Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Acidic]

Today; again, was pretty normal.
UGH why won't anything happen?
Though I bet he thinks I'm a loner because I sat by myself -by choice- in IT. But he did look at me- and I looked at him- a lot of times. He even did call me over to show me something funny but I was at the other damn side of the room! I wanted to be hardcore and stand up from my seat, but ohno. Stupid strict teacher.

[This Kane U Speak Of]

(This made my day)


G'night Jeff Don't forget to drink water, you stupidhead XD.


10:08pm
Thanx Ally! I feel loved? Bye
forget the ?

Ahw! That sounds adorable!


Yeah I've known him forever and he's liked me forever, but that's the first time he said something like that. I know he probably didn't think it through, but it really made my day.
But now I don't get to see him for 5 days.

And he is a stupidhead. He's gotten dehydrated twice, and the first time they had to pump 7 bags of fluid into him.

[Kites]

So I've known this guy all my life. Since we were 4 actually.

When I was 14 I had a crush on him, but since have grown out of it because we are just too close.

Though last night when he was at my house, we just got really close. Nothing happened, but I just really enjoyed the intimacy with him.

I just don't know what to do, or if I should do anything at all.

If something does happen between us, it may come between our friendship.

Confused and frustrated.

Just need somewhere to rant where I can possibly get advice.

[P o m]

I keep blushing whenever I talk to my crush. :U

[bugiscool]

Update in my thing.

I had lunch with him again and we talked a bit more than we did yesterday. I want to ask him tommorow since some classes are going on a field trip. ( hunger games here u come!) he isn't going sadly. So yea. In pretty sure he likes me since we stared into each others eyes for a while (4 seconds max). So still working on the confedence thing.

[spaceferrari]

Well, I talked to Glasses.
I think I'm close to really believing that he cares about me. Before, I used to think that the only thing young guys want is to get laid. For the most part, that's true. The difference between the pointless guys and the ones that actually worth it, is that the ones that are worth it can supress their mindless sexual desires (As my one friend put it, they think with the brain between their ears rather than their "other" brain). I have to agree with her. Glasses and I aren't as high on the social ladder as a lot of people. We're in with the nerds, mostly. Not very popular, sometimes sarcastic, but smart and generally kind. My friend said that the popular kids date so many different people because they have pick of whomever they want. Us nerds tend to analyze more, and choose partners that we really "work" well with. (Keep in mind my friend was speaking about our own school, not everybody everywhere.)

Besides all this, one line from an e-mail Glasses sent me last night really
quieted that negative voice that keeps trying to tell me to end it.

I want to stay with you, I don't care what I have to go through.

I don't know how I can't appreciate him more. He's strong, and intelligent, and kind, and funny, and gentle, and loyal, and attractive (At least, I think so. In a cute, dorky-but-farmerly sort of way). I couldn't ask for anything better. I'm so lucky that he likes being with me.

[Zeee]

I dared my bestie, who likes the same guy I do, to ask him out tomorrow just to see what he'd say.

And god, I wished I hadn't. :c

But if my bestie doesn't get a yes, she's gonna ask him out for me apparently.

Cause guess what!
*squeals*

B and HC (his old girlfriend) broke up! I honestly squealed like crazy singing 'He's single! OMG!' for an hour.
<3
...

But I have to say something-
Honestly... My bestie knows how much I like him. And if she gets a yes, or he ever asks her and she says yes, we aren't gonna be friends anymore. She knows I've liked him, and known him, for about 6 years. She's known him for 1 year, and liked him for only a few months of that year.

Here's a tip guys-
It's scientifically proven that if you have a crush on the same person for more than 4 months (I've liked B for 6 years XD) then you're in love<3

But I need some help.
Here's the problem.

---


I really, really like him. And if my friend gets a yes, I'll cry. To be honest, I will bawl. No matter what.
:c

And... Im starting to develop feelings for this guy... we'll call him BE.
He's B's best friend.

And I also like O.

Guys! Im so confused...
I like 3 guys... I've known B for 6 years, I've known BE for about 2, and I've known O for about 4 or 5.

Im so confused...

[loonyloolaluna]

Today; again, was pretty normal.
UGH why won't anything happen?
Though I bet he thinks I'm a loner because I sat by myself -by choice- in IT. But he did look at me- and I looked at him- a lot of times. He even did call me over to show me something funny but I was at the other damn side of the room! I wanted to be hardcore and stand up from my seat, but ohno. Stupid strict teacher.

Ugh. When teachers tell you to stay in your assigned seat -.-
But I doubt he thinks you're a loner because you sat by yourself one time. Probs thought you were just having a bad day.
Meh, if it would have just been 20 seconds to the other side of the room, what's there to worry about?

(This made my day)


G'night Jeff Don't forget to drink water, you stupidhead XD.


10:08pm
Thanx Ally! I feel loved? Bye
forget the ?

Ahw! That sounds adorable!


Yeah I've known him forever and he's liked me forever, but that's the first time he said something like that. I know he probably didn't think it through, but it really made my day.
But now I don't get to see him for 5 days.

And he is a stupidhead. He's gotten dehydrated twice, and the first time they had to pump 7 bags of fluid into him.

Oh, jeez. Yeah, I hope he doesn't forget to drink water this time O.O
It's the little things that make girls happy (and a once in a while BIG thing)
Yeah, It's tough not being able to see your ... is he your crush? ... for 5 days. But I normally won't see mine for 6 days ... Only on Mondays v.v So don't worry.

So I've known this guy all my life. Since we were 4 actually.

When I was 14 I had a crush on him, but since have grown out of it because we are just too close.

Though last night when he was at my house, we just got really close. Nothing happened, but I just really enjoyed the intimacy with him.

I just don't know what to do, or if I should do anything at all.

If something does happen between us, it may come between our friendship.

Confused and frustrated.

Just need somewhere to rant where I can possibly get advice.

How intimate were you ...
Well. Yeah. It sounds like you've got a great friendship, and potency (I FORGOT THE WORD BUT IT'S SOMETHING LIKE THAT) of becoming a couple. It really depends on your choice. Boyfriend? Or friend?
If I was in your shoes I'd ask to be 'Friends with benefits' But I don't suggest that. I've done that, and regret it. Then again we didn't have sex, it was mainly just making out. But I still regret it.

I keep blushing whenever I talk to my crush. :U

Many people do. It's natural. I read about that in Dolly magizine just now. But, if you want to stop try talking to yourself in the mirror (if you can find a pic of him and talk to it) I know it sounds creepy and stalkery, but it could improve your charisma. Well, if you blush try think 'Okay, dude, this is not a big deal, normal skin tone now.' Breathe in deep and you shouldn't be blushing.

Normally when my crush passes by ... I feel myself blushing too so I just start to to think of cute long haired with kittens getting ... very hurt I know it's sick and disgusting, but it makes me go back to my pale self.

Update in my thing.

I had lunch with him again and we talked a bit more than we did yesterday. I want to ask him tommorow since some classes are going on a field trip. ( hunger games here u come!) he isn't going sadly. So yea. In pretty sure he likes me since we stared into each others eyes for a while (4 seconds max). So still working on the confedence thing.

OMG that intense moment when you stare at each other.
Love it.
But you can't be too sure he likes you. So watch the youtube vids on the first page.
Confidence is key. And sexy too. If you show a guy you don't care what other people thing he'll think you're daring and a challenge to 'tame'

Well, I talked to Glasses.
I think I'm close to really believing that he cares about me. Before, I used to think that the only thing young guys want is to get laid. For the most part, that's true. The difference between the pointless guys and the ones that actually worth it, is that the ones that are worth it can supress their mindless sexual desires (As my one friend put it, they think with the brain between their ears rather than their "other" brain). I have to agree with her. Glasses and I aren't as high on the social ladder as a lot of people. We're in with the nerds, mostly. Not very popular, sometimes sarcastic, but smart and generally kind. My friend said that the popular kids date so many different people because they have pick of whomever they want. Us nerds tend to analyze more, and choose partners that we really "work" well with. (Keep in mind my friend was speaking about our own school, not everybody everywhere.)

Besides all this, one line from an e-mail Glasses sent me last night really
quieted that negative voice that keeps trying to tell me to end it.

I want to stay with you, I don't care what I have to go through.

I don't know how I can't appreciate him more. He's strong, and intelligent, and kind, and funny, and gentle, and loyal, and attractive (At least, I think so. In a cute, dorky-but-farmerly sort of way). I couldn't ask for anything better. I'm so lucky that he likes being with me.

Some guys just want to get laid, yes v.v, while others are genuine, and kind, and that's why you fall in love with them.
You sound like the perfect nerd! (Not in the bad way, I'm a nerd myself) You just explained my social pattern perfectly!
He sounds so sweet! I hope you two stay together a little while longer ... You sound so sweet together!

I dared my bestie, who likes the same guy I do, to ask him out tomorrow just to see what he'd say.

And god, I wished I hadn't. :c

But if my bestie doesn't get a yes, she's gonna ask him out for me apparently.

Cause guess what!
*squeals*

B and HC (his old girlfriend) broke up! I honestly squealed like crazy singing 'He's single! OMG!' for an hour.
<3
...

But I have to say something-
Honestly... My bestie knows how much I like him. And if she gets a yes, or he ever asks her and she says yes, we aren't gonna be friends anymore. She knows I've liked him, and known him, for about 6 years. She's known him for 1 year, and liked him for only a few months of that year.

Here's a tip guys-
It's scientifically proven that if you have a crush on the same person for more than 4 months (I've liked B for 6 years XD) then you're in love<3

But I need some help.
Here's the problem.

---


I really, really like him. And if my friend gets a yes, I'll cry. To be honest, I will bawl. No matter what.
:c

And... Im starting to develop feelings for this guy... we'll call him BE.
He's B's best friend.

And I also like O.

Guys! Im so confused...
I like 3 guys... I've known B for 6 years, I've known BE for about 2, and I've known O for about 4 or 5.

Im so confused...

We all do things we regret.
It's great if she gets stood down, she'll ask for you. It's great you've got a friend like that. (Oh yeah you were the one who's crush knows you like them, but he doesn't know your friend like them too)
Okay, let your friend know that if he does say yes to her, that you'd appreciate it if she said 'sorry I was joking' Because, if the the same happened to me, I wouldn't stop being their friend, I'd be mad at them - sure, but losing a friend to a guy is just plain stupid. Just think it over. If he says yes to her, heartbreak. Yes, but you'll realize that he didn't like you as sad as that truth is. If he says no she'll be sad and you'll be happy because of her sadness? Think about it Boulevard. Is she really your friend?
I know that 4 months = love. And I think that when people say after 2 days of dating 'OMG I LOVE YOU SO MUCH HONEY! YOU ARE MY SUN! I NEED YOU TO SURVIVE!' and stuff like that -.- it annoys me because the don't know what love it. Love takes time. It's like ... cookie dough! It's so sweet and great when it's raw, but it can make you sick and it's not that great, but when you let it bake for a while, and then you try it. It really truly does taste beautiful - and you wonder why you ate the dough in the first place. Because eating cookie dough is for children. It's really adults - or more mature people - who know how to bake real good yummy cookies. [My god. What did I just type? ._.]
It's okay to like more than one guy.
I've liked this guy for a year, and recently started saying I love him (he has a gf though, and he's 19, and I'm 14 v.v) ... I think my heart (or brain - whatever) told me to move on.
I still like UFO, yeah, but not so much. I like another guy now. I know he's one of those bad boys sorta ... but ... I haven't liked a bad boy before, and he's different, and nice ... and. And I'm helping you here ...
Anywhom. It's okay to love a guy, and like someothers.
It'd be good here for like 'second chances' if your friend gets a yes from B. STAY FRIENDS WITH HER! You'll regret 'hating her' and 'not being your friend' But you'll realise B doesn't feel the same for you, and you can move on ...

[c h r i s t m a s]

Z has been really nice. Like wierd nice
One day he told me I was funny and he blushed and smiled
Then he told me I was like his best friend
Then today he gave me a lolipop.
It sounds stupid but I thought it was sweet.
<3
He likes someone and wont tell anyone

[Kecko]

The guy I have a crush on has a crush on another girl, but I still really like him, when I'm around him I feel like it doesn't matter if I do something stupid because he's the only person who I feel like won't hold it against me, even my family holds stupid stuff against me but he doesn't, he's really nice and country (which is awesome, you should see us all try and play tennis when we're all country, it does not go well ) What do you all think I should do? The girl he likes doesn't sound very nice, she kinda just uses guys I guess (according to his Mom, I haven't met the girl yet) but I also think he might like this girl from our youth group at my church who is really nice, anything I should do to not like him, or just let it be?