Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[FreeTheBalloons]

I will never have a boyfriend, never! I just now it.
I mean, I have a MASSIVE bum! And although I have some great friends im not one of the popular girls. Im not in to dresses or anything like that, although I like skirts. I guess Im not that old and I still have allot longer to be in to boys, but I realy want a boyfriend. Im mature for my age, I could handle it, maby. Help!

When I was fourteen I thought the exact same thing. I'm turning seventeen in two weeks and I see now how very wrong I was about being "mature for my age". In all actuality, I was mature for my age, but you can only be as mature as you physical brain development alows. I guess what I'm saying is is that you can't THINK older than you are. And thinking is a BIG part of a relationship. Maturaty is all in how you act in response to a situation, not how you think. At fourteen, I couldn't control one thought, just my actions (to a certain degree). Patience is key.
As far as having a boyfriend when you're older, I've also learned that a personality is what makes a person attractive. Corny and cleche, I know, but it's TRUE. I don't find myself attractive at all (I have a big butt too), but I've had enough guys tell me how attractive they think I am after they get to know me. That's I know it's all in personality. But you can't be healthy in a relationship if you can't find the good things in yourself. You'll just bring the other person down, and/or you'll rely to heavily on their oppinion.

[FreeTheBalloons]

Thank you so much. I will just wait. :3 My dad died when I was five,so it's just mom.
One more question:
I asked my mom if I could ever go back to their house,and she replied, "I highly doubt it." What do I do? His mom was super nasty to mine,and I don't think that we will ever be so close as when I am over there for sleepovers. I'll just see him at church,but then he is around all his friends and I don't fit in with them. 3:

Hang out with him at church anyway. =) Even if you feel kind of out of the loop, he'll appreciate you trying. And like I said, call him up and talk on the phone. I can't text so I'm always on the phone with my guy friends. It's really a lot of fun once you get over the first five awkward minutes. xD What you're craving though is that rush of being with him, close to him, when anything can happen. That's not always a safe place to be.

But yeah, hangout at church, and talk to him on the phone. =)

[gone for good :)]

Thank you so much. I will just wait. :3 My dad died when I was five,so it's just mom.
One more question:
I asked my mom if I could ever go back to their house,and she replied, "I highly doubt it." What do I do? His mom was super nasty to mine,and I don't think that we will ever be so close as when I am over there for sleepovers. I'll just see him at church,but then he is around all his friends and I don't fit in with them. 3:

Hang out with him at church anyway. =) Even if you feel kind of out of the loop, he'll appreciate you trying. And like I said, call him up and talk on the phone. I can't text so I'm always on the phone with my guy friends. It's really a lot of fun once you get over the first five awkward minutes. xD What you're craving though is that rush of being with him, close to him, when anything can happen. That's not always a safe place to be.

But yeah, hangout at church, and talk to him on the phone. =)

Really? Call him? Hmm. I used to talk to his sister all the time on the phone,but I never talked to him on the phone. Hmm. I might just try that.
With the church thing-He kind of just ignores me. Like,I will be sitting on the couch alone,and he would be on the other and won't talk to me. Ugh,it's confusing. Why can't guys just tell you if they like you or not? >.<
Thank you for all the help. <33

[FreeTheBalloons]

Really? Call him? Hmm. I used to talk to his sister all the time on the phone,but I never talked to him on the phone. Hmm. I might just try that.
With the church thing-He kind of just ignores me. Like,I will be sitting on the couch alone,and he would be on the other and won't talk to me. Ugh,it's confusing. Why can't guys just tell you if they like you or not? >.<
Thank you for all the help. <33

You're tottally welcome. =)

[Kecko]

The guy I like I got to hangout with last night, I've seen him the last 9 days in row! Last night we were on a bus going to another Church for evening service and he was sitting behind me. We tease each other sometimes, I only have known him for a couple months but feel like I've known him for way longer. Last night he kept patting me on the head and ruffling my hair and we did staring contests and he would stick his head just slightly over the chair and would duck if I turned around and saw him, but all of it was just him being him and joking around, it was a fun night I don't think he likes me likes me (And if it would mess up our friendship I hope he dosen't) but what do you guys think?

Edit: If you want to message me your answer to this feel free to

[Cirque]

So this morning, one of my friends called me & told me that she was talking to a guy that's friends with my crush. Apparently, my crush already has a girlfriend. :/
But, the way I see it, this just means that I have more of a challenge.

[river1999]

:'( i woke up to screaming, and found my roomate dead. I wonder if its Ashton who killed herapt

What?!?!?! Did you call the cops?????

[RIP .Kurt.]

yeah, I called them, they said they'd be right over, but they never arrived. Yeah, let's just say my college is in the soooooooooooooooooooooooooouuuuuuuth

[river1999]

yeah, I called them, they said they'd be right over, but they never arrived. Yeah, let's just say my college is in the soooooooooooooooooooooooooouuuuuuuth

So what did you do with her umm.....PM me please

[treehugger775]

omg were u friends with that roommate. maybe the cops just...uh.....bailed?