose I probably am overthinking it, i do really want him to know I like him.... But I just don't know what I'd say :[ I'm not seeing him for a while though, so i suppose I could text him... If someone helped me with thinking of what to say...

[lily109]

I just found out my crush likes me too. :O He doesn't know I know though...Because he told his sister which is my best friend, and told her not to tell me, but she told me anyway...But he doesn't know she told me...I feel bad for him that she told me though....But I"m also happy that I know he likes me too. But the problem is, how do I make the first move? He is not going to ask me out or anything, he is way to shy for that. XD So I am the one who is going to need to ask him...And I really don't want it to be weird, we are really good friends but I really want him to know I feel more for him then just a friend.....I"ve had a crush on him for two years now! Any help would be greatly appreciated, I am also reading all the articles on the front page.

[KimSueKimmy]

Try to tell your father too; if both your parents know, then thats better than one knowing and the other being completely in the dark. If your mother and father think that you "shouldn't" do anything about it, then take matters into your own hands. I know all too well what that feels like, and only you know how scared and panicky you feel.

If you want someone to know, then I'd suggest popping into your local police station to ask a professional what to do, and take someone older with you that you trust. They will have come across cases like this hundreds of times a year (it's rather common now these days sadly). Ask to speak to someone when you get there, and tell them everything. Be attentive, give them eye contact and re-enforce how concerned you are. Lots of adults won't take a minor seriously so it's important that you tell them how it makes you feel and that you don't know what to do. If they can't do anything legal, then at least they can advise you. Or you could find their number to give their office a call, and obviously not use the emergency number.

Ok I think I could do that. I suppose.

[Dobby_1999]

Okay. I need some advice on what to do. The Russian hat guy I have a crush on sits next to me 1st lesson tomorrow. The really annoying kid who says we should go out sit opposie Russian hat dude. One of my BFFs sits opposite me. In maths on Monday one of my friends said 'Dobby!* Commie likes you!' I'm not sure if that was a joke or not He looked kind of embarrassed when she said it. I just gave them this look: . I'm not just worried about getting called a commie for going out with him I'm also a bit worried for my frienship's sake. What I mean is that if I get a BF then will I still be able to hang around with my BFF as much as I do now. She has helped me with my other crush. I really don't know...


*Dobby is not my real name. I'm just following the site rules

I don't mean to re-post but I really need some help.

[Saule]

I just found out my crush likes me too. :O He doesn't know I know though...Because he told his sister which is my best friend, and told her not to tell me, but she told me anyway...But he doesn't know she told me...I feel bad for him that she told me though....But I"m also happy that I know he likes me too. But the problem is, how do I make the first move? He is not going to ask me out or anything, he is way to shy for that. XD So I am the one who is going to need to ask him...And I really don't want it to be weird, we are really good friends but I really want him to know I feel more for him then just a friend.....I"ve had a crush on him for two years now! Any help would be greatly appreciated, I am also reading all the articles on the front page.

You should just tell him you like him, you know he won't reject you :3 But if you are still nervous, you could be all coy like "what would you do if I told you i liked you?" or something. Or just one day say "I like you and I am taking you on a date!" being very straightforward like that does help with nervousnes, with me at least. Or you could act like you'r unsure like "hey, I've liked you for a while and I really want you to know.. I don't know if you like me too or anything...etc"

[lily109]

Thank you so much for the help, Harmonia I"m going to play it safe and choose the last option...."Hey, I"ve liked you for a while and I really want you to know..." But I need to find a time alone with him, my friends always seem to be around when were together.

[Mistress Shadow.]

Ugh, I'm starting to get really scared. My crush wasn't at school again. I'm really afraid that he moved, and I'll never be able to tell him how I really feel... :C