Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[moose.]

Okay. So, I am in need of help right now. Sorry if I am wasting any of your time.

Sooooooo...... I like this guy at my school. He's in my class, and he knows. Well... I think he knows. My friend told him that I used to like him, and now he teases me about it. The friend who told him said to me that if he didn't like me, he wouldn't care, and wouldn't bring it up every single day. Whenever his friend tells him "But you have a girlfriend" in front of me, he keeps saying he's going to dump her. And then he does, and then the week after he's in another relationship with someone else. He always comes to talk to me, and I don't find it awkward at all, but I'm not sure if I should be... And then this morning, this other guy flirted with me for a whole hour, and I let him, not trying to ruin his fun. My friend pointed it out, and I told her I knew. That's when I started wondering if the guy I liked liked me back. He always talks to me, brings it up, and even steals my Ipod to mess with it. Does he like me? Or is it just something guys do?

He is a player, I am sorry too say this but if he is in relationships with girls and always dumping them and coming off as if he likes you then teases you that is what a player does, But he could also just playing hard too get tell him how you feel and talk about it and see what his mind is maid up on.

[Kecko]

The guy I have a crush on is now in a relationship with someone, oh well, if it's meant to be it will happen so I can't get too sad I guess...

[bast,]

I feel so bad right now. Dx I text my crush literally ALL the time. He thought he had unlimited texting.

Lolnope

Turns out, we texted so much there was a $150 bill for texting. So, I cant text him until it gets fixed, which will probably be in around the next week. </3

THANK THE SQUIDS OF CS!

He got his texting fixed. :3 YAAAY! Now I can text him nonstop again... xD

[palmsprout]

Shoot.

I don't want to be in love right now.

But I think I am.

Weirdest thing is, I haven't seen him in 4 years.

My emotions fail to make sense.

[Refugee]

Write him a letter telling me how you feel and then leave him be for the time being. He needs space from the girlfriend, and everyone telling him how upset they are over what happened won't make things better. I'd say pray for him. =) But the space thing is the most important part. If he feels crowded, it could make him even more depressed. Tell him how you feel and how you just want to help and wait for him to come to you.

Thank you. I'll try that! ^^ I appreciate this.. and I've let him come to me so far, and he still seems to want some space. I wish everyone would stop fighting over him like he's their possession because he hates that. I'm the only one that seems to care what he thinks.

[FreeTheBalloons]

I have a little problem, and it's name is M... I'm going to see him tomorrow, it's the first time I've seen him since I learned he's going out with someone else... I don't know what to do. How do I act? What do I say? Should I say hi? Should I say nothing? Should I let him come to me if he wants to talk, or just not at all? What if I see his girlfriend? What do I say to her? I don't know if she knows what I think of M. My poor heart is so confused. I don't know what to think at all. Could someone please help me out?

Be yourself. =) Don't be nervouse, it's only awkward if you make it awkward. Keep your feelings to yourself for the time being, and be nice to his girlfriend. If you like him, trust him and his choice of women. I would talk to him if I were you, jump into a conversation. If he's sitting, ask if you can join him and his friends (even if it sounds a little formal). You'll be able to tell how much he wants to talk to you and people usually include you if you ask. Be Patient.

[FreeTheBalloons]

Hey, what's it mean to have a dream about your crush?

I'm sorry to say, but it doesn't mean anything. I went through this whole "I keep having dreams about him so I must be in love" phase and it was horrible. At most, it means you think about him a lot, or you really want him.

[FreeTheBalloons]

Thank you. I'll try that! ^^ I appreciate this.. and I've let him come to me so far, and he still seems to want some space. I wish everyone would stop fighting over him like he's their possession because he hates that. I'm the only one that seems to care what he thinks.

You're welcome!

[bast,]

Hey, what's it mean to have a dream about your crush?

Actually, when you dream, your dream is supposed to relieve stress. If you dream about your crush, it could be for different reasons. For instance, a few weeks ago, I was stressed about asking out my crush myself. One night, while I was in that "Phase" I had a dream where I was walking down the main hallway in our school. I asked him out and he said yes, and we continued to walk together, holding hands. So, you see, my dream was helping me to live out the moment I had been stressing out about. :]

[oikawa]

Shoot.

I don't want to be in love right now.

But I think I am.

Weirdest thing is, I haven't seen him in 4 years.

My emotions fail to make sense.

This. This so much. This happened to me a while back. The guy i liked in 1st grade-3rd grade left in 5th grade. He and I used to be bestfriends and then we grew apart when I decided to become more popular in 4th grade. Wierdly, two years after he left, I started to miss him. I started to imagine him coming back, and me hugging him and talking to him. I wonder where he is now..