Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[~IronRose~]

Yeah, that's what I've been doing.

[CaptiveLegacy]

You know what sucks . . . being with your boyfriend for over 1 year and 6 months, prom coming up soon and your mother gets mad and forbids us from going to Prom together and from seeing each other till I'm 18 this June.

yeah, that sucks

Whhhhuuuuutttt? :c
I hope she lightens up and lets you go to prom, that's really unfair that she wont let you go to prom and wont let you see him. If you dated the man for more then a year, i'd think she would have more trust into you two

She thinks I've grown way to intimate with him, and thinks I'll make her mistake and get pregnant. Plus, she pulls her religion into all of it, saying he doesn't go to church enough and ect.

Plus, she plans to tell all my friends parents that he is not allowed to be around me.
The only good thing is that I'm going to be 18 in less then three months.

As long as you two are safe, being intimate is not a huge issue. And I don't think you'll make the same mistake, the people I know that were born from a teenage mother are smart enough to know to not make the choices they made when their parents were a teenager.
Now having her pull her religion into it is not appropriate whatsoever. Religion is not even apart of her argument and she pulled it in. She should not be upset that the boy doesn't go to church often, or might have different beliefs. Just because he doesn't go to church often, doesn't mean he's a bad person. I don't go to church and i'm also a atheist along with my boyfriend who we both have highly religious family's. None of our parents ever look down upon us, cause they understand its our decision.
I would probably wait until she is being rational before talking to her, cause right now it seems like she is spouting anything to make your boyfriend sound like a bad person, or you two are making wrong choices. I know I would tell my parents if they were acting like this, "I'm willing to speak with you as an adult, but only if you are willing to do the same" .

[loonyloolaluna]

Yeah, that's what I've been doing.

Alrighty then!

[greysilence]

EEEEEEP!!

Okay, so me and J have obviously been talking and stuff but there wasn't any hugs. (which was killing me by the way) XD

Then last night there was a dance. So. Much. Drama! It was from 6-8 but I had to leave at 7 because I had color guard tryouts. Then, while we were there, within the first minute K's (K is my best friend, practically a sister) boyfriend broke up with her. I spent the whole time trying to cheer her up, and the dance was sucky and gloomy because of that. -.- Obviously I wasn't going to just ditch her though. J came by ocassionally, and I was a bit sour because I was in a bad mood because of all the drama. He came over and I pretty much shoved him away and told him to "get lost". *sigh* It was sort of playful though, and he puts up with me, so he stayed. XD

Me: "Hug?"
Him: *makes face and crosses arms*
Me: "Fine! I don't want a hug anyways!" XD

And he came by every now and then. Then, at 7, I had to leave. :S Everyone was in a big circle dancing, and of course I was off standing in a corner with K. So I had her go get him for me. She tapped on his shoulder and pointed to me, and he left all his friends and came over.

Me: "Bye..."
Him: "You're leaving?"
Me: "Yeah..."
Him: "Where are you going?"
Me: "Color guard try outs."

Then he said bye and gave me a hug. <3 I was uber happy, usually I have to ask for hugs. XD

He didn't really go near his girlfriend (at least while I was there) so I don't know if they're still going out or not. I have a feeling they most likely are though, he probably would have told me.

[#Lavafur]

nice thread nim! you're so supportive!!<33

[Wildflier vs Slendy]

anyone here have any advice on how to show my girlfriend i care?

Depends how far in your relationship you two are.

[greysilence]

EEEEEEP!!

Okay, so me and J have obviously been talking and stuff but there wasn't any hugs. (which was killing me by the way) XD

Then last night there was a dance. So. Much. Drama! It was from 6-8 but I had to leave at 7 because I had color guard tryouts. Then, while we were there, within the first minute K's (K is my best friend, practically a sister) boyfriend broke up with her. I spent the whole time trying to cheer her up, and the dance was sucky and gloomy because of that. -.- Obviously I wasn't going to just ditch her though. J came by ocassionally, and I was a bit sour because I was in a bad mood because of all the drama. He came over and I pretty much shoved him away and told him to "get lost". *sigh* It was sort of playful though, and he puts up with me, so he stayed. XD

Me: "Hug?"
Him: *makes face and crosses arms*
Me: "Fine! I don't want a hug anyways!" XD

And he came by every now and then. Then, at 7, I had to leave. :S Everyone was in a big circle dancing, and of course I was off standing in a corner with K. So I had her go get him for me. She tapped on his shoulder and pointed to me, and he left all his friends and came over.

Me: "Bye..."
Him: "You're leaving?"
Me: "Yeah..."
Him: "Where are you going?"
Me: "Color guard try outs."

Then he said bye and gave me a hug. <3 I was uber happy, usually I have to ask for hugs. XD

He didn't really go near his girlfriend (at least while I was there) so I don't know if they're still going out or not. I have a feeling they most likely are though, he probably would have told me.

~*Key*~
M: male|my grade
R: male|year younger

M just messaged me on facebook, saying R was going to ask me out at the dance last night. I was wondering why he had kept coming over to me so much...anyways, it was kind of awkward. (my conversation with M) >.< I like J, not R. (J and R are in the same grade) It's kind of funny because in band, R sorta follows me a lot and I sorta follow J a lot. AWKWARDNESS! XD *sigh* For When R does ask me out (if he ever gets the guts to), anyone have advice on how to turn him down gently?

[Valentines]

anyone here have any advice on how to show my girlfriend i care?

Some form of homemade "I made you this!" like cookies, or something that would take a bit of time. Nothing means more to someone than something someone did from their heart

SNIP SNIP

Green.Eyes. you'll have to explain to him that you like someone else and that you simply like R as a friend. And that your sorry and you won't let it change your friendship any.

[greysilence]

SNIP SNIP

Green.Eyes. you'll have to explain to him that you like someone else and that you simply like R as a friend. And that your sorry and you won't let it change your friendship any.[/quote]

Thanks. C: I was thinking along those lines, but I wanted to hear some other opinions. :3

When/if he asks me out, I'll let you guys know how it turns out.

[Valentines]

Good luck
Let's just hope he doesn't ask and you can let it go and continue focusing on the other guy!