Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

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-squeakeal-

Yes. That was a mixture of a squeak and a squeal.
/squeakeal ftw


ANYWAYS. So my boyfriend and I broke up. There was some stuff that happened, et cetera, and we aren't together. I don't want to seem like a wh0re or anything, but I talked to M about it and he made me feel better and ended up asking me out. I didn't want to say no, or to tell him that I wanted to wait a few days, and I definitely couldn't give the I'll-Think-About-It excuse because we both know how much we like each other. I couldn't help myself and despite the fact that being single for only a day sounds trampy, I said yes <3.

Everyone that has a wonderful marriage always says that they married their best friend, and, well, I'm dating my best friend. I don't know how to explain how he makes me feel, I really don't. He's not really much of a flirt because he's sort of shy, but he's so much more - I was shocked the first time he complimented me. The first compliment I ever get from guys is something about my appearance. However, the first thing he complimented me on was my personality which honestly surprised me, but in a good way. He does compliment my looks, but that isn't what he's focused on. And he respects me. He respects my space, my opinions, my friends. He's polite to my friends even though they're rude and b!tchy to him, all because he doesn't want me to be unhappy. And the way he gets all nervous around me and can't talk properly is soooo cute :3 I thought at first that maybe he's just always like that, but we were around some other girls and guys and he's perfectly fine around them. He doesn't stutter or mess up on his words or anything, unless he's with me. He's fun and he's cool and he'll playfully push me and jokingly tease me but not at all to the point where I'd be offended. And he actually talks to me, and he isn't afraid to show me affection around other people. The biggest thing for me tonight was about Facebook. Whenever I start dating someone, I always change my relationship status. I never say who with, because I don't ever feel comfortable about asking the guy if he's okay with that and, based on the fact that the guy never even changes his *much less saying with me* tells me that he isn't. M was eager to change his status, and he ASKED ME if I was okay with us listing that we were together. To most people that isn't a big thing, but to me it is, because it tells me that the guy really isn't at all ashamed to date me and is happy to let people know. Sadly, he was on his iPod and me on my phone so we couldn't change it yet, but oh well.

AND he hadn't been texting me all day, which I was upset about. Then on Facebook he says that he's sent me like a thousand texts and he was worried that I was mad at him. He was genuinely concerned that I was unhappy with him. It turns out, I, for some reason, just haven't been getting his texts. Sure enough, he counted how many texts he sent me in the last two days that I haven't been getting them - 48. That's right. 48 texts.
<3

And he wanted to FaceTime, but I can't download it on my phone, and when I asked him why he said, "Talking to you on Facebook isn't enough. I miss you a lot. I need to hear your voice and see you."
D'awwwwwwww! And then I told him that I didn't look very good anyways, and he said, "You not looking good? What is this, National Backwards Day? You need to shut your beautiful face right now because you ALWAYS look totally gorgeous and I won't tolerate you thinking any different."
<3<3<3

How long were you dating your ex, and why did you stay with him so long if you liked your best friend so much?

I was dating him for a couple of days, until he started being a [stream of inappropriate words].
And the feelings for my now boyfriend [eeee<3] were just friendship when I started dating him.

[mickey2000]

Lol, someone in my class is stalking me -_-
Seriously, he tried to kiss me 0_o

[bugiscool]

Okay so I like this guy. We had a class together and he would flirt with me and some people said we would make a cute couple and his face went bright red. But now the quarter is over and I only see him in the hall way. I want to talk to him but his friends are always with him and it makes me nervous. My friends say I should just go up to his and just start talking, but I don't know. I get shy when I'm around him. And the other day he bumped into me on purpose and he apologized. We made eye contact and everything! I don't know if he likes me and if so how do I tell him. Do I wrote a note and when I'm walking by him stick it on his coat or book or bag. I need help!

[WolfWind]

@Imperfect: That's fine, then. I would say take your relationship slow with your best friend if you want it to last, and make sure you feel comfortable with what's happening along the way. Don't let him do things you are ambivalent about, or don't feel like you're ready to do. Try to keep it at a comfortable pace for you. If he really likes you, he will respect your space and understand why you are asking these things. Also, make boundaries for physical intimacies to help keep your pace.

@BugIsCool: Well, I was told to watch the awesome video on the first page, which may help you here. I agree with your friends, though. Try and go up to him after school by his locker, between classes if you know where he goes, and go out of your way to say "hi, how are you doing?" when you do see him in the hall. If it makes you feel a bit better, maybe ask a friend or two to go with you to say "hi" when you see him surrounded by your friends.

[Valentines]

Hey guys.
:C
So me and the boy have been dating almost a month now, lets call him Will.
And he's being shipping to Marines bootcamp in June.
And with how long I've known him, I'm wwilling to say I love him, but I'm not IN Love with him.

However we plan on making things last to boot and past it, and I know I can do the army girl thing, done it before, but here's the thing.

We spend practically everyday together, or at least some part of it, and we text constantly when we're not around each other. What should I do to ease the pain of him leaving for boot? He's suggested us spending more time apart so I'm used to him not being around but I'd rather not go that route.

So, how would you keep yourself from missing your guy when he's gone for three months with no form of contact to you but snail mail you can't respond to?

[~IronRose~]

I would suggest you send him some letters, that will amke him feel you still care, but if you don't love him anyome what's the point.

[Epic Failure]

Awkward moment when your crush/best friend discovers a note he wasn't meant to see and doesn't as much attention to you anymore
My love-life rocks XD But that was the funniest day EVER believe it or not. I chased him through the school for ages to try get it off him before he could read it. Then, once he did read the note, I hunted down the other friend that stole it from me in the first place so that she could give it to him.
I'm not sure if I need advice on this or not, he doesn't like me, that's for sure and he doesn't speak to me anymore either.
DAMNIT! That's the last time I write on a piece of paper XD

[blue.]

hey(:

okay, um. there's this guy, I like. I've liked him for six months now. I know, sort of sad. anyway, I'm kind of looking for some advice, if anyone's willing to give...?

here's the story;

I'm going to call him J. Right, so basically, after the christmas holidays, I got moved into one of his classes. To my joy, I was sat in the seat in front of him and beside one of my best friends. At first, me and him didn't really talk and when we did, it was awkward. Then as I kind of settled into the class, we began to banter occasionally. Like for example, we were doing this sort of fun quiz about Pi. Like there would be the Pi sign then other words and you had to combine the pictures to get the word. You had to be in groups of four. And because he is behind me and there is no-one else in front of me, we were a grouping of four. Me, him, my best friend (M), and the person he sits beside. All that time, me and him were just playfully arguing, whilst the other two did the quiz. We actually forgot about the quiz, I think.

Because I'm scottish and english and a little irish, and I live in scotland. He started saying to me like in a friendly, joking way, 'You got slammed.' (referring to that one battle, the scottish won against the english when they had that war) and we had a little banter about that.

This is more, recently, think March:

My name is short for some long, embarrassing name so M decided to spontaneously say to him, 'HEY J, DO YOU KNOW WHAT (ME) REAL NAME IS? IT'S (LONG REALLY EMBARRASSING NAME)'

I was cringing, and I forgot what he said to that but I said, 'Fine, what's yours then?' He told me(this was at the near end of class). Then as we were leaving, I said to him, 'Goodbye (hisname,middlename,lastname)', he did the same back to me but then proceeded to walk down the hallway, next to me, talking to me. He then said, 'Ouch, so that's really on your birth certificate?',
I replied, 'Gee, thanks.' and he responded by laughing and saying, 'Nah, I'm just joking.' then he touched my arm<3, we kept walking till we parted ways.

Another thing, I had ordered my lunch with my friend and we were standing in line. He came up with his friend, and I looked back slightly, and looked at him then back, I looked again as if to say 'talk to me, dammit!' Then a miracle happend, because he came up to me and started talking about a joke, we had shared in class. That was the first time, he had talked to me out of class<3

My other two best friends, that sit behind him in this class, thinks he fancies me as well as my other friend in a different class.

I don't think he does.

I mean, even if he did, I couldn't do anything about it, I'm a unpopular girl that would never ask anyone out because of fear. A couple people I know, fancy him. One of the desks in my P.S.E class says I love (his name).

But he makes me smile and blush, I've never blushed before in my life. He makes me really happy even if I'm feeling heavily depressed. He makes me smile just randomly if I think of him. I can't wait to see him tomorrow. He is just too adorable<3

[*Wonderstruck*]

I need some advice on a rather fragile situation.
Key:
D =my BFF/neighbor
B =D's boyfriend
L =My boyfriend
R = really good friend/neighbor

D and I first met B at R's house for an Easter egg hunt 2 years ago. We had recently all hung out together at this year's egg hunt. B and R are going to be cousins by marriage soon. B goes to a different school in a town about 40 minutes from us. B was really nice to all of us, and got mine and D's number somehow after the egg hunt. B was texting D and I, when all of a sudden he tells me he likes D and wants to date her. I tell him to go for it, because I knew she liked him. So they had been dating for a little over a week, and B and I were texting a lot. I'm in a really good relationship with my boyfriend, so I had never thought of B as anything more than a friend. He started flirting with me like crazy, and i just kept telling myself he was just being nice. Until last night at about midnight, he starts asking these weird questions like: Would you ever dump L to date me?? or Who would be the first person you'd think about dating after L? And kept telling him I didn't know or wasn't sure. So I asked him the same things, and he said me. He told me I was beautiful, funny, outgoing, smart, witty, and not afraid to be myself. He then told me he wanted to dump D and date me. I told him I'm happy with L, and he should stay with D, because they make a good couple. He persisted on convincing me that he and I are meant to be. I just don't see it, ever. End of story. Then I make a fatal mistake. I accidentally send a message saying "I'm happy with L, so dumping D isn't gonna do you any good!" to D. At 2am. She got it this morning before I went to church, and she flipped out. She dumped B, and is furious with the both of us. Any help??? Was there something I did wrong?

[#Lavafur]

deffinately use chocolates to calm a chick down when you upset her, chocolates are the foods of the GODS. that is relationship advice to live by