Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Acidic]

Ah. Well, uh.. I mean... It doesn't seem like you were too obsessed when you were with him, so I don't really see a problem. Though I would lighten up on the letters, they can be very awkward if you guys aren't dating.

The letters are asking him out as all, really.

[Wolf Lacey]

Why is love so confusing? He says he loves me, but doesn't act like it. He'll talk to me and spend time with me for a while, then goes off and pretends i'm not there and talks to everyone else. All my other friends have normal relationships but not me he barely notices me. I love him and he means the world to me but he's the one who causes me the most misery. Sometimes I wonder if he'll even change.

[loonyloolaluna]

Why is love so confusing? He says he loves me, but doesn't act like it. He'll talk to me and spend time with me for a while, then goes off and pretends i'm not there and talks to everyone else. All my other friends have normal relationships but not me he barely notices me. I love him and he means the world to me but he's the one who causes me the most misery. Sometimes I wonder if he'll even change.

Then ask him after he says he loves you.
'Do you really love me? Because it doesn't seem like it.'

[Kecko]

My crush and I were goofing off, he tried to tackle me and accidently elbowed me in the throat, then he tried to tackle me again and I shoved him to the ground, and then when I was running from him I messed up and fell on the ground scraping up and bruising my shin pretty good and he stood over me and asked like 5 times if I was ok. He also found me while we were playing hide and seek, but one of my family members was it, my crush was like "*my name here*?" Then he saw me and stood in front of where I was and said "Ok, I got you surrounded!" My family member was like "She's not even over here is she?" And he responded "Yeah she is, but she's got one good hiding spot doesn't she?" It was fun! He always calls me by my nickname and will sometimes change it around a bit, He no longer has a girlfriend, I don't think he'd ask me but is it ok to think about what would happen if he did?

[paradox.]

Over Brandon and Ryan and I are better friends now for some reason. I love breaks. Everyone comes back differently

[CaptiveLegacy]

Wow, a woman I know has been dating her boyfriend for a long time. He has been acting weird though, and a few days ago, he broke up with her on their FOUR years SIX months :c

[loonyloolaluna]

I've been posting this for a while.
And no-body has given me a straight answer.
I have kept my patience. But it's my turn to get some help.

Should I tell the guy I like, that I like him?

I could risk a great friendship if I do.
Or if he likes me too (TUI AD: yeah right) and we end up dating ... what would happen if a 14 year old and a 16 year old date?

[CaptiveLegacy]

I've been posting this for a while.
And no-body has given me a straight answer.
I have kept my patience. But it's my turn to get some help.

Should I tell the guy I like, that I like him?

I could risk a great friendship if I do.
Or if he likes me too (TUI AD: yeah right) and we end up dating ... what would happen if a 14 year old and a 16 year old date?

It depends, does he act like he also likes you as well? If he does, I would mention to him that you like him, even though it might be risky. And if you are afraid that it will ruin a friendship, it don't think it will. Ive seen friends ask their friend if they like them, and if they say no, they shake it off and still are friends. Besides, true friends will never have something like that ruin a friendship c: .
Ive dated a 16 year old when I was 14, and it was fine. Im 15 and im dating a 17 year old right now, and we are as happy as we can be. I don't think there should be more then a two year difference though in age.

[Acidic]

My crush and I were goofing off, he tried to tackle me and accidently elbowed me in the throat, then he tried to tackle me again and I shoved him to the ground, and then when I was running from him I messed up and fell on the ground scraping up and bruising my shin pretty good and he stood over me and asked like 5 times if I was ok. He also found me while we were playing hide and seek, but one of my family members was it, my crush was like "*my name here*?" Then he saw me and stood in front of where I was and said "Ok, I got you surrounded!" My family member was like "She's not even over here is she?" And he responded "Yeah she is, but she's got one good hiding spot doesn't she?" It was fun! He always calls me by my nickname and will sometimes change it around a bit, He no longer has a girlfriend, I don't think he'd ask me but is it ok to think about what would happen if he did?

Yep, it's okay! I've actually thought about what I'd say if he asked me out. I'd say "I'd love to, J." And smile attractively. It will probably work :D

[Acidic]

Ehem.
In art club today, we were talking about my crush with the teacher. She's a lovely teacher and I love her like a mother.
Here's the conversation.
(OJ- Other J, DN- My best friend, V- my other best friend, Me- me, T- teacher)

OJ: He's just like, really weird.
(then he talks about him talking about dirty stuff)
Me: Eugh! OJ! This is why J calls you his pervy friend.
T: *Laughs*
DN: I really don't mind J. I mean, he's cool and such but I just don't like him.
T: Well, maybe he's into boys so you don't have to go out with him.
Me: *lifting my head up slowly from my work* I don't like that fact.

BRAIN. STUPIDNESS.