.Green.Eyes.<3 wrote:.Green.Eyes.<3 wrote:EEEEEEP!!
Okay, so me and J have obviously been talking and stuff but there wasn't any hugs. (which was killing me by the way) XD
Then last night there was a dance. So. Much. Drama! It was from 6-8 but I had to leave at 7 because I had color guard tryouts. Then, while we were there, within the first minute K's (K is my best friend, practically a sister) boyfriend broke up with her. I spent the whole time trying to cheer her up, and the dance was sucky and gloomy because of that. -.- Obviously I wasn't going to just ditch her though. J came by ocassionally, and I was a bit sour because I was in a bad mood because of all the drama. He came over and I pretty much shoved him away and told him to "get lost". *sigh* It was sort of playful though, and he puts up with me, so he stayed. XD
Me: "Hug?"
Him: *makes face and crosses arms*
Me: "Fine! I don't want a hug anyways!" XD
And he came by every now and then. Then, at 7, I had to leave. :S Everyone was in a big circle dancing, and of course I was off standing in a corner with K.So I had her go get him for me. She tapped on his shoulder and pointed to me, and he left all his friends and came over.
Me: "Bye..."
Him: "You're leaving?"
Me: "Yeah..."
Him: "Where are you going?"
Me: "Color guard try outs."
Then he said bye and gave me a hug. <3 I was uber happy, usually I have to ask for hugs. XD
He didn't really go near his girlfriend (at least while I was there) so I don't know if they're still going out or not. I have a feeling they most likely are though, he probably would have told me.~*Key*~
M: male|my grade
R: male|year younger
M just messaged me on facebook, saying R was going to ask me out at the dance last night. I was wondering why he had kept coming over to me so much...anyways, it was kind of awkward. (my conversation with M) >.< I like J, not R. (J and R are in the same grade) It's kind of funny because in band, R sorta follows me a lot and I sorta follow J a lot. AWKWARDNESS! XD *sigh* For When R does ask me out (if he ever gets the guts to), anyone have advice on how to turn him down gently?
To let a guy down is so bad. This is how I did it
K (Guy who likes me - texts me): Wana go ot?
*me spazzing - yeah I'm happy someone asked me out, but I don't like them in that way, and it would've been a long distance relationship* I ask the guy I fancy this (via fb): Me: Hey, can you help me out
birdie: yeah what is it?
Me: A guy guy asked me out ...
idk what to say
birdie: i see
well...
yes
or no
Me: But I don't really like him in that way
birdie: you say sorry i don't feel the same way about you
Me: Thanks
he replied with 'K'
Either say 'Sorry, I don't feel the same way about you' or ask the guy you fancy how to turn him down if the guy that likes you asks you out. It will make him feel wanted or needed. :3
It's kinda sad your friends bf just dumped her at that dance =[ that was low of him. But good on you for supporting her, and not leaving her.
*~Psycho Monkey~* wrote:Lavafur wrote:anyone here have any advice on how to show my girlfriend i care?
Depends how far in your relationship you two are.
Yeah, how far are you in it?
You probably don't want to touch her (like inappropriately) so, sex is out of the question.
Maybe ... watch that youtube clip. Try this, it's on the first page.
Nimble Love wrote:Nimble Love wrote:How to get girls to like you.
Yeah, you already have a gf, but try that out.
10) Find out what she likes
9) Encourage her on school work, in PE, extra curricular activites etc ... (Or 'C'mon! You can bake iiiiiiiiiiiit' if sh'es baking and thinks she gonna screw up. Be funny, but yet encouraging
8) Compliment her. Girls always love getting comliments (apart from one of my best friends
, but she's not your gf ...)7) Get to know her family, and friends. Hang out at her house. Hang out with her and her friends. But not too often, you don't want to come off as clingy >.>
6) 'Support local chivalry' basically manners. Open doors for her. If she's cold lend her your jacket (or cuddle her :3). Compliment her baking. Put away the dishes - EVEN if you're at her house.
5) Don't be a poser (tbh, I don't really know what this means, just watch the clip)
4) Don't be creepy, and be with her 24/7 we like out time away from one another. In the spare time you can prepare a date, while she prepares by having 'a day at the spa'
3) KEEP YOU HANDS TO YOUSELF! She does not belong to you. She most likely, and should have boundaries.
2) Make her feel safe. If your watching a scary movie, (let's say she's on your right) put your right arm around her shoulders, and with your left hand, hold her left hand. This will let her know that if she's scared, you'll always be there. If your walking somewhere with her, hold her hand - again this will let her know you won't leave her ... in the dark ... where there could be all sorts of people.
1) Be her best friend~ now most of what I explained was mainly being a best friend. If you do that, I'm sure she will be laughing and smiling, and just being super happy that you guys aren't just bf and gf, but also bestfriends~
