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Re: ...Comfort?...Insults?...Anything?

Postby Rolly-chan » Sat Mar 13, 2010 1:05 am

FeatherLostForever wrote:Meh, I think I need help again. I'm tempted to leave CS now because of my current position. There's a lot of people who hate me

Now, honestly, are you a wimp, or what's up with you? Do you always chicken out like that when something doesn't go the way you like it?
If you want something to change, then stop complaining and DO something already. Apologize to the people you think hate you, if you absolutely think you need to.
Try to make a better impression on people here - and you won't achieve that if you only complain that everyone hates you and you think about leaving.
Most people don't think "Oh, poor lamb". Instead they think "Oh, another person looking for attention :roll:"

Face the truth. No one will "save" you. You need to "save" yourself first.
So get the hell out of your corner of self-pity and show those people out there that you're a nice, friendly and lovely person.

No one will get out of that mess for you. So if you really WANT to change that, you will at least try, and not ignore this post of mine like the last one -_-

kaiyodei wrote::/ not to mini mod but isn't this more suited for Live Journal or Myspace?

Well, actually, it is.
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Re: ...Comfort?...Insults?...Anything?

Postby theawsomepumaheart » Sat Mar 13, 2010 1:35 am

aww hope you feel better soon *hug*
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Re: ...Comfort?...Insults?...Anything?

Postby pizzas and scream » Sat Mar 13, 2010 3:00 am

theawsomepumaheart wrote:aww hope you feel better soon *hug*


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Re: ...Comfort?...Insults?...Anything?

Postby rabbithaver » Sat Mar 13, 2010 12:00 pm

Rolly-chan wrote:
FeatherLostForever wrote:Meh, I think I need help again. I'm tempted to leave CS now because of my current position. There's a lot of people who hate me

Now, honestly, are you a wimp, or what's up with you? Do you always chicken out like that when something doesn't go the way you like it?
If you want something to change, then stop complaining and DO something already. Apologize to the people you think hate you, if you absolutely think you need to.
Try to make a better impression on people here - and you won't achieve that if you only complain that everyone hates you and you think about leaving.
Most people don't think "Oh, poor lamb". Instead they think "Oh, another person looking for attention :roll:"

Face the truth. No one will "save" you. You need to "save" yourself first.
So get the hell out of your corner of self-pity and show those people out there that you're a nice, friendly and lovely person.

No one will get out of that mess for you. So if you really WANT to change that, you will at least try, and not ignore this post of mine like the last one -_-

kaiyodei wrote::/ not to mini mod but isn't this more suited for Live Journal or Myspace?

Well, actually, it is.


Everytime someone else makes a post like this, everyone goes and gives them comfort and not posts like this one. Anyone want to explain why that is? :?

And by the way, I don't have a myspace. Or whatever Live Journal is.
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Re: ...Comfort?...Insults?...Anything?

Postby omori » Sat Mar 13, 2010 12:03 pm

Feather, listen:
I'm sorry if there's something I've done that made you upset; but that's not the point of this post. I've got a few words of advice fir you, 'kay?

1) If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always gotten. If you continue to do everything the same every day of your life, nothing will ever change.

2) You're not alone. There are lots of people who might feel like everything they do is wrong. Maybe you should start a group on a different website who feel the same as you, and talk with people that understand completely.

3) Ignore! Believe me, I've moved five months ago to a new school, and half the kids are racist. I have made about two friends in five months, and three real friends for the whole rest of my life before the move. I have learned to ignore the jerks. They have nothing you want, and therefore are not worth your energy.

4) Watch the movie "Odd Girl Out". Just do it, you might learn something.
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Re: ...Comfort?...Insults?...Anything?

Postby Animallover610 » Sat Mar 13, 2010 12:04 pm

If you need someone to talk to, I'm here. I am the type of person who likes to hear people vent and give them tips.
And talk to your counsler.
And I agree. It'll be like walking into glass and keep doing it, thinking you can get through.
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Re: ...Comfort?...Insults?...Anything?

Postby Rolly-chan » Sun Mar 14, 2010 12:26 am

FeatherLostForever wrote:Everytime someone else makes a post like this, everyone goes and gives them comfort and not posts like this one. Anyone want to explain why that is? :?

And by the way, I don't have a myspace. Or whatever Live Journal is.

Maybe because they just want to post something, not matter what it is.
And "I hope you will feel better soon" is shorter than posts like mine.
Do those short posts help you? Are you feeling better because people on the internet tell you to brighten up? Or that they hope you'll feel better? Do you actually believe that they really hope that?

My post wasn't meant as an insult. It was rather meant as a kick in the head post to make you at least think about what I wrote.
Because if you don't start to do something, nothing's going to change. And note that this is my personal experience.
You can take your life into your own hands instead of letting others having control over it.

Live Journal is an online community. You can have your own "diary", but there are also communities you can join. Once you joined them, you can post to those communities and talk to other people via comments and such.
There are all sorts of communities. For every genre, fandom, interest or whatever else you can think of.
Of course you also have a private message function.
Posts like that are usually posted in online diaries. That's why kaiyodei made that remark.
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Re: ...Comfort?...Insults?...Anything?

Postby meike0609 » Sun Mar 14, 2010 1:36 am

I'm sorry that you so despise but I'll have the same was done by continued strong and able to defend yourself
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Re: ...Comfort?...Insults?...Anything?

Postby kitten; » Sun Mar 14, 2010 2:50 am

Rolly-chan wrote:
FeatherLostForever wrote:Meh, I think I need help again. I'm tempted to leave CS now because of my current position. There's a lot of people who hate me

Now, honestly, are you a wimp, or what's up with you? Do you always chicken out like that when something doesn't go the way you like it?
If you want something to change, then stop complaining and DO something already. Apologize to the people you think hate you, if you absolutely think you need to.
Try to make a better impression on people here - and you won't achieve that if you only complain that everyone hates you and you think about leaving.
Most people don't think "Oh, poor lamb". Instead they think "Oh, another person looking for attention :roll:"

Face the truth. No one will "save" you. You need to "save" yourself first.
So get the hell out of your corner of self-pity and show those people out there that you're a nice, friendly and lovely person.

No one will get out of that mess for you. So if you really WANT to change that, you will at least try, and not ignore this post of mine like the last one -_-


(Yes. Thank you. Took out a long list for me.)

Oh.....wow. That's a long list. Did you at least try telling your parents about your friends? And anyway, you have to ignore those jerks. They just want to see you react, adn that's what they feed off of. Getting depressed will not help. You have to stand up for waht's right-these people have no right to treat you like that. You can't change the world, Feather, you can only change yourself. So you have to make these people stop. If you came into school one day and completely ignore them, be happy and be grateful that you're actually alive, they would stop within a while. Two of my cats are dead. Your bunny is dead. Haven't you realized by now that you need to actually live life to it's fullest? Because when you're on your deathbed, you will regret all of this wasted time crying, trust me.
Oh, and another word of advice for ya: Counselers really can't help. They listen to what's wrong and then they tell your parents about it, when you could've just saved soem money and told your parents yourself.

We are really trying to help, you just have to stand up and stop wallowing in your pit of self-pity. I understand that your bunny is dead and how bad that that can feel, but you aren't going to get the past back. Don't be sad that your bunny is dead, be happy that it was alive.

((I would buy some chocolate. Chocolate and grief mix well...))
(And read the quote in my signature, please. It's one of my favorites and it does help in your situation. You can buy the book if you like-just be warned, it's an adult book. But it is very enlightening.)
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Re: ...Comfort?...Insults?...Anything?

Postby pizzas and scream » Sun Mar 14, 2010 3:04 am

Rolly-chan wrote:
FeatherLostForever wrote:Everytime someone else makes a post like this, everyone goes and gives them comfort and not posts like this one. Anyone want to explain why that is? :?

And by the way, I don't have a myspace. Or whatever Live Journal is.

Maybe because they just want to post something, not matter what it is.
And "I hope you will feel better soon" is shorter than posts like mine.
Do those short posts help you? Are you feeling better because people on the internet tell you to brighten up? Or that they hope you'll feel better? Do you actually believe that they really hope that?

My post wasn't meant as an insult. It was rather meant as a kick in the head post to make you at least think about what I wrote.
Because if you don't start to do something, nothing's going to change. And note that this is my personal experience.
You can take your life into your own hands instead of letting others having control over it.

Live Journal is an online community. You can have your own "diary", but there are also communities you can join. Once you joined them, you can post to those communities and talk to other people via comments and such.
There are all sorts of communities. For every genre, fandom, interest or whatever else you can think of.
Of course you also have a private message function.
Posts like that are usually posted in online diaries. That's why kaiyodei made that remark.



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LJ is sterotyped as being the pitty hole of the net, or "LiveJournal, because your friends live in the computer"

new free accounts are coverd in ads, but you can choose the theme i think.
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