Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

['ye]

Okay, there is some guy I really like. Sometimes in the middle of lass, we exchange eye contact and smile. He's always friendly and tries to make a joke. We always ended up hanging out together. Well here's the problem. He's a social butterfly, So I can't tell if he just being friendly or likes me. I'm a shy person, and it's hard for me to talk to anyone except close friends.. So I'm not that good at figuring out these things..

[Mistress Shadow.]

I have no idea how, but I think someone if trying to flirt with me B/
We both have the same Band class, and we sit right next to each other, so it was natural that we talked to eachother. He's really nice (Well, most of the time xD) and I like him as a friend, but nothing more. A few times before he's struck me as cute, but I pushed those thoughts away. He's just a friend. Anyways, last Friday he looks at me and suddenly theres this akward feeling between us and he starts to ask me all these random questions. He didn't sound exactly right, like he wasn't himself. He almost sounded... Flirty. I don't know if he really was trying to flirt with me, since he hasn't done anything like that again, but I can't help but feel odd whenever I talk to him. I mean, he's really nice, and I want to just be friends him, and maybe theres a possibility that we could like eachother... If I didn't like love someone else...
*Le sigh* What do I do?

On the otherhand,

Theres this guy I met at the middle-ish beginning of the year, and he's a total spazz. A complete idiot, right? Well, the only reason we actually met/became friends was because he was moved to sit right across from me and my close friend. We became really good friends, and I never really thought about liking him, just being friends. This all changed when I had a dream about him. It was a really silly dream, and I don't know why it changed my feelings for him, but when I woke up, I just thought Yeah, I guess I like him and that was that. But, for the past few weeks... Wow. I've started noticing little kinks in his personality, found myself wondering what he's doing at various times of the day, and determining other little things. And this week has been total chaos. Our teacher was picking teams for Volleyball, and there was this moment when we both just looked at eachother, and then turned away. Most magical 3 seconds of my life. And, he was picked to be on my team. I almost went insane. The only problem is, I think he knows I like him, and he's torturing me with it ((For more details, PM me)) I really want to tell him I like him, but I'm afraid he won't like me back, and everyone will think I'm some idiot who is in love with someone totally out of her league. *Le dreamy sigh* I really need help with this...

Alright, I've had about enough of my friends crush. He makes fun of her, calls her rude names, and makes her cry, and yet she's still in love with him. Him and his friends know she likes him, and instead of handling it the mature way, he makes her feel like an abused, lovesick puppy who's been kicked a few to many times. Yesterday she told me he made her cry, and today he made her feel like she was never going to amount to anything. Me and my other friend are trying to make her feel better, but she keeps on loving this fishstick of a guy who makes her feel like crud. I hate seeing her like this, she's so sweet, and she's normally so happy... What can I do to make her feel better?

Sorry for the long post... Derp

[booklover789]

@Dachshund Lover,
He likes you. Either that or he enjoys annoying you. (Which still means he might have feelings for you.)



@ZeldaFreak,
Ask him in person. Ask him if he'll go out with you. In my experience, notes NEVER work. Just act normal around him, like you were during the 7 months. If he still likes you, he'll let you know. But be cautious. You never know what boys will do.



@Queen Chrysalis,
If you catch him staring at you, or being around you more than normally, the chances are he likes you. Also...if he remembers random information about you...he most likely likes you.



@Derpy,
I'll assess your problems in the order you listed them.

If this guy likes you, and you don't like him back, just ignore him. Or just be cordial to him. DON'T flirt back, unless you're completely sure you like him.

If you like this guy, TELL HIM. If you don't tell him...You'll spend the rest of your life wondering what it would've been like if you told him. DO NOT live with that. Just tell him. And if he doesn't like you back...you'll find someone else. Trust me.

As for your friend, has she told her mother about this? Have you told your mother or a mature adult that you can trust about this? This sounds like a serious problem that could escelate into something MUCH worse. I'd tell an adult as SOON as you can. Maybe what they can tell your friend will actually get through to her, as no one deserves to be treated like that.

[boat]

Someone asked me out, and I said I wasn't ready yet. That was 3 weeks ago. Now they are asking again. I don't know that person very well, and I don't know what I should say! Help please?

[Charlie14]

Rachet it's ok not to be ready yet you need more time to get to know this guy then once you got to really know this guy then you might be ready

RedNiNeTails I can understand your nervous I think you just need to say to yourself quietly over and over I am not nervous
a few things you could tell yourself is I don't need to be nervous over and over or try saying If I talk to this guy I can stop being nervous try saying things to yourself quietly as you this guy cause if you say stuff over and over your brain can send messages telling you your not nervous

[booklover789]

@Rachet,
As Charlie14 has already stated, it's perfectly normal to feel like you're not ready for something. Just say that you aren't comfortable enough with them yet, and that you'll tell them when you're comfortable enough to go out with them.

[Sorren Fey]

Well I thought I’d post here just to get this out

There is a boy at my school that I have a crush on. We have no class together and I’ve only talked to him a couple times but there are ways I can talk to him. The thing is I’m just too nervous. Like today, I was walking down to the lunch room and he was as well and because I’m a fast walker I soon realized that I was closing the gap between us. Some people might find that as a great opportunity but instead I slowed down, like a lot, and I made some weird faces....since when I’m nervous I think stuff to myself and my face just so happens to be very...expressive. So then when we were almost to the lunch room I hurried into it and then sped walked to my table...ugh. And this wouldn't be that big of a thing if it weren't for the fact that I’m pretty sure he knows that I like him T-T thanks so much guys for being so 'discrete' about it XD And he glanced back at me a few times when I was walking down the hall... I'm sure he doesn't love me or anything like that but I don't know, I don't think he's repulsed by me... Maybe I think he’s a little interested. I'm not quite sure but is there any advice that someone could give me as to maybe help me not be so nervous? Like why I shouldn’t be that nervous? This is just because I’ve noticed that whenever he’s around I shy up and then it seems like he thinks I don’t like him because I get all weird or straight faced when I was perfectly happy and smiling a moment before. *sigh*

Rachet it's ok not to be ready yet you need more time to get to know this guy then once you got to really know this guy then you might be ready

RedNiNeTails I can understand your nervous I think you just need to say to yourself quietly over and over I am not nervous
a few things you could tell yourself is I don't need to be nervous over and over or try saying If I talk to this guy I can stop being nervous try saying things to yourself quietly as you this guy cause if you say stuff over and over your brain can send messages telling you your not nervous

Okay, thanks, i think i'll try that. It could help me from thinking that i'm weird and stuff to focus on my nerves XD

[rachiechu888]

My poor friend... My friend, K, had a crush on this guy named C. One of her friends told C that K likes him, and C said he hated her. Then K decided to go out with this other guy... S. Her friends set up a date, but one of S's friends told him to break up with K. Also, I think C is dating one of my good friends. And C is a FREAKIN' AWESOME artist! Lol, so any way, I really want to help my friend, but what should I do. Also, I'm afraid that if I try to become friends with C, (I want drawing tips! XD) then it might make my friend jealous. WHAT DO I DO???!!!

[~IronRose~]

So the talent show and while I was performing, I spited my Crush, C, and I couldn't read his expression.

[Auyn]

Ok so, i have no idea if this guy, whom i like, likes me back.... (His name is Ryan)

I think he might like this girl (lets call her H), or this other girl, but not as much, (E)

So, he hangs around H alot, but, it might also be because he sits next to her in science. But he sometimes sits next to her intentionally, but i dunno. He sometimes looks at me, and sometimes he says my name and teases me.

Things we have in common:
liking scifi
liking doctor who
liking firefly (the show)
asian
same age.

Almost all those things both E and H dont have in common with him, and the only thing they do is the same age.
I plan on confessing to him via note on Tuesday after school, during our orchestra concert/graduation. If you have any questions, i can answer them, i just and bad at explaining things. Does he like me?