Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Zeee]

[ i'd like help from someone with experience ]

im just gonna use real names (not last names, only first, none of them go on here, and im pretty sure you can tell who is male and who isn't XD)...

~ key ~
brett - crush, best friend
hailey - best friend
emily - hailey's sister

okay, here goes-

So, I really, really like Brett. He's hilarious, sarcastic (like me), and loves to have fun (like me). He's many, many other good things; too many to list. He's... Perfect :'D
Again, I really, really like him. But.. so does Hailey. We don't fight over him, but she's all sad and stuff. Why? Here;
So, a few weeks ago Hailey called me to tell me that Emily was talking on the bus with Brett, and Brett said that he really liked a girl named 'Hannah -insert last name here-', and he said her full name. The thing is, THAT'S ME. <3 I'm Hannah -insert last name here-!! I was so excited, and Hailey then proceeded to ask me to hang out. I went over to her house, and she was really sad because we both really like him, and she was telling me how pretty I am and was like, "Oh, how could he NOT like you? You're gorgeous!" But like in a sad, jealous way. I feel bad... but... I really, really, really, really like him and if he asks me out, of course im gonna say yes.

But Brett's seeming all shy lately. Though, I think that's because Hailey figured out that he liked me and he's not trying to show it, but he's 'not showing it' a little stronger than usual, and when Hailey asked him if he liked me apparently he was blushing, laughing, hesitating, and he fidgeted- apparently he looked like he was lying, like alot.
<3

Okay, the other problem?
I want Brett to know that I like him, but... I don't want him to figure out by me telling him. To me, that's too original, and apparently it is to him too. He doesn't want a girl to just walk up to him and say all cheesily that she likes him, but not through a note or text either. Should I tell him... by a friend? Should I get Hailey (she already said that If i'd ever ask, she'd tell him, so it's okay don't worry guys XD) to tell him?
Who/what should I get/do to let him know? :c

So, in other, smaller words I need help with-
- What I should be looking for to see if Brett likes me, or should I get Emily to ask him again or not
And.. - What should I do to let him know that I like him

[Kecko]

We played a game tonight and one of the cards was "perfect" and he said that card described in one word so I was thinking of messaging him that the game had kinda already rated him, would that sound dumb?

NO! its PERFECT! (lol) its great to start a conversation and to get him to notice you like him :3

Ok, I might tomorrow then, I need time to think on it, I'm kinda shy and a friendship ended wrong with the last guy I liked, this guy though I can't get out of my head and remember almost everything he says, and smile randomly at just the thought of what he said that made me smile it's crazy but I have trouble talking to him online, but I might try tomorrow, thanks so much for the help!

[..:Straw Cat:..]

I don't know what to do... I really really like this one guy but I don't know how he feels but I know he's nice, sweet and he is also very uncaring about what his friends do to hime. I never liked someone this much but I dodnt know what to say I've asked him twice and never got a solid answer! Please help

SOMEONE HELP

[i_am_elizabeth]

I don't know what to do... I really really like this one guy but I don't know how he feels but I know he's nice, sweet and he is also very uncaring about what his friends do to hime. I never liked someone this much but I dodnt know what to say I've asked him twice and never got a solid answer! Please help

SOMEONE HELP

Walk up to him, look him in the eye, and say "I like you (insert name here). Now I need to know, do you like me, or should I leave now?" andif he says maybe, start to turn away and say "Yes or No. It's that simple."

[Folvey]

First of all, I'm new here, so it's nice to meet you all :3 I come here for advice.
So I'm in need of help, desperately. My boyfriend of almost a year and my mother have some conflict. I met my boyfriend at a county fair and we hit it off, this isn't the part my mother has a problem with. I'm in high school and have a 3.24 GPA. My boyfriend on the other hand is trying to get a GED because he has less than 1/4 of the credits needed to pass high school and is in his final years of high school. He's tried independent study, but it didn't work out for him. My mama is worried about this because I plan on going to one of the finest art schools in my country and I'm currently meeting all the requirements, while his future doesn't look as bright as mine. Another problem, also, is that he complains about his grandparents a lot. He lives with them since his mother is unstable and they're a bit mentally abusive (I've witnessed it first-"paw,") so I personally think he has the right to complain but my mother says that since they've raised him, he needs to be nothing but grateful. Now, don't get me wrong, I agree with her to some extent, but if she had saw what I had then maybe she would get it a bit more. And lastly, he chose his best friend over me before. It was at his party and my friend and I started crying and ran off, my boyfriend didn't bother to come looking for us but since then, we've worked everything out and he's stopped talking to his ex-best friend.
After all of this, my mother obviously doesn't trust him anymore. My mom is currently married to an abusive man so of course she's going to be more concerned than the average person. Another concern of hers is do to my mental issues, I don't take out my depression in the healthiest way. She says he is controlling and a loser, she always puts him down in front of me. She thinks he's controlling because he expressed that he wanted to go to the same school as me, and my mom didn't know that I had asked him to so she took it the wrong way. I'm tired of my mom going off about I could find someone better and how much of a loser he is in front of me, every time I try to talk to her about it we argue. Does anyone have any advice on this situation? I really love my boyfriend and want my mom to appreciate him and know I'm in good hands.

I hate to repost, but does anyone have an answer?

[Zeee]

I don't know what to do... I really really like this one guy but I don't know how he feels but I know he's nice, sweet and he is also very uncaring about what his friends do to hime. I never liked someone this much but I dodnt know what to say I've asked him twice and never got a solid answer! Please help

SOMEONE HELP

When you asked him, what did he look like? Did he look down, did he look around the room or wherever you were, did he blush, did he laugh, did he hesitate, did he fidget with something?
It really depends on his actions. If he did any of those, he was probably just embarassed and nervous and probably likes you. What Angel said is an option, but I wouldn't put it such that way- I'd more say something like, "I have a serious question for you." Then ask him if he likes you. As Angel said, if he says maybe or doesn't answer for a while, start to walk away; "Yes or No. It's as simple as that".

[Dobby_1999]

Okay so I've got to sit next to my crush in English today and threally annoying kid who says we should go out sit opposite my crush. Please give me some advice ASAP.

[Saule]

I want to tell my crush I like him, but I don't think I could get up the courage to tell him face-to-face. But I hear it's, like, taboo to tell someone you like them over text, but that's what I think I'd be able to do... So, what's the whole deal with that? I mean, is it weird if I text him that I like him? And if I did decide to, how would I go about saying that? Or what would an alternative to texting be? How could I muster up the courage to tell him face-to-face? And what would I say? I am going to wait a bit before I tell him though, 'cause I don't want to tell him too soon after another friend asked someone out. (He (the other friend) was rejected in case anyone is curious for whatever reason.) Also, I need to wait for advice, hehe. And just to clarify, I just want to tell my crush that I like him, I don't want to be all like "wanna date me?" or anything, just "I like you, what do you think about that?" type whatever. Any and all advice/tips would be greatly appreciated!!
~Thanks!!~

[Nellas]

Hi, Nellie. Pleased to meet you. ;D

Yes, the looks thing is something that is bothering me because I don't think he would be attracted to me. I guess it sounds silly now that I'm thinking more about it because maybe he prefers a girl that looks completely opposite of him. With the hint thing, I have a feeling maybe he does like me back. Mainly because he is the shyest person I've ever met and he almost never talks. But he talks to me a little. It's not a lot but I don't care because at least he's talking to me at all, right? I will try to talk to him more; I want to. Clingy isn't good and I certainly won't act like that, if I can help it... ;3

Thanks for the advice, it was great. I'll try to talk to him and see where this might go. :3

Pleased to meet you too c:

Why wouldn't he be attracted to you? I mean, guys don't like girls based on how similar they appear. They may like a certain characteristic but as far as I know, it doesn't necessairily have to be one they share. I'm a sucker for green eyes, which just happens to be my own color, but I'm not going to say a guy is unnattractive if he has, say, brown eyes. And a handful of guys who've liked me have nothing in common. I'm blonde, they've brown hair, I have green eyes, they have brown. You know what I mean? So I don't think you need to worry about that part. It's your personality he should mainly be attracted to.
Yes, he might (I don't know him, obviously, and don't have a lot of info about your situation, but it's always a possibility c:) It's good that your friendly enough, and that he talks to you <3 Yes, I have a feeling you won't act clingy, but always try to be aware of how your actions may convey to you the other person.

You're welcome, any time c: I'm glad I helped a little.

~Nellie <3

[Charlie14]

I just need advice on a new situation me and my friends got dumped in
our friend is going our with our other friend's oldest sister and they said they want us to be there in case anything in their relationship goes wrong and they need help but we are scared we might say the wrong thing and we don't want either of our friends to get hurt