Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[bast,]

jkdfjdkslafioe My boyfriend is being a total ass. It's not even funny.

So like, my sister, her friends, and I are all really silly. So, a long time ago, before we were dating, my sister was being silly and texted him with my phone. It took him a while, but he figured out it wasn't me, and he just laughed. Then, she did it again a bit ago, after we had started dating. He was slightly annoyed, and threatened to turn off his phone. Then, today, it's my sister and her friends birthday party[They were born one day apart]. So, we started to talk about him, and I told them that he swims competitively. One of her friends[There are four of her friends, by the way] also swims, so she freaked out and stole my phone to call him. He was confused, and hung up, and she tried again. He got really angry, and he hung up again. Then my sister tried calling him twice, and he didn't even pick up. After they gave my my phone back, I sent him a message that said this;

"Sorry about that... [sisters name]'s friends are weird... :P"

and he just replied with "GOODBYE! >:("

Since we joke around so much, I didn't take it seriously, and replied with "Hahahahaha! Come on, you can't be THAT angry. :P"

Then THIS is why I'm so angry at him. He said, "I am pretty ticked off. It is getting annoying."

Honestly, we weren't even that bad. I really think that he has to take my family a little lighter, cause we're a family of hurtful, yet playful, jokes. I just decided that I wouldn't reply, and I'll probably not text him tomorrow either, to show him that he needs to be a little looser, and that I didn't like the way he acted. Still though, it just makes me so... UGH!

[loonyloolaluna]

jkdfjdkslafioe My boyfriend is being a total ass. It's not even funny.

So like, my sister, her friends, and I are all really silly. So, a long time ago, before we were dating, my sister was being silly and texted him with my phone. It took him a while, but he figured out it wasn't me, and he just laughed. Then, she did it again a bit ago, after we had started dating. He was slightly annoyed, and threatened to turn off his phone. Then, today, it's my sister and her friends birthday party[They were born one day apart]. So, we started to talk about him, and I told them that he swims competitively. One of her friends[There are four of her friends, by the way] also swims, so she freaked out and stole my phone to call him. He was confused, and hung up, and she tried again. He got really angry, and he hung up again. Then my sister tried calling him twice, and he didn't even pick up. After they gave my my phone back, I sent him a message that said this;

"Sorry about that... [sisters name]'s friends are weird... "

and he just replied with "GOODBYE! >:("

Since we joke around so much, I didn't take it seriously, and replied with "Hahahahaha! Come on, you can't be THAT angry. "

Then THIS is why I'm so angry at him. He said, "I am pretty ticked off. It is getting annoying."

Honestly, we weren't even that bad. I really think that he has to take my family a little lighter, cause we're a family of hurtful, yet playful, jokes. I just decided that I wouldn't reply, and I'll probably not text him tomorrow either, to show him that he needs to be a little looser, and that I didn't like the way he acted. Still though, it just makes me so... UGH!

Well, at first it sounded like your sister and her friends were being asses =/
But ... you've got to think 'Why is he taking this so seriously?'
Maybe something serious is happening at home.
Ask him what's wrong
Because why is he suddenly acting different? Maybe leave him (not dump him) for a day, so he can think about it ... Maybe bake some brownies (if him or you can't have chocolate, try another bit of baking ...), ask if you can come over (tell him you made brownies!) then come over with the brownies, talk with him, eat the brownies with him, drink some tea with him. Then look in his eyes and ask what's wrong, a hug would be great to
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[bast,]

Yeah, I didn't mean that. Rant writing makes it hard to type right. x3 Thanks for the advice. I just need some time to cool down. I know that may sound selfish, but I mean it. I'm still really angry... ono; All of her friends keep saying sorry.

[loonyloolaluna]

Yeah, I didn't mean that. Rant writing makes it hard to type right. x3 Thanks for the advice. I just need some time to cool down. I know that may sound selfish, but I mean it. I'm still really angry... ono; All of her friends keep saying sorry.

Fair enough.
They should be sorry =/
For all you know his dog (of grandparent, of hamster, or fish etc ...) could have died and he didn't exactly want prank calls from his gfs sister at that moment =/
Something sweet should make him a bit happier.

[Livalathia]

Well I haven't posted here in a while and I feel like I should now :3

Okay well D was over at my house all Wednesday and it was nice to just spend time with him <3. I like when he's around me not in school cause we both loosen up a bit however I still feel weird letting him keep his arm around me - yet at the same time I love it...If that makes sense to them at all. I think its because I'm so careful with my heart and I have never actually let myself love someone like this cause I have gotten hurt so many times before and I have had so many times where I have been depressed and let down so I normally block myself from letting other people in. With D its like I want to, but at the same time its really hard and weird for me.

Oh and I think I have a small little feeling for my other friend who is close to D as well. Hes like my best friend...so I'm thinking its more of a friend love thing and cause I think of him as more of a brother than anything but I'm not quite sure....x.x I mean I do talk to him a lot along with his friends on Skype almost every day all day...and we have a ton of inside jokes and stuff...I just don't know.
I'm pretty sure its just a brotherly love but I'm not sure.

[loonyloolaluna]

Well I haven't posted here in a while and I feel like I should now :3

Okay well D was over at my house all Wednesday and it was nice to just spend time with him <3. I like when he's around me not in school cause we both loosen up a bit however I still feel weird letting him keep his arm around me - yet at the same time I love it...If that makes sense to them at all. I think its because I'm so careful with my heart and I have never actually let myself love someone like this cause I have gotten hurt so many times before and I have had so many times where I have been depressed and let down so I normally block myself from letting other people in. With D its like I want to, but at the same time its really hard and weird for me.

Oh and I think I have a small little feeling for my other friend who is close to D as well. Hes like my best friend...so I'm thinking its more of a friend love thing and cause I think of him as more of a brother than anything but I'm not quite sure....x.x I mean I do talk to him a lot along with his friends on Skype almost every day all day...and we have a ton of inside jokes and stuff...I just don't know.
I'm pretty sure its just a brotherly love but I'm not sure.

Yeah. I know how you feel. I was so desperate for a bf, it felt weird when I finally had one because I was too scared to fall in love (thank goodness I didn't)
It probably just is brotherly love. Don't over think it, you might start thinking it's more than that ... and that would be bad.

[Lox]

Alright, it's time to finally un-bottle some feelings!

Ever since G broke up with me (OVER TEXT and didn't tell me why ), my world of guys has been thrown into complete and utter chaos. For some reason, i cannot hang out with other females because i'm a weirdo like that, and as a result all my friends are guys. And G just happens to be one of the guys in my group of friends. Since we broke up three weeks ago, four of them have told one of the other guys that they like me, who in turn report back to me. So now i not only have to get over G, but i have to deal with what to do about P, T, C and J. P is nice, and very interesting, and probably the most likely BF of the group. C lives two hours away, but texts me EVERY day. T is a perv. J is taken. On the other hand, i don't want to have a BF right now so i can be single, and enjoy the freedom.

Crap i don't know what to do.

[loonyloolaluna]

Alright, it's time to finally un-bottle some feelings!

Ever since G broke up with me (OVER TEXT and didn't tell me why ), my world of guys has been thrown into complete and utter chaos. For some reason, i cannot hang out with other females because i'm a weirdo like that, and as a result all my friends are guys. And G just happens to be one of the guys in my group of friends. Since we broke up three weeks ago, four of them have told one of the other guys that they like me, who in turn report back to me. So now i not only have to get over G, but i have to deal with what to do about P, T, C and J. P is nice, and very interesting, and probably the most likely BF of the group. C lives two hours away, but texts me EVERY day. T is a perv. J is taken. On the other hand, i don't want to have a BF right now so i can be single, and enjoy the freedom.

Crap i don't know what to do.

Your ex bf sounds like a meanie dumping you by text -.-
Wow. Four guys liking you? You sound like my friend!
Well, if you're not ready for a bf yeat, then don't have one. Simple.
Though, in case you change your mind,
Don't go for J. It's not right to cheat.
Probs shouldn't go for T, if you don't like his pervyness ...
Not so much C, because a long distance relationship would be difficult =/
P sounds so much better! If he's nice and interesting.
But continue to be friends with them all. But what ever you do, DO NOT LEAD THEM ON. It's bad. and you get called a \/\/#0R3 ...

[Nimble Awesomeness]

Well I haven't posted here in a while and I feel like I should now :3

Okay well D was over at my house all Wednesday and it was nice to just spend time with him <3. I like when he's around me not in school cause we both loosen up a bit however I still feel weird letting him keep his arm around me - yet at the same time I love it...If that makes sense to them at all. I think its because I'm so careful with my heart and I have never actually let myself love someone like this cause I have gotten hurt so many times before and I have had so many times where I have been depressed and let down so I normally block myself from letting other people in. With D its like I want to, but at the same time its really hard and weird for me.

Oh and I think I have a small little feeling for my other friend who is close to D as well. Hes like my best friend...so I'm thinking its more of a friend love thing and cause I think of him as more of a brother than anything but I'm not quite sure....x.x I mean I do talk to him a lot along with his friends on Skype almost every day all day...and we have a ton of inside jokes and stuff...I just don't know.
I'm pretty sure its just a brotherly love but I'm not sure.

Yeah. I know how you feel. I was so desperate for a bf, it felt weird when I finally had one because I was too scared to fall in love (thank goodness I didn't)
It probably just is brotherly love. Don't over think it, you might start thinking it's more than that ... and that would be bad.

...How would that be bad? It's not bad for her to get a crush on him; because obviously if she did than she wouldn't be upset about it, would she?

Sweet Silver, don't worry about it. If you just want to be friends, that's what your relationship with him will be. If he wants something more, that's ok too. It makes it harder, but he's not worth it anyways if he would want you to if he wanted to force you into dating. If you don't want to like him, you don't have to. You are in control of your feelings, why do you think they're called yours? They're not your mom's, they're not your friends. Your feelings aren't any of ours either; they're yours. Do what you want with them, and place them where you wish.

People in this society say you can't choose who you love. But the thing is, you can. It's really not hard. Like I said multiple times, they're your feelings.

(...New FAQ post! :'D As soon as I get off the laptop, lol.)

Also, Lavafur is a girl. I highly doubt that many of those things you listed off, Firework, would help her all that much, considering.

Lava, I would just tell her. There's nothing more straight foreword than "I care about you a lot, and I just want you to know that." It doesn't have to be super romantic, it doesn't have to be awkward, it doesn't need to be on a date. You can even text her. Just mention it. Saying how much you care in casual conversation is a great way to show them that you, well...care.

Alright, it's time to finally un-bottle some feelings! :D

Ever since G broke up with me (OVER TEXT and didn't tell me why :/), my world of guys has been thrown into complete and utter chaos. For some reason, i cannot hang out with other females because i'm a weirdo like that, and as a result all my friends are guys. And G just happens to be one of the guys in my group of friends. Since we broke up three weeks ago, four of them have told one of the other guys that they like me, who in turn report back to me. So now i not only have to get over G, but i have to deal with what to do about P, T, C and J. P is nice, and very interesting, and probably the most likely BF of the group. C lives two hours away, but texts me EVERY day. T is a perv. J is taken. On the other hand, i don't want to have a BF right now so i can be single, and enjoy the freedom.

Crap i don't know what to do.

Honestly? Come back in a week and ask again. I'm really not trying to be mean. I think you should really just take a break from the dating scene. I take it you're young, correct? Enjoy it while you can. (Lawl, I feel a bit like a hypocrite. "When I was your age..!") You really don't need to be dating. I don't mean this as a, "You're too young so there's no point", I mean this as a, well, there's really no point. Until you can get married, dating is jst for the fun. Enjoy the cruise, chillax with your bros, before it gets super weird. Know how I said a week? Wait even longer of you want. Just take a break, really. It's a lot nicer than you think. Besides, who knows when you realize that you've developed abandonment issues and you can't be singer anymore? I had that happen to a friend, it was terrible. It.. Messed with her head. She's getting better, but she's still a little edgy from dating. In 6th grade she dated 6 guys in one year, and one of them was on and off. Anyways, I'm rambling now and this is supposed to be about you.

So, chill. Take a breather. When you feel comfortable, and don't have a single doubt about wanting or not wanting freedom, then look around and see what your options are. I hope this helps, and good luck! I'm sure you'll make the right choice. :)

Also, Firework, you probably won't get called a *harlot* if you lead someone on... Though I very much frown upon it myself, unfortunately it's wildly accepted in this day and age. (What the fruit I'm not old at all :U) So while you most likely won't get called a harlot (by most people) you should feel bad.

[Zeee]

I can't wait until Monday.
Then I can finally see B and he can save me from all this... meh in life. ;-; With his hilarious, optimistic attitude.

Haha, I pulled my phone out before I was about to leave for lunch one day and B's like, putting it in my own sweater pocket, "Hey hay, woah there. Put that away." Im like, "Why?" He's like, "Because the po-po are coming..."

I laughed so hard

<3

I wished upon a star tonight, guys. And I wished for something great, if you know what I mean, since im posting this here.
Even though wishing upon a star may just seem all fake, im still hopeful that my wish will come true.

I've wished the same thing over and over again, every night, since the easter break started about 2 weeks ago.


To tell you the truth guys, does it matter that I wish this even though he has a girlfriend that he's been going out with for over 4 months? I know it can't last forever, but... still... :c