Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[nopenope123]

I have a little of a problem, you could say. Well...I often find myself beeing stupid in the precence of ym crush. At least he seems to think that I'm stupid. I sat weird things I find funny, and he just looks at me and says that it isn't fun. So...now I feeel bad because I'm actually avoiding him a little so I don't do anything stupid....but instead I find myself beeing all cold, and he probebly sees me as some weird cold person now...

[admires last delight]

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7 Ways to Get a Guy to Like You.

How to Talk to Guys:


How to talk to boys tip: 1

Guys like to talk about themselves. All people do. One of the easiest ways to get to know a boy is to ask him questions. You could ask, "What did you think of that test this morning?" or ask about some sport he's interested in. Don't ask questions that could be answered by yes or no, 'cause then the conversation is over. Music, TV shows, and movies are also good topics.



How to talk to boys tip: 2

Laughter is contagious. A wise man once said, "Laughter is the best medicine," and he was right. When you're happy and laughing, it's contagious, so don't be afraid of showing off your sense of humor. If making people laugh is not one of your strengths, search the Internet for jokes or fun anecdotes that you can bring up in conversation.



How to talk to boys tip: 3

Don't be a chatty Cathy. No one likes a chatterbox. When we're nervous, we all tend to ramble on, but overpowering a conversation and forgetting to ask questions shows a person you're not interested in hearing about them. Look for clues. If he's wearing a baseball cap, ask him how his team is doing. If he plays a particular video game, ask about his highest score. These types of questions will definitely instigate a conversation.



How to talk to boys tip: 4

Don't be so focused on impressing him that you're tempted to lie. While we all tend to embellish the truth a bit, you are much better off being open and honest. Lying about who you are will only come back to haunt you later on. Share the parts of your life that are most rewarding: your friends, your family, and your personal interests. Don't be afraid to talk about what you do best. It's not showing off. It's sharing.



How to talk to boys tip: 5

Try flirting. You don't have to read a book to know how. It's easy after you've tried it a few times. Flirting is a great way to show someone you're interested in getting to know them better. It's harmless and fun. Make eye contact. Offer him a smile. You'll be surprised how you'll naturally figure it out!



How to talk to boys tip: 6

Get up your courage and move out of your comfort zone. What's the worst that can happen? There's not a person alive who hasn't experienced rejection...and we haven't heard anyone die from it yet! Get involved in activities you enjoy and conversation will flow. Just make sure the boy you approach is worthy of someone as special as you. Remember our "how to talk to boys tips" next time he comes around. and you will be wondering why it was so hard before.

Hope this stuff helps!(:

['ye]

Okay, there is some guy I really like. Sometimes in the middle of lass, we exchange eye contact and smile. He's always friendly and tries to make a joke. We always ended up hanging out together. Well here's the problem. He's a social butterfly, So I can't tell if he just being friendly or likes me. I'm a shy person, and it's hard for me to talk to anyone except close friends.. So I'm not that good at figuring out these things..

[Saina Belaire]

Ok, so I have a seriously bad crush on a guy at my school who's in almost every class with me, and he talks to pretty much everybody. Except me. Of course, being a guy, he's confusing in almost every way. He practically avoids me like the plague, but looks at me a lot. The second he knows that I've noticed he's looking at me than he stops completely and looks most anywhere else. But he's really sweet and polite. He does random stuff for e sometimes too, like I was out in art and we're working on making a functional duck tape item and for no reason at all he made a length of rope that matched the length of rope I had made exactly. I've talked to him a couple of times, but it's like he runs out of words. And I can't even really talk to him easily because if I make eye contact with him every single intelligent thought just exits my head. So it's like I ignore him. But I really don't and just don't know what to do. I've asked my mom, but she's being really cryptic about it. She's not even hinting or anything and I don't know what to do. He might even know I like him since almost every girl in the class has figured it out and is talking about it. Please help me!

[peachie.]

sorry for not updating a lot, it's pretty busy at school. ^^
anyways, Goth girl is moping around still, whining how she doesn't have a boyfriend. She is desperate, and sometimes hits on R. He finds it repulsive he says.

tonight his brother and my brother were playing against each other in baseball, so I came and him and I hangout. At the start, he had his little cousin with him, but his cousin got bored and left. So it was just him and I at the park. We just talked, sat on the swings. We stalked a bunny so we could take pictures, then he scared the bunny and me at the same time. ;P we headed back to the baseball diamond, got teased by his mom then went separate ways. It wad cold out so we sat in our own cars, texting, while the game ended. Yeah, that was my night.

[WalkerNom]

Key;
B - My Boyfriend ^^;
R - Desperate Player [You know the type]
D - Guy who likes me...

Hmm, is it a good idea to leave your boyfriend alone while he has a bunch of tests?
Wow, B is having a busy month! All he's been doing is taking tests and studying. I've decided it was best to leave him alone while this is going on, this way I don't distract him. He needs to study, and doesn't need to be bothered by me. Then, on the other hand, I am worried I'll just make him mad at me by not talking to him as much. Plus, idk how long I can go without talking to him all day. I guess I'll just continue to wish him luck and ask him how each test went...did I mention I hate school??

[okamishiranu]

Ok, so I have a seriously bad crush on a guy at my school who's in almost every class with me, and he talks to pretty much everybody. Except me. Of course, being a guy, he's confusing in almost every way. He practically avoids me like the plague, but looks at me a lot. The second he knows that I've noticed he's looking at me than he stops completely and looks most anywhere else. But he's really sweet and polite. He does random stuff for e sometimes too, like I was out in art and we're working on making a functional duck tape item and for no reason at all he made a length of rope that matched the length of rope I had made exactly. I've talked to him a couple of times, but it's like he runs out of words. And I can't even really talk to him easily because if I make eye contact with him every single intelligent thought just exits my head. So it's like I ignore him. But I really don't and just don't know what to do. I've asked my mom, but she's being really cryptic about it. She's not even hinting or anything and I don't know what to do. He might even know I like him since almost every girl in the class has figured it out and is talking about it. Please help me!

he likes and he's emberassed. you should talk to him & ask him if he likes you.

[Lazy9248]

I was talking to my crush over Facebook (like we do almost every night) and turns out we watch almost all of the same tv shows. His favorite show is "Everybody Hates Chris" and so is mine. I mentioned that my dad thinks it's odd that I like "How it's made" and turns out he loves that show too... We talked about a lot of the tv shows we like, and we have so many things in common! I really think he likes me When I was in driver's training, I knew I was going to be late to our youth group. I mentioned it to him and he got me a seat and made me sit by him We went swimming and he kept swimming behind me and picking me up (my mom hated that he did that). He made me answer a question that had 2 answers and he picked the answer. If I guessed right he'd let me go, and if not he'd keep holding me. Then he tried to get me alone in the sauna, but it made my contacts dry, and my eyes burned so I left (I regret not staying). We have talked over Facebook every night for almost 6 months. Our conversations started when he was sick one day, and I felt bad so I was talking to him. Even his mom says that he talks to me more than any of his friends. We go to the same church and have been friends since we were little. I am trying to figure out if he likes me. My friend and my little brother think he likes me. Do you think he likes me? I'd appreciate any opinions thanks!!

Ugh my dad decided to nickname him my boyfriend lol so he keeps asking me about my "boyfriend" haha
P.s. if I erase this, I probably got self-conscious about someone I know reading this That happens lol and thanks for any opinions I appreciate them!

[Zeee]

Guise. I need help.

So, my bestie (h) called and said that her sister was talking to my crush (b) on the bus, and he said that he liked a girl with the initials HL. First of all, those are my initials. <3 THEN, he said the girls' first name- It was my name! My first and last name! I was so excited, and couldn't wait for school today (this was yesterday). H asked B who he liked, and again he said someone with the initials HL. There are no other people in my school with the initials HL.
Then H said, "Full name?" And he declined. So she's like, "Do you like -my full name here-?"
B said (apparently he was smiling, laughing, and hesitating, and basically it looked like he was lying), "Um.. no."
But as I said, he was smiling, laughing, and hesitating. What does that mean?
I really like him, but... what if it was just a joke? How can I tell?

I mean XD
He came up behind me today while I was talking to H and like, put both of his hands around my head. Im like, "What are you doing?" And we were laughing. He's like, "Im... feeling your hair."
XD He did that twice.

What does that mean?

[Lazy9248]

@tess (sorry im on my iPod) usually if a guy finds excuses to be around you or put his hands on you, it means he likes you. I think that he was amused that your friend figured out he liked you quickly and was partially embarrassed. Most guys are embarrassed to admit to liking a girl so they laugh it off as if it was a joke. I know this from watching how guys behave at school lol.... I hope this helped
EDIT: then again every guy is different so I think it depends on the guy