Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Pochica]

Hello ladies! I need to rant and need advice please and thank you. <3

Anyway, I have a boyfriend. Let's call him Piggy. He really likes me. He's said he's in love with me and we only have dated for a month and known each other for six months. He just really loves me no matter what. He's perfect and amazing, but the thing is I'm not sure if he's really my type. o.o He's about 7 months older than me, making him 17 earlier, but it's like he looks way younger than me. He's scrawny. He's way more sensitive and emotional than me. I don't know if I should just ignore it or not. Our situation of getting together was really tough and long and it's a major issue now. Not only do I have these girls hating, but we have just recently found out his best guy friend has a crush on him too! It feels like too much drama and I'm a busy girl with extracurricular events and all. It's getting hard and to the point where I don't want to hang out with him much. I love him, he's a great guy friend, but I'm not sure if I can be in a relationship where I feel almost nothing. Hey, maybe I'm just PMSing, but it's really bothering me since tomorrow he wants to come over and hang out for our one month. (Friday the 13th, great. xP) sigh. It's a little awkward, I don't even know what to do with him or where to go. Any ideas ladies and gentlemen? D:

Oh, and I've talked to my mother and grandmother about this and they always say, "We like him, he's a good clean cut guy, you'll learn to like him too." sigh, I wish it was that simple. </3

It's hard to just like a guy when I'm not that attracted to him either.
It's either: WOW you're a great friend
or: My god, please be my bf/gf

I'd say do what feels right
If it feels like whenever he opens his mouth, you get agitated, then you should probably dump him ...
It's really your decision if you want to dump him or not.
It took me a week to gather myself, and dump my ex. He was too childish.

Thank you so much!
I'll try to do my best on deciding. He's a really nice guy but I think I friend zoned him. o.x
LOL. DANG EEEET. that always happens. Sigh.

Childish? Oh jeez, been there, done that.
Did he play the blame game? xP

[clouded-days]

You guys know the guy I was just talking about well he is getting stalkerish and it's freaking me out. I told one of my teacher and my mom. All they said was "oh he will stop." he tried to follow me home! I need help now.

[Gloxinia]

You guys know the guy I was just talking about well he is getting stalkerish and it's freaking me out. I told one of my teacher and my mom. All they said was "oh he will stop." he tried to follow me home! I need help now.

Mmm... That's happening to my friend right now.
I'd just tell him to back off. Be completely serious about it. Don't yell or scream; just stay calm, collected, and keep your ground. Stare him right in the eyes and tell him you DON'T appreciate his behavior, his attitude, or his actions. Tell him how you feel directly, and it'll probably slip through his skull.
If he persists to display this behavior, I'd continue to inform an adult. Tell another teacher besides the one you told. Someone WILL listen, and eventually this kid WILL stop if you continue to reject.

[loonyloolaluna]

Hello ladies! I need to rant and need advice please and thank you. <3

Anyway, I have a boyfriend. Let's call him Piggy. He really likes me. He's said he's in love with me and we only have dated for a month and known each other for six months. He just really loves me no matter what. He's perfect and amazing, but the thing is I'm not sure if he's really my type. o.o He's about 7 months older than me, making him 17 earlier, but it's like he looks way younger than me. He's scrawny. He's way more sensitive and emotional than me. I don't know if I should just ignore it or not. Our situation of getting together was really tough and long and it's a major issue now. Not only do I have these girls hating, but we have just recently found out his best guy friend has a crush on him too! It feels like too much drama and I'm a busy girl with extracurricular events and all. It's getting hard and to the point where I don't want to hang out with him much. I love him, he's a great guy friend, but I'm not sure if I can be in a relationship where I feel almost nothing. Hey, maybe I'm just PMSing, but it's really bothering me since tomorrow he wants to come over and hang out for our one month. (Friday the 13th, great. xP) sigh. It's a little awkward, I don't even know what to do with him or where to go. Any ideas ladies and gentlemen? D:

Oh, and I've talked to my mother and grandmother about this and they always say, "We like him, he's a good clean cut guy, you'll learn to like him too." sigh, I wish it was that simple. </3

It's hard to just like a guy when I'm not that attracted to him either.
It's either: WOW you're a great friend
or: My god, please be my bf/gf

I'd say do what feels right
If it feels like whenever he opens his mouth, you get agitated, then you should probably dump him ...
It's really your decision if you want to dump him or not.
It took me a week to gather myself, and dump my ex. He was too childish.

Thank you so much!
I'll try to do my best on deciding. He's a really nice guy but I think I friend zoned him. o.x
LOL. DANG EEEET. that always happens. Sigh.

Childish? Oh jeez, been there, done that.
Did he play the blame game? xP

Ohh, that's a low blow, friendzoning him.
My bro showed me a meme not too long ago.
*picture of girls laughing*
AND THEN I SAID: But we're friends ...
*underneath, a pic of guys laughing*
AND THEN I SAID: Sorry it's not you, it's me!

It was actually quite funny.

Blame game?

You guys know the guy I was just talking about well he is getting stalkerish and it's freaking me out. I told one of my teacher and my mom. All they said was "oh he will stop." he tried to follow me home! I need help now.

So he followed you home. Well, this happened to me. Me and my ex (this was in year 7 - 3 years ago) he was walking me home, and some guys were following us.
I avoided the boys finding out where I lived by continuing walking and turning the next corner, and running (my ex ended up throwing stones at the guys, and I broke up with him)
But, you don't know, he could just live close to you. And it's the same route you take to go to and from school.
Maybe at school do this: Walk up to him, "Can I have a minute?" He'll most likely come with you. Next ask. "Are you following me home?"
ANSWER YES:
"Could you please not follow me? It's creeping me out. If you do it again, I'll tell my mum that you are."
CONTINUES TO STALK:
"Dude, stop it, I'm going to call the cops next time."
Or you could get a parent, or guardian to pick you up form school, or carpool with one of your friends back home. Or walk with your friends home.
Or do what Snow White Chaos<3 said.
ANSWER NO:
"Okay, sorry. It just seemed like you were."

[Jasperilla]

There is this guy, lets call him J and I think I like him.Whenever I see him my heart skips a beat and I think I blush and whenever I'm away from him there is this hollow pain inside me. He asked me out for the second time in the beginning of the week and I said yes. Last time he asked I was busy. I knew he liked me since last year and yesterday I told him I knew. He is the class clown but when he is around me, he is shy and caring. He is a triplet and his sister dislikes him. I'm sorta friends with his sister and shes a bit violent. I'm afraid she will harm me if she finds out that me and her brother are dating. She doesn't know about it yet and he and I don't really act like we are dating in class because we are both shy and I do not feel the need for wildfire rumors about my private life spreading around school.

[c h r i s t m a s]

Can someone tell.me what I should do

I want my crush to ask me out.... so bad.
Background story-
My and Z have been friemds for the whole year and I told him I have a crush on him and he didnt really care but him and this girl 'A' have gone out at least 5 times this year and I hate her so much. He can act like a jerk or he can be nice and sweet. We talk a lot and on friday when I was going home he finally said "Bye L!" And he was staring at me! I dont know though..... I wish we can be together so bad. D:

News-
Z was a jerk to me after talking to A... I fell like I love him but I want to completly hate him. I cant its to hard sometimes I fell like dieing because he makes me fell bad about everything I do thats not riight. I cant live with him doing this to me. I wish I could stop liking him but I cant. Ive tried so hard. D:

So the last couple days he has been really nice and sweet <3
Today A{the one he hangs out with a lot and they always flirt} tried to be on his team for PE and he said no and she walked on my side and then about 5 people were on my team -__- and they had 2. So me.and my friemd S were about to sit down and watch them play and Z and his friemd AG were like "You can come play with us!" So we walked over there and A glared at me and threw down her racket and walked away into the bathroom. Shes such a dang drama queen

[loonyloolaluna]

[quote=<3 Narwhals <3][quote=<3 Narwhals <3]I want my crush to ask me out.... so bad.
Background story-
My and Z have been friemds for the whole year and I told him I have a crush on him and he didnt really care but him and this girl 'A' have gone out at least 5 times this year and I hate her so much. He can act like a jerk or he can be nice and sweet. We talk a lot and on friday when I was going home he finally said "Bye L!" And he was staring at me! I dont know though..... I wish we can be together so bad. D:/quote]
News-
Z was a jerk to me after talking to A... I fell like I love him but I want to completly hate him. I cant its to hard sometimes I fell like dieing because he makes me fell bad about everything I do thats not riight. I cant live with him doing this to me. I wish I could stop liking him but I cant. Ive tried so hard. D:/quote]
Any advice?

So the last couple days he has been really nice and sweet <3
Today A{the one he hangs out with a lot and they always flirt} tried to be on his team for PE and he said no and she walked on my side and then about 5 people were on my team -__- and they had 2. So me.and my friemd S were about to sit down and watch them play and Z and his friemd AG were like "You can come play with us!" So we walked over there and A glared at me and threw down her racket and walked away into the bathroom. Shes such a dang drama queen

Drama queens are the worst
Sorry, what did you need help with?

There is this guy, lets call him J and I think I like him.Whenever I see him my heart skips a beat and I think I blush and whenever I'm away from him there is this hollow pain inside me. He asked me out for the second time in the beginning of the week and I said yes. Last time he asked I was busy. I knew he liked me since last year and yesterday I told him I knew. He is the class clown but when he is around me, he is shy and caring. He is a triplet and his sister dislikes him. I'm sorta friends with his sister and shes a bit violent. I'm afraid she will harm me if she finds out that me and her brother are dating. She doesn't know about it yet and he and I don't really act like we are dating in class because we are both shy and I do not feel the need for wildfire rumors about my private life spreading around school.

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Aww, he sounds like such a sweet guy!
Amazing, a triplet. You don't hear or see of those too often ...
His sister. Hmmm ... Well, if she's your friend and she's violent and you want to tell her. (p.s, i can be a bit violent at times too ... >.>)
Okay, so maybe invite her to your house, watch something funny, drink some tea (tea is calming).
After you watch the movie just say. "-, I got something to tell you," She should look. "Well you know how -[her brother] likes me? And I like him?" Pause, let her process this. "Well, him and I are dating. I hope it's okay with you." If she looks angry, shuffle back subtley, she might throw the tea on you, or break it near you if she's that violent.
Next say. "I'm sorry if you don't like this, but it was our choice, and we really like each other. And if you don't want us to date, again, I'm sorry but I want to be with him."
Sip some tea, but continue to make eye-contact.

I hope it goes well

[c h r i s t m a s]

I dont know if I should ask him out or if he likes me...

[loonyloolaluna]

I dont know if I should ask him out or if he likes me...

Probably get a close friend to ask him if he likes you.

[c h r i s t m a s]

I dont know if I should ask him out or if he likes me...

Probably get a close friend to ask him if he likes you.

I dont know me and Z have been really close friends and I told him I like him and if his friemd AG asks him he'll know I was the one asking