Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[KimSueKimmy]

Im having some trouble finding a boyfriend. I have tried everything (Or so it seems like I have). I've tried acting like a blonde, tried playing hard to get, tried just being myself, tried acting smart, tried acting dumb. I just can't get a guy to ask me out. And if I deveoped a crush on a guy, Im too scared to talk to him NORAMLLY!!!!
HELP!!!!!

[Acidic]

This dude keeps looking at me in french 'cause he knows my secret- he winks at me and moves his eyebrows around O.o it really freaks me out

[Scarlett Redd]

Today everyone told 'C' that I fancy him - we're good friends, and I do kinds fancy him, but it was really awkward, as he was sitting next to him in the lunch-hall. -.-
Help?

[arcticwolf]

Im having some trouble finding a boyfriend. I have tried everything (Or so it seems like I have). I've tried acting like a blonde, tried playing hard to get, tried just being myself, tried acting smart, tried acting dumb. I just can't get a guy to ask me out. And if I deveoped a crush on a guy, Im too scared to talk to him NORAMLLY!!!!
HELP!!!!!

I'm sorry if this offends you, but you're not going to get a guy if you don't act like your true SELF. Quit trying to act different. Guys hate it when they find out you're not acting as who you really are.
It irks me to no end when I see posts like this. Be yourself- life isn't about boyfriends. Don't try to force a guy into your life because it's not going to work. Just wait, and you'll find someone eventually.

[WalkerNom]

*Facepalms* -__-
So, that guy I was talking about a few days ago, the one that stares at me all the time...
I've decided he's worthy of a nickname here since I'm gonna be talking about him a lot. We'll call him D and
just to be clear, my boyfriend is B. So today, we had french class (the only class I have with D) at the end
of the day because of tests (our schedules are all messed up). I guess he was pretty darn hyper or
something because he came into class all happy and made a lot of noise. At least, that was before we
weren't the only two people in the classroom. Anyways, he was doing all sorts of things, whistling, tapping,
you name it. I guess it was an attempt to get my attention because when my friend came in, he started
commenting on everything we did.

Like, I gave her a piece of chocolate and when she was done, she threw the wrapper at me. And a pen.
So, I threw the pen back slightly harder than I should have and it bounced off of her and flew across
the room. Next thing I know, I have him smiling/laughing at me and saying, "She's being attacked!" I
found this a bit weird, so I ignored him.

Then, the class went on and the teacher walked in between me and D and he LEANED around her,
mind you, LEANED around the teacher to look at me and smile! Things like this happened the whole
class. Everytime I saw him looking at me, I quickly looked down at my desk and rested my head on my arm
so he couldn't see my face. A few times, when I glanced at him, his face was all red. Was he blushing?
Crying? Did he sneeze or yawn? I didn't hear a sneeze or a yawn...but ya know, I could be wrong.

I guess he's gained the courage to talk to me at least...although, I haven't the slightest clue of what to say
to him >.< Why me??

[TubsDeGoat]

So my freind's boyfriend hates me because I tell my freind everything her boyfriend talks about if it is bad. So her saw me and my friend walking down the street...and he was with his younger brother and brothers best friend[one year younger] and he ran away after trying to hide behind the tree. So his brother and his friend come over and talk to me and my friend and I ask where he is going. And he ends up being under the influence of drugs[smoking] and he has been telling her that he wasn't smoking anything. He has been lieing about everything and people are tryng to tell her that and she keeps believing her boyfreind over everyone. So it is really hard to watch her keep getting hurt and everything. I have tried almost every approch to get her to understand. I tried hinting, bluntly telling her, and like other people telling her and everything. But she keeps making excuses for him and her. Does anyone have any other ideas on how to help her? Thank you!





And today I put a duck tape flower I made for Dylan in his backpack and it took him forever to get all my hints and everything. I eventually just pulled it out of his backpack cause he couldn't get it xD so he is special <3 I don't think he realised that there was a note on it...maybe he will notice :3 he is so cute <3333

[Merely_Human]

I NEED MAJOR HELP!!!

Okay, so there is this total whore at my school, and somehow every time she can see I have a crush, she asks them out. (and of course they say yes, because she is a slut and they think they will get "lucky") Anyways, I don't tell her I like them she just.....knows. And it all started with a really cute guy named Elias. I had a major crush on him.....not stalking though......that's creepy. So after maybe 3 weeks she says "Hey you like Elias?" I didn't think anything of it, but then she walks up to him and says "Wanna go out with me??" (of course she is trying to act as "sexy" as possible) And like I said, the answer was yes. Three weeks after that she asks out a guy named Sebastian, whom I was majorly crushing on. So, any advice on how I could make that bullcrap stop?? If so, please PM me, it's a lot easier for me to check up on.

P.S. If this happens to any of you please let me know!!

-Love, Merely_Human

[ephemeral.light]

There's this guy who I'm sure likes me. We have to sit next to each other for most of our classes and we have the exact same schedule. In PE, he always runs at the same pace as me and right next to me even though we both know that he could have run faster if he would have wanted.

Since we sit next to each other, we do talk and have conversations. Whenever he looks at me he has this kind of light in his eyes. I only consider him a friend, and nothing more, but everyone else is always like "You know who likes you".

My friends are always saying how they texted him before asking him, "how goes your love life?" And he responded by saying that he had this huge crush on me. It started perhaps a month and a half ago.

The problem with all this is that I like this other shyer guy that nobody knows about. This is pretty much a secret and nobody knows about this. It makes me feel guilty, because even though I've never spoken with that person that I actually like, I get the feeling that he likes me back. I can't like two people at once. And this shy guy that I like.. he has this girl that likes him and does similar things to what this boy does to me. Every time, he expressed dislike for her attention while I don't exactly do that with his. How should I handle this?

I would like to still remain friends with him without hurting his feelings by telling him that I actually don't like him. And also, as a side question, any ideas on how to show the shyer guy that I like him?

[Kecko]

Posted this on the Young Adults Thread for help, what do you all think though?

I got to go with my crush and his family and mine to a concert tonight (Friday), I was sitting by him, it was really fun, he put his arm around my chair and my family member (who is usually mentioned when I post on here as I am always with him and my crush) and pulled our chairs closer to him. He also asked if I know how to dance, I don't and I told him that I never had, he then asked if I even knew how to slow dance, I said no, after that he said I had a lot to learn, I kinda hope he will ask if I'd like him to teach me or if I'd like to dance which is hugely wishful thinking.

What I'd like to know is how do you know if a guy likes you? I asked on the crushes/boyfriends/girlfriends thread but I don't really want to watch a video to know, I wanted to know what you all think, hope that makes since and any response is really welcome and hugely thanked for!

Today (Sunday) he sat by me in Church as well which is fairly rare and I love it when it happens, he sang today since we were at Church and he has a great voice, also he is a really good Christian which means a lot to me, Could someone help me know if he likes me or not?

[KimSueKimmy]

Im having some trouble finding a boyfriend. I have tried everything (Or so it seems like I have). I've tried acting like a blonde, tried playing hard to get, tried just being myself, tried acting smart, tried acting dumb. I just can't get a guy to ask me out. And if I deveoped a crush on a guy, Im too scared to talk to him NORAMLLY!!!!
HELP!!!!!

I'm sorry if this offends you, but you're not going to get a guy if you don't act like your true SELF. Quit trying to act different. Guys hate it when they find out you're not acting as who you really are.
It irks me to no end when I see posts like this. Be yourself- life isn't about boyfriends. Don't try to force a guy into your life because it's not going to work. Just wait, and you'll find someone eventually.

Ya everyone says that and lately I have had more than 5 guys come up to me and tell me that they have a crush on me. But they all have girlfriends!!!! That's wat ticks me off!!!! I try really hard to be myself and most of the time I do act like myself. I have ADHD so during the day I take medication and I'm calm and "Smart" (Or so the popular guys call me). But at night Im extremely hiper and the guys look at me like they've never seen that side of me before. (Which they havent) They hang around me when I'm hiper but not when Im "Smart". Why is that??!