Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

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Advice for talking to guys and having guy friends please? X3

Im super smart and stuff so I think guys are intimidated be me D: And I cant do sports. And I dont game. And Im really quiet around strangers/classmates.

x.x Help.

Ah, it's always fun trying to figure out how to communicate with the male species. XD

As for talking to guys, keep things short. Don't make long rambly remarks, just one or two words. Also, don't use an extremely large vocabulary. Make sure you talk about stuff they like, and that they're involved in, every now and then too.

As for guy friends, it's just sort of a hit-and-miss thing. XD

NOTE: No, I'm not calling guys stupid. Guys, I know you can be smart when you want to be smart! XD I'm just saying it's just usually easiest to keep things simples. ;P
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So, my brother has been texting this girl a lot. My dad knows her dad because they work together. Today we went to the mall where she lives (instead of her coming to ours) and her and my brother were walking around while my mom, my dad, and I looked for a dress. When her dad came into the mall to get her, her little brother came in too. He coincidently is in my grade. So anyways, our families stood talking for maybe 10 minutes, then we departed. When we got in the car, she texted my brother. I'm going to use G for her little brother.

Her: Yeah, G told me that he thinks your sister is cute.
My Brother: *starts laughing*
Me: Why are you laughing?
My Brother: G says you're cute.
Me: AAAAWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!! Tell him I said, "Thanks". -_-

XD I don't really know him, so I didn't want to say anything. And if I did think he was cute (I don't though) I would never tell my brother that. SO, I bet that's a nice way to say, "Thanks for the compliment, but I don't think that you're cute." *facepalm* I didn't think about it that way until after he sent the text. >.<

But, I don't like that kid, and this will probably be my only time talking about him. XP

I still like J. :3 Things are...weird, complicated, I don't know. Some moments I'm completely bubbly and happy, and others I'm just kind of upset. It's so hard to explain. DX Geehhh, why can't I just type my feelings and everyone knows what I mean?!?! XD

[Nimble Awesomeness]

Omg!!! I got my first kiss last night! It was his too! Turns out we both went to bed with butterflies and both woke up with them! :D Could this by any chance be a sign? :3

Oh my gosh!! I'm so happy for you! Details, details girl! I want to know EVERYTHING! :DDD

Ok...so long story short: Twin Brothers.

I've known I guy for over 2 years and he's been my really good friend for a long time, G, and I knew he had a twin brother, C, but I never met him. So the year went on with school, and I had a very tiny thing for G, but he had a girlfreind, so I backed off anf let it go. No biggy. Then the next school year G's twin brother was in ALL my morning classes. So we met and we became good friends at instant. As the year went on, we becane best friends. And we did this thing we call 20 qs, because we'll ask eachother questions about our selves and even serious questions, like what yould be your perfect boyfriend/girlfreind. As we did these, I fell for him. He stood up for me a lot and then I was completely convinced he liked me back, and so was everybody else. Then, G broke up with his girlfreind, and so I did what any friend would do, I comforted him. Then a month went by..and G fell for me, and told me. I didn't know what to do! Two twins... and then C told me he didn't want to date anyone this year, and I respected that, and backed off. Then a week later, G asks me out...and I said yes, since he was starting to be really nice to me and he makes me laugh...but not like C did...anyway, we went out for a day so far and I haven't told C yet, because I thought G told him...but apperently he didn't. So C found out by someone else telling him. We texted that night and I thought I would loose him...but we eventually made up, but the sound of it from what he said to me, he seemed jelous. But he knew I liked him all year and did nothing! So he amd G dated for another day and it was great, but he seemed like something was bothering him, then later that night we texted and he said he didn't want a "us" anmore cause he wasn't ready to date again. so I repsected that and went on, and I told C. He seemed happy. Then as life went on, they continue to confue me. C will tease me about me and G being "lovers", but G will do the same about me and C. HELPPP

Oh God why. Seriously? Twins? ._.

Three words to solve all your problems: Polygamy or threesome.

I'm joking. Don't do that.

You need to choose one. Honestly, I think you should choose C. You need to be honest with him. Ask him out. This is tricky, as either one you choose, the other will be jealous almost no matter what. So go ahead and pick one, the choice is resting on your happiness. You seem to like C a lot better, so go for him. After all, G broke up with you after a day, right? (Though he won't think that way right off the bat, he will understand that after time.) If G didn't feel like you should be with him, that's his choice. This is yours.

It might just cause a lot of conflict between them though. I say take the other person who I can't remember their username's advice and take a short break. Don't tell them this, just set aside some time for thinking. If you want, take a bubble bath or something else that relaxes you. Having a time for just you and your thoughts is a great way to sit on a decision. In short, think on it, and if you still feel the same, ask C out. If not, then come back here with your feelings again. Hope this helps, and good luck! (BTW, I'm honestly kinda jealous. I kinda have a twin obsession. x.x Which sucks, as twins aren't all that common. Twwwiiinnnsss)

I have a problem with my uh, feels awkward calling him boyfriend, but okay. I just think that we're at different levels of maturity and that we may like the same things, but we are really different. My friends have boyfriends who hang out with our group and we all have fun, but he doesn't. He avoids me a school and I don't want him to. He has also been 'preaching' a lot and it's getting annoying. Also, he has been acting really strange and he gets all sad every time he sees me at school. And then he told my friend something about liking someone else. I asked him if there was something wrong, and he acted weird but denied it, so there is a problem. I think that if we work it out, we'll have more problems like this in the future. I don't want to break up with him and I'm afraid it might be blind-sided, if you know what I mean.
Advice, anyone?

You need to be completely honest with him. If you tell him how you're feeling, he can start to rethink and the problem could be fixed. If you don't, he'll go on thinking everything is fine and not understand when or if you break up with him. Either way, you need to tell him what's up. If you're really not feeling it after you try to fix it, just break up with him. You'll cause more heartache and hurt if you keep him thinking you still care about him as much as he does you, or vise versa.

Sadly, it seems to me like he might be cheating on you. Don't bring this up. In this case, I would talk to him and say something like, "If you aren't feeling it anymore and you like someone else, I want you to tell me right now. Because if you don't want to be with me, you're wasting my time and happiness by keeping me with you, and your time as well." You need to let him know exactly what you want, and be very clear and bold. "If you like someone else, break up with me right now." That could work too. It really just depends on your personality. Anyways, I'm really sorry it ended up like this for you and your "boyfriend". I really hope this helps you though, best of luck!

[peachie.]

So, my brother has been texting this girl a lot. My dad knows her dad because they work together. Today we went to the mall where she lives (instead of her coming to ours) and her and my brother were walking around while my mom, my dad, and I looked for a dress. When her dad came into the mall to get her, her little brother came in too. He coincidently is in my grade. So anyways, our families stood talking for maybe 10 minutes, then we departed. When we got in the car, she texted my brother. I'm going to use G for her little brother.

Her: Yeah, G told me that he thinks your sister is cute.
My Brother: *starts laughing*
Me: Why are you laughing?
My Brother: G says you're cute.
Me: AAAAWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!! Tell him I said, "Thanks". -_-

XD I don't really know him, so I didn't want to say anything. And if I did think he was cute (I don't though) I would never tell my brother that. SO, I bet that's a nice way to say, "Thanks for the compliment, but I don't think that you're cute." *facepalm* I didn't think about it that way until after he sent the text. >.<

OMG. I have gone through a situation just like this!
My mothers and her boyfriend went to my mom's boyfriend's friends house. They apparently have a son who is a year older than me. They were talking and then I called, becuase I didnt know where my mom was. So my mom was talking on the phone with her and apparently he asked who she was talking to. So after we my mom and I finished talking she showed him a picture of me on her iphone. He went 'huh' and nodded. Then his father barged in and said 'that means he thinks she's cute.'. I haven't even met the guy. I dont even know his name.
Weird huh? ^^;

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So, my brother has been texting this girl a lot. My dad knows her dad because they work together. Today we went to the mall where she lives (instead of her coming to ours) and her and my brother were walking around while my mom, my dad, and I looked for a dress. When her dad came into the mall to get her, her little brother came in too. He coincidently is in my grade. So anyways, our families stood talking for maybe 10 minutes, then we departed. When we got in the car, she texted my brother. I'm going to use G for her little brother.

Her: Yeah, G told me that he thinks your sister is cute.
My Brother: *starts laughing*
Me: Why are you laughing?
My Brother: G says you're cute.
Me: AAAAWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!! Tell him I said, "Thanks". -_-

XD I don't really know him, so I didn't want to say anything. And if I did think he was cute (I don't though) I would never tell my brother that. SO, I bet that's a nice way to say, "Thanks for the compliment, but I don't think that you're cute." *facepalm* I didn't think about it that way until after he sent the text. >.<

OMG. I have gone through a situation just like this!
My mothers and her boyfriend went to my mom's boyfriend's friends house. They apparently have a son who is a year older than me. They were talking and then I called, becuase I didnt know where my mom was. So my mom was talking on the phone with her and apparently he asked who she was talking to. So after we my mom and I finished talking she showed him a picture of me on her iphone. He went 'huh' and nodded. Then his father barged in and said 'that means he thinks she's cute.'. I haven't even met the guy. I dont even know his name.
Weird huh? ^^;

Yes, very weird. XD

I don't like anyone until I start knowing them to begin with. Then, when parents start to try and set kids up on "blind dates", you know it's going to be a nightmare. XD

[buny]

I've known this guy for forever, and have had mini crushes on him through the years, and now it's just getting so awkward for us because last year I "dated" one of his buddies.
I want our friendship to progress into something more, but I just don't know what to do!
Do you guys have any advice for me?

[audball(:]

Thank you Nible Squiddy :) that helps a lot. I'm going to wait a while, since they both said they don't want to date anyone, but I've always waited for really good advice, and that was great :) thank you.

[Nimble Awesomeness]

D'aww, that made my day. c': Thanks. I'm so glad it helped. <3

[audball(:]

It did :) Thank you. And honestly, I think C and I would turn out nicely together. I know eveything about him, and he knows everything about me. :)

[Arkas]

Omg!!! I got my first kiss last night! It was his too! Turns out we both went to bed with butterflies and both woke up with them! :D Could this by any chance be a sign? :3

Oh my gosh!! I'm so happy for you! Details, details girl! I want to know EVERYTHING! :DDD!

Lol Thank you x3 Not much to tell other than we were at the skating ring and his mother called him and told him he had to leave so i went to give him a hug when he sat me down lliterally! And kissed me! :D Im just soo happy!! xD It may not sound all that great or magical but if you were there you would know! The whole worled stopped and we were the only one's there! *w* Not literally cause we were at the skating ring but ya know what i mean ^-^''

P.S.: Zelda No telling anyone!!
Shes my sister :P