Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[loonyloolaluna]

I dont know if I should ask him out or if he likes me...

Probably get a close friend to ask him if he likes you.

I dont know me and Z have been really close friends and I told him I like him and if his friemd AG asks him he'll know I was the one asking

You shouldn't tell guys you like them.
Well that's what my mum says from her 'life experience'
Then there's no win win
If you ask him, well you're talking.
if you get a friend to ask him, he'll know it was you who asked.
Either way he'll know it was you who asked. So might as well go for it! =D Good luck.

Hey guys, this is a comment, but I'd much appreciate it if you could help me out on this one.
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First, if you want to know about my love life, click here and type UFO into the search box. - BTW I dumped Dragon, it's been a month.
I know that's alot of info. But if you can help me out that would be very useful to read.
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But anyways: I still like UFO (but he sadly has a gf). And now I like this guy, I'll just call him birdie for now,

Here's a bit about him:
He's year 12 (I'm year 10). Therefore he's 16, and I'm 14 - but I turn 15 before he turns 17!

He plays the guitar, and he said he'd bring it to school one time and play for me
And teach me a 'lil too.
Apparently he sucks at reading and writing. Writing essays too (failed every single one =/).
But on the plus side he can write his own music. 1 is finished - still working on 3. 2 are songs he sings when drunk at parties. 2 are really deep emotional songs.
Prefers to write on stuff - not play other guitarists music.
Been practicing guitar for 5 years (knows a bit of bass).

He's weird. Creeper weird. But he's joking when he does it. Kinda like me. I do this weirdness test on my friends where I first go: 'Hey.' And slide next to them. Repeat the Hey, arm around shoulders. Hey, hug. Hey, up close. Hey, leg under bum. Hey, arm from shoulders now on head. Hey, basically kissing them. IT'S REALLY FUNNY. Anywhom. He's done weirder: On his first encounter with somebody he asked the chick 'Do you like dinosaurs?!' In a Sorry if this is offensive, I'll bleep it out incase R3%@RD voice and when she didn't reply he followed her around for 10 seconds, and she screamed.

He sadly has another problem that I just cannot share. Because it's too personal.

He's not that great with grammar, though he is good at spelling, well better than me.
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I want to tell him I like him, and I've asked three friends:
N - she said "Maybe you should wait, see if it's a lust crush. If it is don't tell."
Moony - "Improve his grammar and perhaps take out the - and getting drunk at parties and I like this guy! You have biffle approval "
S - She likes him aswell, but also said watch out if it's a lust crush. Tbh, I can barely remember his face! I'm looking at him in the yearbook, and going I don't think that's him!
Conclusion: 2 approvals, and a maybe. So, do you think I should tell him?

Pros

Cons

~ Musician (can serenade me???)

~ Age =/

~ Funny

~ Not that smart

~ Seems nice

~ Drinks

~ I don't like him for his looks (can barely remember), but I

~Initials are JM, now I know that sounds dumb, but I've had

like him because he's awesome.

some experience with JM's all of which have been @$$3$.

~ We've talked, and he basically told me he would not

~ If I do tell him, he might end up ignoring me. Like how one

pressure anyone into doing something they don't want

of the other JM's (monkeys) and cheese did.

to do.
~ We trust each other with pretty serious stuff, and
we've only really met face to face 4 times ...

I'll tell you guys a 'lil more about birdie in my next post.

Ahaha, you made a pro and con list! 8D People do listen to me! *dies of happiness*

Anyways, hmm... It sounds to me like...crap. I'm pretty much just as torn as you are.

Well, first of all, I think you need to really think about this. You have to DEEPLY consider the fact that he drinks, as I think this is probably the most serious issue. Since he's only 16, there's the fact that it's illegal. (Unless you're in the UK, then I THINK the age is 16. But I have no clue. *Don't wanna be an American idiot*) Plus, it's really dangerous. At your age, (Ha, feel so old. See, it's funny because we're the same age.) you shouldn't be worrying over your boyfriend going out and getting drunk, or going over to take care of him when he's hungover. Seriously, you shouldn't. My motto is that if you ever say "I can change him!", "You don't know him the way I do," or "You don't understand him!" about a guy, he isn't worth it. Wouldn't drinking be something you want to change? You shouldn't have to baby your boyfriend, esp. considering that he's two years older than you. (But really, I wouldn't worry about age here, that's not the problem. J is also two years older than me, so I know exactly how you feel. ^.^)

This is just something you need to heavily consider. Is him being a musician and being super hot worth you putting up with his drinking and partying? Is it worth all the stress? Plus, I doubt your parents would be all to happy with you dating a guy who drinks. (Plus, the thing you don't want to share which I am guessing.)

But this is just me. This is about you. I say sleep on it, just really think about things. Mull it over. You've got lots of time to work things out, you really do. Plus, if he doesn't want to wait, then the decision is made for you. He's not worth it if he doesn't feel the same. (But the not going to force you into anything is a plus) I really hope that this helps you, and good luck in choosing the right thing.

Again, sorry for taking FOREVER to respond to you all, I feel awful.

It's there! I read it! It was useful! Thank you also Nimble Squiddy for being the second person that seems to be able to care and help. *Dies a little inside from happiness too*

Though I don't think he drinks too often. But I definatly see how, IF, I did get him as a boyfriend. As happy as that would make me, I have to realize his world isn't going to revolve around me. I kept imagining inudendos (not sure if correct context) where we would just be walking in the park, holding hands, and then sitting on the grass as he plays guitar for me. Now I realise, He'd probably want me to hang around his friends, and do what he'd want to too. But he told me

I would not pressure anyone into doing something they don't want to do.

Which ... yeah. Is a huge Pro.
You're 14? Crushing on a 16 year old? That's code name is J ... And you have sleeping beauty as your avatar? (The song once upon a dream was the song I had with UFO) ...

Yeah. Oh damn, didn't mention this. When we first met I just went over to talk with my friend, and somehow ended up talking to him. And he said that I look like D (who is my brother). My friend is cracking up and I say. D's my brother. He was surprised and yeah ...
When He found out my name it was an awkward situation too. He was like; *doing random wavy wave* What's your name?!. I reply with shouting across the road; S! He didn't hear and gave a confused expression. S!
Anywhom, when I told my brother about birdie, and how birdie new him. D was confused and stuff, and said to stay away from him, and if I saw him again, to punch him and run. And if D ever met him he'd beat him up. My brother's really protective ^.^' I think that's partly because of the thing I just can't tell you about, because our families going through a really tough time ...

J / Birdie

S / UFO

55

40

Now: 58

Now: 40

random 2% like for unknown ...

But ... I liked him ... and I forgot how he looked, just looks was a bonus:

Okay, so I hung out with him yesterday tuesday. Wow. It was BAD I brought a friend, he brought and unknown friend, and a random of my friends friend came along ...
But when I come back with the bar of chocolate I promised him ... That eye contact we made. It seemed like space and time paused for a couple of minutes. Reality, could have been one second. What do I know? But when we hung out. It was so awkward! I think I know the reason why my friends call me queen of awkwardness (no joke they've said I'm awkwarder than Gaga. And that I must be the queen v.v) but me and birdie barely talked! I was sooo shy. And when I did talk to him he'd always look at me. ALWAYS. It was ... bloody hell. And like he had to leave in 30 minutes, and his friend ditched, and my friends friend ditched, and my friend was talking to somebody, so it was just me and him. We talked ... I can barely remember though v.v
But I do remember that not only is his personality awesome, but when I see him or think of him ... **BUTTERFLIES** ... and he has good fashion sense for a guy! And ... he's so cute

My main idea: Should I tell him I like him???

[Nimble Awesomeness]

I think Im starting to like my only guy friend. Help?

I fail to see the problem here. Is it because you're afraid you would lose him as a friend if he found out, or you just don't want things to get awkward?

Sorry, I didnt nearly explain enough XD. I dont want things to get awkward and he views me only as a good friend. I tell him alot. Plus, my bestfriend and him used to hate each other. Now they are kind of...cold. D: I dont want to like him. All Ive got to do is convince myself I dont. Then Eventially I wont....I hope.

Hey, worked for me. I did it once, but only because my best friend also liked him. She had him first, so I backed off. Just focus on the bad things about him, and after time you won't like him anymore. It's difficult, but necessary on occasion. If he's not interested, he's not interested.

So there's this guy I like who I'll call Z.

I've liked him for a while now, since the beginning of the year, and I really think he likes me. So anyway, Z is my best friend. I look to him for protection from the other guys (like those who abuse me sometimes and those guys who like me but I don't like him back) and for help with homework (math). He looks to me as the girl he can easily steal from and tease. But I expect that. That's just who he is. He steals my pencils, folder, pens, homework to look off of, he trips me in the hallways, he teases me playfully, he plays with my hair, etc. But that's just who he is. That's how me and him are, he's the Tom the cat and I'm Jerry the mouse. We tease each other but also go to each other for help and protection from the other cats and mice. I would do anything for him.

But, lately, things have been different. Our friends X and Y were OBSESSING to find out who he liked. He said he liked a girl on *blank* team with a *blank* that starts it. Only me and my friend were the only ones who could match up. So they kept asking. They think it's my friend who he likes officially. Not me.

Now, that made me extremely upset and I ended up avoiding him for a small bit. When I started talking to him again, Z seemed a bit nervous.

By now, I'm utterly confused. I though he liked my friend but he's been acting different recently. He's changed his look a little bit, treats me a bit nicer, has started to give things back... I'm just not sure if he's guilty that he knows I like him or he likes me or if its just because the end of the school year is so close.

So, I've taken two things into consideration: 1) Tell him I like him on this Friday. or 2) Admit I liked him at the end of the year. It's just confusing to the point where I need to know or I might keep talking and thinking about him until the next guy comes along, ya know?

So, any ideas on what I should do? Should I do 1 or 2? If no one has any ideas, I might just do 2... but if a few people say I should do 1, I'll do 1.
-Juliet

Yeah, I would go with two. Or, how about a compromise? Wait a few weeks, and if you still really like him ask him out. There are tips for asking someone out on the front page, if you decide you need them. ;) But over all, the choice is up to you. Do what you think is best for you, and the relationship. It sounds like he likes you, but I would wait it out a bit anyways. If he does like you, he'll wait as well. And heck, he might just ask you out first! You never know. So wait it out, then ask him out if you feel that's right. Good luck!

So today there was a band festival, and J was wearing a suit! With a cute BOW TIE. HE WAS ADORABLE.

But he decided to come out AFTER I had gotten on my bus so I couldn't say hi. :(

OMG I KNOW YOUR FEELS <3 This is like, the exact same thing for me. Lucky me, most of the times I see him he has to be in business wear (Also me) and so I see him in a suit all the time. *Melts* Sooo sexy. <3 <3 <3

I want my crush to ask me out.... so bad.
Background story-
My and Z have been friemds for the whole year and I told him I have a crush on him and he didnt really care but him and this girl 'A' have gone out at least 5 times this year and I hate her so much. He can act like a jerk or he can be nice and sweet. We talk a lot and on friday when I was going home he finally said "Bye L!" And he was staring at me! I dont know though..... I wish we can be together so bad. D:

News-
Z was a jerk to me after talking to A... I fell like I love him but I want to completly hate him. I cant its to hard sometimes I fell like dieing because he makes me fell bad about everything I do thats not riight. I cant live with him doing this to me. I wish I could stop liking him but I cant. Ive tried so hard. D:

So the last couple days he has been really nice and sweet <3
Today A{the one he hangs out with a lot and they always flirt} tried to be on his team for PE and he said no and she walked on my side and then about 5 people were on my team -__- and they had 2. So me.and my friemd S were about to sit down and watch them play and Z and his friemd AG were like "You can come play with us!" So we walked over there and A glared at me and threw down her racket and walked away into the bathroom. Shes such a dang drama queen

Well, she might just have very strong feelings for him. She's just showing them off more publicly than most; it's not a terrible thing at most times.

Anyways, I think you should really consider if this guy is worth it. He makes you feel like you're doing things wrong, and that's not ok. He doesn't seem like the guy for you. I know how hard it is to stop liking someone; trust me. But sometimes even if you do like him, you can just not act on it. Don't flirt with him, don't interact with him a ton. Eventually you might just stop liking him. It could happen, but it might not. The best piece of advice I can give you right now is to really try and give this guy up; even if it means losing him as a friend. If he really makes you feel the way you said you did, then he's going to make you feel that way as a friend too. Plus, if he's always flirting with that other girl it lessens your chances greatly. Also, if he flirts with you as well, than it just proves he's a player and you need to think about that; is he going to flirt with other girls while you're dating him? You have to think of these things ahead of time, as it'll save you a lot of heartache and hurt in the future, when it may be too late.

Also, do not get a friend to ask him. If you really want to find out, ask him yourself. Getting a friend to find out for you is something you do when you're in 4th grade. Really, it may seem appealing because it can be hard to confront someone when it comes to feelings, but getting a friend to do it makes it seem like you just don't care. It comes off as just trying to figure out if he likes you for the sake of knowing, rather than the sake of knowing because you want to ask him out. It's really not a good thing to do. It lessens the personal relationship by a ton, and if you ask him out face-to-face it's so much more honest. For all he knows, if you send a friend to ask you could be laughing your head off in the back ground while your friend preforms the dare you gave her.

No matter how you do it, writing a note or asking a friend if he likes you is not the way to go. (Writing a note may be excusable when it comes to asking him if you like him, but not if you're asking him out. It's just as impersonal as sending your friend.)

I have a crush on this guy, I'll call him T.

Me and T have been chatting over FB for months. He's friends with my bestfriend Zoe, and she introduced us over FB. We talk a lot, usually every two days at least. We have a lot in common, like we both love cats. We got FB married in January, just as a joke really. Ever since he refers to me as "beautiful", and "his love". It was only around this time that I realised that I like him. I was nervous about telling Zoe, her and T had gone out for a few days back in November. When I eventually told her, all she could say was "N'awwwh". She thought it was so cute. She thinks he likes me back, she even texted him to ask. He just replied that he had never meet me in real life.

We have never met in person, he lives kinda far away. So I don't know, am I wasting my time liking him?

No, I don't think you're wasting your time. I think that it would be hard to keep up a relationship if you started one, (really hard) but not wasting your time. Do you think you'll ever really meet him?

So, there's this guy at my roller skating class who I think likes me. I might just be making it up, but he watches me a lot, gives me more attention than any of the other students, (He's a senior student so he's supposed to help the newbies, but he is right around my age) and congratulates me excessively on every minor accomplishment. He looks like a total nerd, which is actually my type, but I am more interested in somebody else. I don't know what to do. ;-; Please help.

Well, what's the problem? Are you scared because you like someone else and you want them more, or do you think you're not into him at all?

Hello ladies! I need to rant and need advice please and thank you. <3

Anyway, I have a boyfriend. Let's call him Piggy. He really likes me. He's said he's in love with me and we only have dated for a month and known each other for six months. He just really loves me no matter what. He's perfect and amazing, but the thing is I'm not sure if he's really my type. o.o He's about 7 months older than me, making him 17 earlier, but it's like he looks way younger than me. He's scrawny. He's way more sensitive and emotional than me. I don't know if I should just ignore it or not. Our situation of getting together was really tough and long and it's a major issue now. Not only do I have these girls hating, but we have just recently found out his best guy friend has a crush on him too! It feels like too much drama and I'm a busy girl with extracurricular events and all. It's getting hard and to the point where I don't want to hang out with him much. I love him, he's a great guy friend, but I'm not sure if I can be in a relationship where I feel almost nothing. Hey, maybe I'm just PMSing, but it's really bothering me since tomorrow he wants to come over and hang out for our one month. (Friday the 13th, great. xP) sigh. It's a little awkward, I don't even know what to do with him or where to go. Any ideas ladies and gentlemen? D:

Oh, and I've talked to my mother and grandmother about this and they always say, "We like him, he's a good clean cut guy, you'll learn to like him too." sigh, I wish it was that simple. </3

If you don't feel it, break it off. Or, take a break. Talk to him about it, directly. Set a time to hang out with him, when you'll be alone, and tell him exactly how you feel. Suggest that you guys take a short break from each other; not planning to break up, but just trying to sort feelings out. If you really think even that's not worth it, that trying to save the relationship is a waste of time, than just break up with him. If you keep this up without letting him know what he's doing wrong, you're leading him. It's not fair of you to break up with him without giving him a chance to change though, so I would just take a break. I hope this helps, and the best of luck to you! I'm sorry that you're relationship has come to this. :(

There is this guy, lets call him J and I think I like him.Whenever I see him my heart skips a beat and I think I blush and whenever I'm away from him there is this hollow pain inside me. He asked me out for the second time in the beginning of the week and I said yes. Last time he asked I was busy. I knew he liked me since last year and yesterday I told him I knew. He is the class clown but when he is around me, he is shy and caring. He is a triplet and his sister dislikes him. I'm sorta friends with his sister and shes a bit violent. I'm afraid she will harm me if she finds out that me and her brother are dating. She doesn't know about it yet and he and I don't really act like we are dating in class because we are both shy and I do not feel the need for wildfire rumors about my private life spreading around school.

Yeah, do what Firework said. But if you guys aren't friends, well.. Have him tell her. It's not your place if you aren't already close. After all, it is his sister. She'll be most likely to get less mad if he tells her. I'm glad you guys are dating though, and good luck with telling her! Sorting out your significant others family can be difficult, I know, but I'm sure if it's meant to be it'll work out in the end. :)

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Again guys, I'm sorry I take forever to get to your posts. I do try to get to everyone though, however long my posts may be. :)

Also, if you guys have any questions you want put on the FAQ post it on here (I'll see it xP) or PM me. I suck at coming up with the questions because I never ask them, I usually only ever have the answers. xD So, don't be shy!

[Wildflier vs Slendy]

There's this guy, let's just call him Ty, and I REALLY like him. Even though we both started highschool this year, I had a crush on him since last year. I was always the loner of the class and he actually helped me make friends. He was so sweet to me, and he still is. On the signautre bear last year, he wrote: ***** XOXO and that bear has stayed on my bed every day since then. Anyway, he was really sweet and stuck up for me when I was getting picked on and didn't want to fight back. When I was sitting in the playground, crying, he even came over from his game with his friends to try and cheer me up. He was never like that to any other girl. But this year, I know that he likes a certain girl. Nobody knows who she likes, since she's been going out with heaps of people already. He still sticks up for me though. I really want him to ask me out, but I don't want to be a rebound. I think he still has feelings for me but I'm not sure.

[s y n]

New boyfriend guys :3

Anyways, so I'm dating one of my ex's that I dated a few months ago. I was reluctant to date him again because I had gotten over him and didn't really think about him much anymore, but just recently he's been constantly talking to me, and a day or so ago he asked me out and I decided I might as well just say yes.

And, well, I've been thinking about breaking up with him.

He was in another city for a hockey game yesterday, and that was when I started thinking about it. There's this guy is ER's (one of my besties) class. He'll be the new M. And three or four days ago he started talking to me on Facebook. I barely knew him - I knew his name and what he looked like and that was about it - so I was curious why he was talking to me. Turns out, we had hung out before a couple times at school, which I remembered after I thought about it a little. He asked me if I had dated J. I said yes, twice. Then he asked me if I was dating anyone now, and I said no because I wasn't at the time. Then M asked if I liked anyone, and I said yeah. He eventually got it out of me that I like A. Then, out of the blue, he asked me what class I'm in. Confused, I said, "Um 7-6, why?" and he immediately replied with, "Okay, the girl I like is in 7-6." I wasn't sure if he meant what it sounded like he meant... Then I gave him my cell number to text me since I was getting off Facebook.

I instantly got a text from him after that xD.

We talked for a little bit, and then he said, "Can I ask you a question?" I said sure. After a little while, he asks me, "What would you say if I asked you out?" Of course, I barely knew him and didn't have any feelings towards him so I just said, "I don't know... I mean, we barely know each other. We never talk face to face and we don't really hang out or anything." After that, he asked me if I wanted to hang out with him the next day. I reluctantly said I would. We talked until like 5:00 A.M, but by then I was so tired I could barely keep my eyes open, so I had to go to bed. At 11:00 the next morning, his text woke me up. I was nervous as I was getting ready to hang out with him. I mean, what girl isn't nervous to hang out with a guy, one-on-one, nobody else, for the first time? I thought we'd have nothing to talk about and it'd all just be awkward silence.

Boy, was I wrong.

We were constantly laughing and telling stories and jumping around being stupid c: It was windy and he kept jumping around doing random tricks and stuff and his hat kept falling off so he gave it to me to wear. I wore his hat all day after that :3

It was a great day, really, and I was happy. Then the day after was when I started dating my boyfriend, who's first name ALSO starts with an A Dx. M seemed... Disappointed. I told him that (gimme a minute to check my texts) my ex asked me out and he asked what I was going to say. I said that I was going to say yes, and M replied, "Oh..."

We also hungout that day, which was yesterday. It was even better than the day before!

First we met at the GIGANTIC park that we both live close to, and then we went to 7-11 'cause my mom wanted me to get her some stuff. We literally spent an HOUR in 7-11 because we were making jokes about everything and laughing so hard that we couldn't remember what we had to get. Eventually I got what I needed, left, stopped at my house to drop it off, and then we just randomly started walking around town. Two of my friends, one of which doesn't really like M and the other which completely hates him for no reason, wanted us to go back to the park that we met at to see them. We decided we would, and after a few minutes of them trying to drag me to the house of the friend that hates him, a bunch of kids that M knew ran up to us and started talking, and one of the kids wanted to fight him and kept calling him inappropriate names that a person that age should not even KNOW. We just laughed and left to go back to 7-11 and get slurpees. M told me that the kid that wanted to fight him went on his bus, and once he got kicked off the bus for beating him up - like literally BEATING this kid because he was insulting him and wanted to fight - and then the kid's mom came over to his house and his mom made him apologize. He said that the kid was crying, which I don't doubt.

After we got our slurpees we went to the mall. Now, get this; There's absolutely nothing in my city's mall that would interest anybody, especially people our age. I'm always deathly bored there, even with my best friends. When M and I went there, it was probably the most fun I'd had in forever. First we were tired of walking so we sat down together on the bench in the middle of the mall. I introduced him to Angry Birds in Space, which he has now become addicted to like me. After that, he pointed out a tiny little yellow bus, like one of those kiddie rides that you put a quarter in and it starts moving. There was a horse ride right beside it. So he squeezed into the bus, and I jumped on the horse - backwards, so I could talk to him. I jumped off the horse and he tried to get out of the bus, but he was like literally stuck. He managed eventually to pull himself out of it, landing on his back on the floor of the mall of course. Then we decided we'd get some candy from the machines. We were about to put money in for some candy, when he accidentally bumped it, and the lid popped off! Normally the lids are locked so nobody steals the candy. We flipped out, laughing hysterically because we couldn't believe it. We still paid for the candy 83. Then we got this big bouncy ball that had a turtle inside of it. We named the turtle Turtle - original name, right? - and then bounced him through the mall. Then we decided to get more candy. This candy thing was lower down, so we had to crouch. I was holding my hand under the thingy mabobber where the candy comes out, and he was twisting the thingy. But he couldn't get it so we were laughing so hard that we were now sitting on the floor of the mall trying desperately to get some candy. Two junior-high kids sitting on the floor of the mall on a windy Thursday afternoon trying to get candy and laughing like they were crazy; Yep, that was us.

We then went to Carlton Cards where they sell Webkinz and little stuffed animals. We picked up different ones and cooed about how cute they are. Then he shoved one in my face, so I threw one at him, and we started a Webkinz fight until the manager told us to clean up - there were Webkinz all over the floor near the store now - and get out xD. We left the mall after a while, after we finished our slurpees and with Turtle in hand. I don't know what it was about that mall session, but there was just something that made me realize how alike we are. The stories he tells, the stories I tell, the way we act, the things we like/dislike, the things we laugh at, the things that scare us... It's all either exactly the same or very similar. And I also realized something else: I like him. I like him as more than a friend. I totally forgot about my boyfriend when I was with him, and I didn't even think about anyone else. It was just me and him laughing and being stupid and crazy. And there was the way that he looked at me, I can't really describe it, that just made me feel amazing. He was looking at me like I was making his day just by being there.

And he laughed at every single one of my jokes, and I don't think it was even on purpose. The way he laughed at the things that I said was genuine, real. It wasn't forced or fake. It was like hysterical, true laughter, like he honestly found me funny and wasn't just trying to be nice. And does he make me laugh? Hell yes. We make each other laugh until we can't breathe. We had to sit down behind a flower shop because we were laughing so hard that we couldn't walk. And then we walked past the hospital and a big gust of wind blew his hat away so he had to chase it through the parking lot, diving for it and missing a couple times before finally catching it. I was laughing so hard that I was crying! He just makes me feel totally happy, and just on top of the world. And then there is a huge "backyard" type grassy area beside the hospital and we laid down in it beside each other, not real close but close, and pointed out shapes in the clouds. Then he was playing with Turtle and trying to break the ball open to see what Turtle was made of. He couldn't do it, so I suggested that I would. He jokingly said that he was the man and he wasn't going to be upshown by a girl. I smirked and reached out to grab the ball, but he wouldn't give it to me. So we were laughing, fighting over this ball. Eventually we somehow stood up and were both pulling on it as hard as we could, so I let go. He went flying backwards very ungracefully, which made me laugh again. Then he was playing with the ball and I flicked it out of his hands. It rolled behind him. We looked at each other for a second, before we both bolted up. I shoved him - not roughly enough to hurt him or anything, just playfully - out of the way and grabbed it, laughing and strutting around with it while he just laughed and pulled grass out of his hair.

I walked him home at supper time when we had to go because he lives really close to the park we met at and I have a shortcut that goes through his street to get to my house. Plus there was the fact that I was having so much fun that I didn't want to leave him, but I didn't tell him that. We decided that we were definitely hanging out after supper, no matter what our parents said. And when we were across the street from his house, I made a heart to him and he just smiled and made one back, then ran across the street because his sister was just grinning at him. I have a feeling she asked if we were dating, because at least three other people had asked us that, plus the three that texted me - he read the texts when I got them, too - and asked if I like him. He was so eager to find out what I said to all of them and he put on this sort of smooth, I-don't-care-if-you-don't-answer-me voice and demeanor, but I could tell that he really wanted to know, which was cute. He was pretty good at hiding it, though, and that smooth voice he put on was honestly very alluring.

After supper, we did hang out. It was still windy, but now it was super cold, too. We were both quieter than before, but only because it was freezing so we were curled up, knees to our faces, heads down, hoods up, trying to stay warm. And we were both thinking. I asked him what he was thinking about and he replied quietly, not at all as rudely as it sounds, "Nothing that you need to know..." He sounded almost sad. And then we started talking about my boyfriend, and he asked me why I was dating him. I told him the short story of why, and he just shrugged and that he didn't think he sounded right for me. We were talking about how he hadn't talked to me at all that day, and he suggested at least twice that maybe I should break up with him. We were also joking about how if I was single we could cuddle with each other for warmth, and at the end of the joke he just sort of quieted down. I knew something was up, because he's never quiet. And because he was quiet, I was automatically quiet, trying to figure out why he was quiet. The idea that he may have feelings towards me had never crossed my mind. He didn't flirt with me - well, openly he didn't, some of what he did might be considered some subtle flirting I suppose - and I was so used to having guys as friends that I assumed us hanging out like this was two friends, now best friends as we decided. So because of that, I didn't know what could be bothering him, but he didn't seem too happy. He still laughed a lot at all of my jokes, even some of the ones that sucked, and he still sounded completely sincere doing so, but something was definitely off and he wouldn't tell me whenever I asked.

Finally it was time to go, so I walked him down to his street, then decided to call my mom to come pick me up. We sat in the grass near the sidewalk talking and waiting for her. When she came - it was nine o'clock now, so I was glad I didn't have to walk home - and we both stood up. I smiled at him and he smiled back and we hugged, not really caring that my mom was right there and she's uber over-protective, and then I left. Literally five seconds after my mom drove away, he texted me.

Later last night, there was still something off about him, something not right. Usually, from what I know of him, he's completely carefree and loud and bouncy just like me. Not quiet and unhappy. I knew he was still happy to hang out with me that night and to talk to me but there was something wrong. I asked him about it, and he said he was fine. Liar. I knew he wasn't fine. I'd only known him since the start of the schoolyear and I'd only ever hung out with him like four or five times, but I already understood him and knew him well enough to know that he was not fine. Finally, I just asked him, "Why did you want me to breakup with [InsertMyBoyfriend'sNameHere] so badly? And what was up with you tonight? Please don't say nothing, because I know it's something." after a minute he replied, "You really want to know?" and I said yes. A few minutes later, he said, "Well, it's because... I like you..." and I asked him what he meant and he said, "As more than just a friend."

I'll just be honest - I squealed. I squealed like a little girl. So then I said to him, "And the problem about tonight was...?" and he said, "Your boyfriend... I really like you and it's not fun to know that you're with another guy. That's what I was thinking about: You." Oh my Gosh. When I got that text, my heart imploded. How could I have been so blind? The only time he was unhappy was when he found out I was dating someone. And then he was super unhappy that night because I was talking about my boyfriend and he was, as I had thought sad because he has feelings for me and I'm with another guy. That text... I don't know why, but it made me tear up. It was sweet and cute, but at the same time, sad and heartbroken. I liked the fact that he was fond enough of me to be noticeably (very noticeably) upset that I'm dating someone else, but I didn't like the fact that I was causing him to be unhappy. I was so busy thinking about this that I forgot to reply, so he sent me another text, saying, "It's not like I have a chance. It's not like we're gonna be anything anyways. I'm guessing you don't even like me that way..." This just made the tearing up worse. I could just imagine the way he would say that to me face-to-face, the way he probably looked texting me that, what he was feeling and thinking... I knew for sure then that I liked him, because I hated knowing that he was upset and I loved the feeling that I could make him happy again. So I replied with, "I thought you said you were a good guesser." after that, he said, "Wait... So that means...?" And I said, "I do. I like you. As more than a friend."

I counted, and he sent me twenty-two smiley faces.

He's so cute :3 But the problem is, I like my boyfriend. I like him and I'm happy to be dating him, but I really like M, too, and he likes me... I don't know what to do. He was so happy to hear that I liked him, but I think knowing that I did like him and that I still had a boyfriend made it worse. He was still upset, but I think I made it a bit better.

-sigh-
M is like my perfect guy. Funny, laidback, crazy, fun, happy, positive, always wanting to hangout, sweet, cool... Not to mention the adorable way he gets all nervous and can't talk properly when he's around me or always fails trying to do all these stunts which I think is to impress me. And the bonus fact that he's cute, hot, attractive, whatever you want to say. <3

[Acidic]

Who watches Kickin' it? yeah, I have a crush on Leo Howard.

[s y n]

Who watches Kickin' it? yeah, I have a crush on Leo Howard.

You are not alone. He is sexy.
/Iregretnothing

[Acidic]

Who watches Kickin' it? yeah, I have a crush on Leo Howard.

You are not alone. He is sexy.
/Iregretnothing

STAY AWAY HE'S MINE.
lol jk.

[Zeee]

New boyfriend guys :3

Anyways, so I'm dating one of my ex's that I dated a few months ago. I was reluctant to date him again because I had gotten over him and didn't really think about him much anymore, but just recently he's been constantly talking to me, and a day or so ago he asked me out and I decided I might as well just say yes.

And, well, I've been thinking about breaking up with him.

He was in another city for a hockey game yesterday, and that was when I started thinking about it. There's this guy is ER's (one of my besties) class. He'll be the new M. And three or four days ago he started talking to me on Facebook. I barely knew him - I knew his name and what he looked like and that was about it - so I was curious why he was talking to me. Turns out, we had hung out before a couple times at school, which I remembered after I thought about it a little. He asked me if I had dated J. I said yes, twice. Then he asked me if I was dating anyone now, and I said no because I wasn't at the time. Then M asked if I liked anyone, and I said yeah. He eventually got it out of me that I like A. Then, out of the blue, he asked me what class I'm in. Confused, I said, "Um 7-6, why?" and he immediately replied with, "Okay, the girl I like is in 7-6." I wasn't sure if he meant what it sounded like he meant... Then I gave him my cell number to text me since I was getting off Facebook.

I instantly got a text from him after that xD.

We talked for a little bit, and then he said, "Can I ask you a question?" I said sure. After a little while, he asks me, "What would you say if I asked you out?" Of course, I barely knew him and didn't have any feelings towards him so I just said, "I don't know... I mean, we barely know each other. We never talk face to face and we don't really hang out or anything." After that, he asked me if I wanted to hang out with him the next day. I reluctantly said I would. We talked until like 5:00 A.M, but by then I was so tired I could barely keep my eyes open, so I had to go to bed. At 11:00 the next morning, his text woke me up. I was nervous as I was getting ready to hang out with him. I mean, what girl isn't nervous to hang out with a guy, one-on-one, nobody else, for the first time? I thought we'd have nothing to talk about and it'd all just be awkward silence.

Boy, was I wrong.

We were constantly laughing and telling stories and jumping around being stupid c: It was windy and he kept jumping around doing random tricks and stuff and his hat kept falling off so he gave it to me to wear. I wore his hat all day after that :3

It was a great day, really, and I was happy. Then the day after was when I started dating my boyfriend, who's first name ALSO starts with an A Dx. M seemed... Disappointed. I told him that (gimme a minute to check my texts) my ex asked me out and he asked what I was going to say. I said that I was going to say yes, and M replied, "Oh..."

We also hungout that day, which was yesterday. It was even better than the day before!

First we met at the GIGANTIC park that we both live close to, and then we went to 7-11 'cause my mom wanted me to get her some stuff. We literally spent an HOUR in 7-11 because we were making jokes about everything and laughing so hard that we couldn't remember what we had to get. Eventually I got what I needed, left, stopped at my house to drop it off, and then we just randomly started walking around town. Two of my friends, one of which doesn't really like M and the other which completely hates him for no reason, wanted us to go back to the park that we met at to see them. We decided we would, and after a few minutes of them trying to drag me to the house of the friend that hates him, a bunch of kids that M knew ran up to us and started talking, and one of the kids wanted to fight him and kept calling him inappropriate names that a person that age should not even KNOW. We just laughed and left to go back to 7-11 and get slurpees. M told me that the kid that wanted to fight him went on his bus, and once he got kicked off the bus for beating him up - like literally BEATING this kid because he was insulting him and wanted to fight - and then the kid's mom came over to his house and his mom made him apologize. He said that the kid was crying, which I don't doubt.

After we got our slurpees we went to the mall. Now, get this; There's absolutely nothing in my city's mall that would interest anybody, especially people our age. I'm always deathly bored there, even with my best friends. When M and I went there, it was probably the most fun I'd had in forever. First we were tired of walking so we sat down together on the bench in the middle of the mall. I introduced him to Angry Birds in Space, which he has now become addicted to like me. After that, he pointed out a tiny little yellow bus, like one of those kiddie rides that you put a quarter in and it starts moving. There was a horse ride right beside it. So he squeezed into the bus, and I jumped on the horse - backwards, so I could talk to him. I jumped off the horse and he tried to get out of the bus, but he was like literally stuck. He managed eventually to pull himself out of it, landing on his back on the floor of the mall of course. Then we decided we'd get some candy from the machines. We were about to put money in for some candy, when he accidentally bumped it, and the lid popped off! Normally the lids are locked so nobody steals the candy. We flipped out, laughing hysterically because we couldn't believe it. We still paid for the candy 83. Then we got this big bouncy ball that had a turtle inside of it. We named the turtle Turtle - original name, right? - and then bounced him through the mall. Then we decided to get more candy. This candy thing was lower down, so we had to crouch. I was holding my hand under the thingy mabobber where the candy comes out, and he was twisting the thingy. But he couldn't get it so we were laughing so hard that we were now sitting on the floor of the mall trying desperately to get some candy. Two junior-high kids sitting on the floor of the mall on a windy Thursday afternoon trying to get candy and laughing like they were crazy; Yep, that was us.

We then went to Carlton Cards where they sell Webkinz and little stuffed animals. We picked up different ones and cooed about how cute they are. Then he shoved one in my face, so I threw one at him, and we started a Webkinz fight until the manager told us to clean up - there were Webkinz all over the floor near the store now - and get out xD. We left the mall after a while, after we finished our slurpees and with Turtle in hand. I don't know what it was about that mall session, but there was just something that made me realize how alike we are. The stories he tells, the stories I tell, the way we act, the things we like/dislike, the things we laugh at, the things that scare us... It's all either exactly the same or very similar. And I also realized something else: I like him. I like him as more than a friend. I totally forgot about my boyfriend when I was with him, and I didn't even think about anyone else. It was just me and him laughing and being stupid and crazy. And there was the way that he looked at me, I can't really describe it, that just made me feel amazing. He was looking at me like I was making his day just by being there.

And he laughed at every single one of my jokes, and I don't think it was even on purpose. The way he laughed at the things that I said was genuine, real. It wasn't forced or fake. It was like hysterical, true laughter, like he honestly found me funny and wasn't just trying to be nice. And does he make me laugh? Hell yes. We make each other laugh until we can't breathe. We had to sit down behind a flower shop because we were laughing so hard that we couldn't walk. And then we walked past the hospital and a big gust of wind blew his hat away so he had to chase it through the parking lot, diving for it and missing a couple times before finally catching it. I was laughing so hard that I was crying! He just makes me feel totally happy, and just on top of the world. And then there is a huge "backyard" type grassy area beside the hospital and we laid down in it beside each other, not real close but close, and pointed out shapes in the clouds. Then he was playing with Turtle and trying to break the ball open to see what Turtle was made of. He couldn't do it, so I suggested that I would. He jokingly said that he was the man and he wasn't going to be upshown by a girl. I smirked and reached out to grab the ball, but he wouldn't give it to me. So we were laughing, fighting over this ball. Eventually we somehow stood up and were both pulling on it as hard as we could, so I let go. He went flying backwards very ungracefully, which made me laugh again. Then he was playing with the ball and I flicked it out of his hands. It rolled behind him. We looked at each other for a second, before we both bolted up. I shoved him - not roughly enough to hurt him or anything, just playfully - out of the way and grabbed it, laughing and strutting around with it while he just laughed and pulled grass out of his hair.

I walked him home at supper time when we had to go because he lives really close to the park we met at and I have a shortcut that goes through his street to get to my house. Plus there was the fact that I was having so much fun that I didn't want to leave him, but I didn't tell him that. We decided that we were definitely hanging out after supper, no matter what our parents said. And when we were across the street from his house, I made a heart to him and he just smiled and made one back, then ran across the street because his sister was just grinning at him. I have a feeling she asked if we were dating, because at least three other people had asked us that, plus the three that texted me - he read the texts when I got them, too - and asked if I like him. He was so eager to find out what I said to all of them and he put on this sort of smooth, I-don't-care-if-you-don't-answer-me voice and demeanor, but I could tell that he really wanted to know, which was cute. He was pretty good at hiding it, though, and that smooth voice he put on was honestly very alluring.

After supper, we did hang out. It was still windy, but now it was super cold, too. We were both quieter than before, but only because it was freezing so we were curled up, knees to our faces, heads down, hoods up, trying to stay warm. And we were both thinking. I asked him what he was thinking about and he replied quietly, not at all as rudely as it sounds, "Nothing that you need to know..." He sounded almost sad. And then we started talking about my boyfriend, and he asked me why I was dating him. I told him the short story of why, and he just shrugged and that he didn't think he sounded right for me. We were talking about how he hadn't talked to me at all that day, and he suggested at least twice that maybe I should break up with him. We were also joking about how if I was single we could cuddle with each other for warmth, and at the end of the joke he just sort of quieted down. I knew something was up, because he's never quiet. And because he was quiet, I was automatically quiet, trying to figure out why he was quiet. The idea that he may have feelings towards me had never crossed my mind. He didn't flirt with me - well, openly he didn't, some of what he did might be considered some subtle flirting I suppose - and I was so used to having guys as friends that I assumed us hanging out like this was two friends, now best friends as we decided. So because of that, I didn't know what could be bothering him, but he didn't seem too happy. He still laughed a lot at all of my jokes, even some of the ones that sucked, and he still sounded completely sincere doing so, but something was definitely off and he wouldn't tell me whenever I asked.

Finally it was time to go, so I walked him down to his street, then decided to call my mom to come pick me up. We sat in the grass near the sidewalk talking and waiting for her. When she came - it was nine o'clock now, so I was glad I didn't have to walk home - and we both stood up. I smiled at him and he smiled back and we hugged, not really caring that my mom was right there and she's uber over-protective, and then I left. Literally five seconds after my mom drove away, he texted me.

Later last night, there was still something off about him, something not right. Usually, from what I know of him, he's completely carefree and loud and bouncy just like me. Not quiet and unhappy. I knew he was still happy to hang out with me that night and to talk to me but there was something wrong. I asked him about it, and he said he was fine. Liar. I knew he wasn't fine. I'd only known him since the start of the schoolyear and I'd only ever hung out with him like four or five times, but I already understood him and knew him well enough to know that he was not fine. Finally, I just asked him, "Why did you want me to breakup with [InsertMyBoyfriend'sNameHere] so badly? And what was up with you tonight? Please don't say nothing, because I know it's something." after a minute he replied, "You really want to know?" and I said yes. A few minutes later, he said, "Well, it's because... I like you..." and I asked him what he meant and he said, "As more than just a friend."

I'll just be honest - I squealed. I squealed like a little girl. So then I said to him, "And the problem about tonight was...?" and he said, "Your boyfriend... I really like you and it's not fun to know that you're with another guy. That's what I was thinking about: You." Oh my Gosh. When I got that text, my heart imploded. How could I have been so blind? The only time he was unhappy was when he found out I was dating someone. And then he was super unhappy that night because I was talking about my boyfriend and he was, as I had thought sad because he has feelings for me and I'm with another guy. That text... I don't know why, but it made me tear up. It was sweet and cute, but at the same time, sad and heartbroken. I liked the fact that he was fond enough of me to be noticeably (very noticeably) upset that I'm dating someone else, but I didn't like the fact that I was causing him to be unhappy. I was so busy thinking about this that I forgot to reply, so he sent me another text, saying, "It's not like I have a chance. It's not like we're gonna be anything anyways. I'm guessing you don't even like me that way..." This just made the tearing up worse. I could just imagine the way he would say that to me face-to-face, the way he probably looked texting me that, what he was feeling and thinking... I knew for sure then that I liked him, because I hated knowing that he was upset and I loved the feeling that I could make him happy again. So I replied with, "I thought you said you were a good guesser." after that, he said, "Wait... So that means...?" And I said, "I do. I like you. As more than a friend."

I counted, and he sent me twenty-two smiley faces.

He's so cute :3 But the problem is, I like my boyfriend. I like him and I'm happy to be dating him, but I really like M, too, and he likes me... I don't know what to do. He was so happy to hear that I liked him, but I think knowing that I did like him and that I still had a boyfriend made it worse. He was still upset, but I think I made it a bit better.

-sigh-
M is like my perfect guy. Funny, laidback, crazy, fun, happy, positive, always wanting to hangout, sweet, cool... Not to mention the adorable way he gets all nervous and can't talk properly when he's around me or always fails trying to do all these stunts which I think is to impress me. And the bonus fact that he's cute, hot, attractive, whatever you want to say. <3

NUHNUHNUHNUH!
You betta tell me who in short version because I understood none of thing!
IS IT WHO I THINK IT IS
Hehe... OH- Always wanting to hangout... okay, I know.

(it's Matt isn't it?)

...
O and B are just flabbergastingly hilarious. I laughed for an hour last time I hung out with H because she told me something they did and I couldn't stop.
That is all.

[loonyloolaluna]

There's this guy, let's just call him Ty, and I REALLY like him. Even though we both started highschool this year, I had a crush on him since last year. I was always the loner of the class and he actually helped me make friends. He was so sweet to me, and he still is. On the signautre bear last year, he wrote: ***** XOXO and that bear has stayed on my bed every day since then. Anyway, he was really sweet and stuck up for me when I was getting picked on and didn't want to fight back. When I was sitting in the playground, crying, he even came over from his game with his friends to try and cheer me up. He was never like that to any other girl. But this year, I know that he likes a certain girl. Nobody knows who she likes, since she's been going out with heaps of people already. He still sticks up for me though. I really want him to ask me out, but I don't want to be a rebound. I think he still has feelings for me but I'm not sure.

Aww, that sounds so cute.
But did you know 90% of guys actually want girls to make the first move?
I know that sounds like I may be asking a lot. But, who knows? (read the first page - first post)
If you tell Ty you like him, his feelings might change from her to you.
But that's not guaranteed 100% I should know.
My mum told me that you shouldn't tell the guy you like, you like them. She told me from 'life experience'
I know it's just like 'Oh I probs shouldn't tell him, what if he doesn't like me?' Well, depending on how he was acting around you, it seemed like he did like you a bit, he just probs like this prettier girl more. You said she's dated a lot of people? Well lets say Ty asked her out, she'd say yes. To him it could be his first gf, and he's really excited, but for her he's just any other cute guy that fancies her. I'm not trying to say convince him that she's not right for him. Just maybe befriend him. Hang out with him. If you do get onto the topic of talking about her, just say 'She doesn't seem like she respects men much.' That should be quite strong. Because that's what people worry quite a lot about. Respect.
Then just do this: Breathe. Sip some tea. And say 'You know why I said that right?' Pause, let him talk, or think, while you sip some more tea, and breathe. 'It's because I fancy you.' *lol heart must be drumming if you do this* continue to breathe, and continue to be making eye contact, if he looks uncomfortable, just look at your tea :3

New boyfriend guys :3

Anyways, so I'm dating one of my ex's that I dated a few months ago. I was reluctant to date him again because I had gotten over him and didn't really think about him much anymore, but just recently he's been constantly talking to me, and a day or so ago he asked me out and I decided I might as well just say yes.

And, well, I've been thinking about breaking up with him.

He was in another city for a hockey game yesterday, and that was when I started thinking about it. There's this guy is ER's (one of my besties) class. He'll be the new M. And three or four days ago he started talking to me on Facebook. I barely knew him - I knew his name and what he looked like and that was about it - so I was curious why he was talking to me. Turns out, we had hung out before a couple times at school, which I remembered after I thought about it a little. He asked me if I had dated J. I said yes, twice. Then he asked me if I was dating anyone now, and I said no because I wasn't at the time. Then M asked if I liked anyone, and I said yeah. He eventually got it out of me that I like A. Then, out of the blue, he asked me what class I'm in. Confused, I said, "Um 7-6, why?" and he immediately replied with, "Okay, the girl I like is in 7-6." I wasn't sure if he meant what it sounded like he meant... Then I gave him my cell number to text me since I was getting off Facebook.

I instantly got a text from him after that xD.

We talked for a little bit, and then he said, "Can I ask you a question?" I said sure. After a little while, he asks me, "What would you say if I asked you out?" Of course, I barely knew him and didn't have any feelings towards him so I just said, "I don't know... I mean, we barely know each other. We never talk face to face and we don't really hang out or anything." After that, he asked me if I wanted to hang out with him the next day. I reluctantly said I would. We talked until like 5:00 A.M, but by then I was so tired I could barely keep my eyes open, so I had to go to bed. At 11:00 the next morning, his text woke me up. I was nervous as I was getting ready to hang out with him. I mean, what girl isn't nervous to hang out with a guy, one-on-one, nobody else, for the first time? I thought we'd have nothing to talk about and it'd all just be awkward silence.

Boy, was I wrong.

We were constantly laughing and telling stories and jumping around being stupid c: It was windy and he kept jumping around doing random tricks and stuff and his hat kept falling off so he gave it to me to wear. I wore his hat all day after that :3

It was a great day, really, and I was happy. Then the day after was when I started dating my boyfriend, who's first name ALSO starts with an A Dx. M seemed... Disappointed. I told him that (gimme a minute to check my texts) my ex asked me out and he asked what I was going to say. I said that I was going to say yes, and M replied, "Oh..."

We also hungout that day, which was yesterday. It was even better than the day before!

First we met at the GIGANTIC park that we both live close to, and then we went to 7-11 'cause my mom wanted me to get her some stuff. We literally spent an HOUR in 7-11 because we were making jokes about everything and laughing so hard that we couldn't remember what we had to get. Eventually I got what I needed, left, stopped at my house to drop it off, and then we just randomly started walking around town. Two of my friends, one of which doesn't really like M and the other which completely hates him for no reason, wanted us to go back to the park that we met at to see them. We decided we would, and after a few minutes of them trying to drag me to the house of the friend that hates him, a bunch of kids that M knew ran up to us and started talking, and one of the kids wanted to fight him and kept calling him inappropriate names that a person that age should not even KNOW. We just laughed and left to go back to 7-11 and get slurpees. M told me that the kid that wanted to fight him went on his bus, and once he got kicked off the bus for beating him up - like literally BEATING this kid because he was insulting him and wanted to fight - and then the kid's mom came over to his house and his mom made him apologize. He said that the kid was crying, which I don't doubt.

After we got our slurpees we went to the mall. Now, get this; There's absolutely nothing in my city's mall that would interest anybody, especially people our age. I'm always deathly bored there, even with my best friends. When M and I went there, it was probably the most fun I'd had in forever. First we were tired of walking so we sat down together on the bench in the middle of the mall. I introduced him to Angry Birds in Space, which he has now become addicted to like me. After that, he pointed out a tiny little yellow bus, like one of those kiddie rides that you put a quarter in and it starts moving. There was a horse ride right beside it. So he squeezed into the bus, and I jumped on the horse - backwards, so I could talk to him. I jumped off the horse and he tried to get out of the bus, but he was like literally stuck. He managed eventually to pull himself out of it, landing on his back on the floor of the mall of course. Then we decided we'd get some candy from the machines. We were about to put money in for some candy, when he accidentally bumped it, and the lid popped off! Normally the lids are locked so nobody steals the candy. We flipped out, laughing hysterically because we couldn't believe it. We still paid for the candy 83. Then we got this big bouncy ball that had a turtle inside of it. We named the turtle Turtle - original name, right? - and then bounced him through the mall. Then we decided to get more candy. This candy thing was lower down, so we had to crouch. I was holding my hand under the thingy mabobber where the candy comes out, and he was twisting the thingy. But he couldn't get it so we were laughing so hard that we were now sitting on the floor of the mall trying desperately to get some candy. Two junior-high kids sitting on the floor of the mall on a windy Thursday afternoon trying to get candy and laughing like they were crazy; Yep, that was us.

We then went to Carlton Cards where they sell Webkinz and little stuffed animals. We picked up different ones and cooed about how cute they are. Then he shoved one in my face, so I threw one at him, and we started a Webkinz fight until the manager told us to clean up - there were Webkinz all over the floor near the store now - and get out xD. We left the mall after a while, after we finished our slurpees and with Turtle in hand. I don't know what it was about that mall session, but there was just something that made me realize how alike we are. The stories he tells, the stories I tell, the way we act, the things we like/dislike, the things we laugh at, the things that scare us... It's all either exactly the same or very similar. And I also realized something else: I like him. I like him as more than a friend. I totally forgot about my boyfriend when I was with him, and I didn't even think about anyone else. It was just me and him laughing and being stupid and crazy. And there was the way that he looked at me, I can't really describe it, that just made me feel amazing. He was looking at me like I was making his day just by being there.

And he laughed at every single one of my jokes, and I don't think it was even on purpose. The way he laughed at the things that I said was genuine, real. It wasn't forced or fake. It was like hysterical, true laughter, like he honestly found me funny and wasn't just trying to be nice. And does he make me laugh? Hell yes. We make each other laugh until we can't breathe. We had to sit down behind a flower shop because we were laughing so hard that we couldn't walk. And then we walked past the hospital and a big gust of wind blew his hat away so he had to chase it through the parking lot, diving for it and missing a couple times before finally catching it. I was laughing so hard that I was crying! He just makes me feel totally happy, and just on top of the world. And then there is a huge "backyard" type grassy area beside the hospital and we laid down in it beside each other, not real close but close, and pointed out shapes in the clouds. Then he was playing with Turtle and trying to break the ball open to see what Turtle was made of. He couldn't do it, so I suggested that I would. He jokingly said that he was the man and he wasn't going to be upshown by a girl. I smirked and reached out to grab the ball, but he wouldn't give it to me. So we were laughing, fighting over this ball. Eventually we somehow stood up and were both pulling on it as hard as we could, so I let go. He went flying backwards very ungracefully, which made me laugh again. Then he was playing with the ball and I flicked it out of his hands. It rolled behind him. We looked at each other for a second, before we both bolted up. I shoved him - not roughly enough to hurt him or anything, just playfully - out of the way and grabbed it, laughing and strutting around with it while he just laughed and pulled grass out of his hair.

I walked him home at supper time when we had to go because he lives really close to the park we met at and I have a shortcut that goes through his street to get to my house. Plus there was the fact that I was having so much fun that I didn't want to leave him, but I didn't tell him that. We decided that we were definitely hanging out after supper, no matter what our parents said. And when we were across the street from his house, I made a heart to him and he just smiled and made one back, then ran across the street because his sister was just grinning at him. I have a feeling she asked if we were dating, because at least three other people had asked us that, plus the three that texted me - he read the texts when I got them, too - and asked if I like him. He was so eager to find out what I said to all of them and he put on this sort of smooth, I-don't-care-if-you-don't-answer-me voice and demeanor, but I could tell that he really wanted to know, which was cute. He was pretty good at hiding it, though, and that smooth voice he put on was honestly very alluring.

After supper, we did hang out. It was still windy, but now it was super cold, too. We were both quieter than before, but only because it was freezing so we were curled up, knees to our faces, heads down, hoods up, trying to stay warm. And we were both thinking. I asked him what he was thinking about and he replied quietly, not at all as rudely as it sounds, "Nothing that you need to know..." He sounded almost sad. And then we started talking about my boyfriend, and he asked me why I was dating him. I told him the short story of why, and he just shrugged and that he didn't think he sounded right for me. We were talking about how he hadn't talked to me at all that day, and he suggested at least twice that maybe I should break up with him. We were also joking about how if I was single we could cuddle with each other for warmth, and at the end of the joke he just sort of quieted down. I knew something was up, because he's never quiet. And because he was quiet, I was automatically quiet, trying to figure out why he was quiet. The idea that he may have feelings towards me had never crossed my mind. He didn't flirt with me - well, openly he didn't, some of what he did might be considered some subtle flirting I suppose - and I was so used to having guys as friends that I assumed us hanging out like this was two friends, now best friends as we decided. So because of that, I didn't know what could be bothering him, but he didn't seem too happy. He still laughed a lot at all of my jokes, even some of the ones that sucked, and he still sounded completely sincere doing so, but something was definitely off and he wouldn't tell me whenever I asked.

Finally it was time to go, so I walked him down to his street, then decided to call my mom to come pick me up. We sat in the grass near the sidewalk talking and waiting for her. When she came - it was nine o'clock now, so I was glad I didn't have to walk home - and we both stood up. I smiled at him and he smiled back and we hugged, not really caring that my mom was right there and she's uber over-protective, and then I left. Literally five seconds after my mom drove away, he texted me.

Later last night, there was still something off about him, something not right. Usually, from what I know of him, he's completely carefree and loud and bouncy just like me. Not quiet and unhappy. I knew he was still happy to hang out with me that night and to talk to me but there was something wrong. I asked him about it, and he said he was fine. Liar. I knew he wasn't fine. I'd only known him since the start of the schoolyear and I'd only ever hung out with him like four or five times, but I already understood him and knew him well enough to know that he was not fine. Finally, I just asked him, "Why did you want me to breakup with [InsertMyBoyfriend'sNameHere] so badly? And what was up with you tonight? Please don't say nothing, because I know it's something." after a minute he replied, "You really want to know?" and I said yes. A few minutes later, he said, "Well, it's because... I like you..." and I asked him what he meant and he said, "As more than just a friend."

I'll just be honest - I squealed. I squealed like a little girl. So then I said to him, "And the problem about tonight was...?" and he said, "Your boyfriend... I really like you and it's not fun to know that you're with another guy. That's what I was thinking about: You." Oh my Gosh. When I got that text, my heart imploded. How could I have been so blind? The only time he was unhappy was when he found out I was dating someone. And then he was super unhappy that night because I was talking about my boyfriend and he was, as I had thought sad because he has feelings for me and I'm with another guy. That text... I don't know why, but it made me tear up. It was sweet and cute, but at the same time, sad and heartbroken. I liked the fact that he was fond enough of me to be noticeably (very noticeably) upset that I'm dating someone else, but I didn't like the fact that I was causing him to be unhappy. I was so busy thinking about this that I forgot to reply, so he sent me another text, saying, "It's not like I have a chance. It's not like we're gonna be anything anyways. I'm guessing you don't even like me that way..." This just made the tearing up worse. I could just imagine the way he would say that to me face-to-face, the way he probably looked texting me that, what he was feeling and thinking... I knew for sure then that I liked him, because I hated knowing that he was upset and I loved the feeling that I could make him happy again. So I replied with, "I thought you said you were a good guesser." after that, he said, "Wait... So that means...?" And I said, "I do. I like you. As more than a friend."

I counted, and he sent me twenty-two smiley faces.

He's so cute :3 But the problem is, I like my boyfriend. I like him and I'm happy to be dating him, but I really like M, too, and he likes me... I don't know what to do. He was so happy to hear that I liked him, but I think knowing that I did like him and that I still had a boyfriend made it worse. He was still upset, but I think I made it a bit better.

-sigh-
M is like my perfect guy. Funny, laidback, crazy, fun, happy, positive, always wanting to hangout, sweet, cool... Not to mention the adorable way he gets all nervous and can't talk properly when he's around me or always fails trying to do all these stunts which I think is to impress me. And the bonus fact that he's cute, hot, attractive, whatever you want to say. <3

Wow. Just. Wow.
Um, well, I wouldn't have recommended dating your ex. Like, how did you 2 break up? What's that history?
I sorta know how you feel =/ when I was dating my ex (not re-dating) I hung out with this guy mate, and yeah we were having a blast and such ...
But idk, (I forgot the guy you hung out with name) ... he seems more right for you than your bf atm ...
I see your siggy, and it says you're single.
Personally, it can look a bit \/\/#0R3Y if you date your ex, after a bit dump him, then the next day you get another bf. It could look like you're seeking for attention. (COULD! Not you are seeking for attention)
Maybe just hang out with both of them one day. See which one you like more.
Go home, don't text, facebook, or call anyone. Just ponder over what you think is right.
Oh and, drink some tea :3

[clouded-days]

You guys know the guy I was just talking about well he is getting stalkerish and it's freaking me out. I told one of my teacher and my mom. All they said was "oh he will stop." he tried to follow me home! I need help now.

Mmm... That's happening to my friend right now.
I'd just tell him to back off. Be completely serious about it. Don't yell or scream; just stay calm, collected, and keep your ground. Stare him right in the eyes and tell him you DON'T appreciate his behavior, his attitude, or his actions. Tell him how you feel directly, and it'll probably slip through his skull.
If he persists to display this behavior, I'd continue to inform an adult. Tell another teacher besides the one you told. Someone WILL listen, and eventually this kid WILL stop if you continue to reject.

I told him to stop calmly and now I'm good I he stop and I fel safe again