Pochica wrote:Hello ladies! I need to rant and need advice please and thank you. <3
Anyway, I have a boyfriend. Let's call him Piggy. He really likes me. He's said he's in love with me and we only have dated for a month and known each other for six months. He just really loves me no matter what. He's perfect and amazing, but the thing is I'm not sure if he's really my type. o.o He's about 7 months older than me, making him 17 earlier, but it's like he looks way younger than me. He's scrawny. He's way more sensitive and emotional than me. I don't know if I should just ignore it or not. Our situation of getting together was really tough and long and it's a major issue now. Not only do I have these girls hating, but we have just recently found out his best guy friend has a crush on him too! It feels like too much drama and I'm a busy girl with extracurricular events and all. It's getting hard and to the point where I don't want to hang out with him much. I love him, he's a great guy friend, but I'm not sure if I can be in a relationship where I feel almost nothing. Hey, maybe I'm just PMSing, but it's really bothering me since tomorrow he wants to come over and hang out for our one month. (Friday the 13th, great. xP) sigh. It's a little awkward, I don't even know what to do with him or where to go. Any ideas ladies and gentlemen? D:
Oh, and I've talked to my mother and grandmother about this and they always say, "We like him, he's a good clean cut guy, you'll learn to like him too." sigh, I wish it was that simple. </3
It's hard to just like a guy when I'm not that attracted to him either.
It's either: WOW you're a great friend
or: My god, please be my bf/gf
I'd say do what feels right
If it feels like whenever he opens his mouth, you get agitated, then you should probably dump him ...
It's really your decision if you want to dump him or not.
It took me a week to gather myself, and dump my ex. He was too childish.
Space Ferrari wrote:To be honest, I think Glasses and I are in that "mature for our age" group. Glasses is very polite and well-mannered while the rest of the guys in our grade run around acting like twelve-year olds. We do goof off plenty, of course, but, to put it simply, he isn't nearly as much of a douche as the rest of them.
Guess I just got lucky. X3
He probably wants to impress you

But lol, he sounds like a great bf! hope you two are happy.

Silverspirit wrote:Argh! Guys are so immature at my school. >.<
I want a mature guy so bad. But guys dont realize that, do you? Sorry, boys, acting 5 does not make you appealing. >.>
I KNOW EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL
That's why I end up liking guys older than me v.v it doesn't give me much chance ... ad I've got my sights set too high ... but they're just more mature,
which is way better than 3 year olds.Again, I broke up with my ex, for this reason: Randomly shouting out. P!!!!!!$$ ! P!$$ in my @$$ ! 8@77$ ! Oh, %3$%!(@7$ !
He was funny the first 20 times ... then it got really old really quick.
But I recommend looking at guys. you don't look how he acts with his friends, but how he is when he's alone ... in a more public place ...