Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[kleinerdrache]

So the guy I like, let's call him Garden Boy- long story. Garden Boy is rich, popular, and a freshman starting varsity football at a AA school. Needless to say, he's pretty cocky, but he'll admit it. Sometimes, he will just stop talking mid-conversation- what do I do? Just send another text, or wait for him to text me back? :p

[bast,]

So the guy I like, let's call him Garden Boy- long story. Garden Boy is rich, popular, and a freshman starting varsity football at a AA school. Needless to say, he's pretty cocky, but he'll admit it. Sometimes, he will just stop talking mid-conversation- what do I do? Just send another text, or wait for him to text me back? :p

Wait until he texts you back. You don't want to seem needy. Try keeping your cool, and don't text back right away. It makes you seem like you have no life if you do. ;]

[Roonil Wazlib]

So...I told my boyfriend that I'm sick of him flirting with other girls infront of me, and he said I do the same with the other boy I think I like. Apparently he was trying to get me jelous. I really don't know what to do-I didn't have a clue I was doing this.

Okay, I'm not the best advice giver, but here it goes:
He probably didn't have a clue either.
I think you should either
a) Break up (NOT RECOMMENDED!!) or
b) Promise to tell each other if something's bothering them

[kleinerdrache]

So the guy I like, let's call him Garden Boy- long story. Garden Boy is rich, popular, and a freshman starting varsity football at a AA school. Needless to say, he's pretty cocky, but he'll admit it. Sometimes, he will just stop talking mid-conversation- what do I do? Just send another text, or wait for him to text me back? :p

Wait until he texts you back. You don't want to seem needy. Try keeping your cool, and don't text back right away. It makes you seem like you have no life if you do. ;]

Haha okay, thanks a ton! That's what I figured I should do, just wanted some advice from someone who knew more about love than I xD

Thanks again!

[bast,]

No problem bro. <3

I feel so bad right now. Dx I text my crush literally ALL the time. He thought he had unlimited texting.

Lolnope

Turns out, we texted so much there was a $150 bill for texting. So, I cant text him until it gets fixed, which will probably be in around the next week. </3

[Clarrissa]

So...I told my boyfriend that I'm sick of him flirting with other girls infront of me, and he said I do the same with the other boy I think I like. Apparently he was trying to get me jealous. I really don't know what to do-I didn't have a clue I was doing this.

Okay, I'm not the best advice giver, but here it goes:
He probably didn't have a clue either.
I think you should either
a) Break up (NOT RECOMMENDED!!) or
b) Promise to tell each other if something's bothering them

Okay, thanks for the advice :~). I'll probably just tell him I didn't know, and see if we can work things out. I'll go for option b if that doesn't work. I guess it doesn't help that I've not been paying him that much attention recently.

[Caribou.]

A friend of (insert name here) recently found out about me having a crush on (insert name here). Now its kinda awkward to talk to (insert name here) and I don't know what to do .n.

[Livalathia]

Last night I seriously had one of the best nights ever O.o I'm still in slight shock of it all xD
I really need to get this out just to say it...so bare with me :3

Anyways. So yesterday D came over after school (and mind you this was his first time EVER coming over to my house after its been like...2 months now that we have been going out)so when we got into the house my dog is like a huge fraidy cat and he is afraid of like everyone, and when D walked in it was no different. He started barking and everything and it was kind funny cause D was trying to get him to calm down but it really wasn't working to well. So after he tried to get my dog to like him a little we went up to my room and we talked a little as my computer turned on and when it turned on I grabbed another chair and we started to mess around on it. As he was getting things downloaded onto my computer I turned on my Skype and joined a call with a few of mine and his friends. We talked to them as we messed around and it was kinda funny cause half the time we didn't even really pay attention to the other guys. After a while though we went onto a game that I downloaded, that our other friends were playing at the same time and started a game with just us and some bots to play against.

So as I was playing D put his arm around me and moved as close as his chair would let him to me. It was really cute <3. After a while we joined a game with our friends and after we won it D gave me a little kiss on my cheek and in my head I was like "EE!" and apparently that was for a good game. After that however I had to go horse back ride and he got to see into that part of my life....and once that was over we came back to my house, messed with my computer again and then went to eat some Pizza.

After that is when my night got really good...Which happened when we sat down to watch a movie. Since we haven't really seen each other outside of school all the stuff that happened probably wouldn't have happened otherwise...so most of you might think its weird that I'm so truly happy about this but that would be why. Anyways! So when we sat down he put his arm over my shoulder and I leaned my head on his shoulder. For a while that's pretty much how we sat, but later into the movie he FINALLY grabbed my hand with his arm that was over my shoulder and that's how we sat again for quite a while. Soon though he got a little stiff and he had to take his arm off my shoulder but that didn't stop him from taking my hand again. Also during the movie we watched, since hes Chinese he sometimes has issues with saying some big words so when he tried to say a big word I kinda corrected him or said it fast for him and he was like "Shut up!" really cutely and then pulled my closer to his side. Honestly that movie could not have been any better for me x3

So after the movie it was about 11 and I was pretty exhausted, so he decided it was probably time he went home before I passed out. I agreed and we drove him home, the whole car ride too he was holding my hand which I loved since it was the first time he and I had held hands (the only main reason is cause I'm to shy to grab his hand and normally hes a bit shy around me). But when we got to his house, I jumped out of the car with him and walked to his front door where his dad was and it was kinda funny cause I saw his dad back up a little when he noticed that D was probably going to want him not to watch us. So when we were standing on his front steps he hugged me and then kissed my cheek, and when I turned to look at him he kinda just..kissed me. It was so sweet and after word I was like "OMG!". See before in the night when we were talking to the guys on Skype one of them asked if D and I had ever kissed. I didn't rally want to tell him we hadn't so I said we maybe had. With that D had given me an odd look I couldn't quite place...so when he kissed me at the moment I was like "Wow...". So yeah...last night was my REAL first kiss with a guy....and it was amazing <3

So yeah...I just really had to get that all out cause I'm like super happy right now ^^

[arcticwolf]

I'm in need of help. I really like this kid, and I don't know if he likes me back . I know he probably knows I like him, but I can't tell if he likes me back. He keeps sending mixed signals! For example, he told my friend he liked her, but he took me to islands of adventure and PAID for it ! We even got matching thing 1 and thing 2 sweatshirts. then, he took me on a sushi date and didn't even talk to me the next day. whenever we are alone, he's so much fun, but around his friends, I'm not even there. One time, I didn't want to go somewhere, and he said that he'd stay with me just in case I got hurt. and he tackled me playfully. but at school, its like none of that ever happened. I'm so confused! Does he not like me?

It sounds as if he doesn't want to let people he knows see you with him. He may or may not be embarrased to "like you".

From what I know guys like that aren't the best. Be careful.

[oikawa]

Last night I seriously had one of the best nights ever O.o I'm still in slight shock of it all xD
I really need to get this out just to say it...so bare with me :3

Anyways. So yesterday D came over after school (and mind you this was his first time EVER coming over to my house after its been like...2 months now that we have been going out)so when we got into the house my dog is like a huge fraidy cat and he is afraid of like everyone, and when D walked in it was no different. He started barking and everything and it was kind funny cause D was trying to get him to calm down but it really wasn't working to well. So after he tried to get my dog to like him a little we went up to my room and we talked a little as my computer turned on and when it turned on I grabbed another chair and we started to mess around on it. As he was getting things downloaded onto my computer I turned on my Skype and joined a call with a few of mine and his friends. We talked to them as we messed around and it was kinda funny cause half the time we didn't even really pay attention to the other guys. After a while though we went onto a game that I downloaded, that our other friends were playing at the same time and started a game with just us and some bots to play against.

So as I was playing D put his arm around me and moved as close as his chair would let him to me. It was really cute <3. After a while we joined a game with our friends and after we won it D gave me a little kiss on my cheek and in my head I was like "EE!" and apparently that was for a good game. After that however I had to go horse back ride and he got to see into that part of my life....and once that was over we came back to my house, messed with my computer again and then went to eat some Pizza.

After that is when my night got really good...Which happened when we sat down to watch a movie. Since we haven't really seen each other outside of school all the stuff that happened probably wouldn't have happened otherwise...so most of you might think its weird that I'm so truly happy about this but that would be why. Anyways! So when we sat down he put his arm over my shoulder and I leaned my head on his shoulder. For a while that's pretty much how we sat, but later into the movie he FINALLY grabbed my hand with his arm that was over my shoulder and that's how we sat again for quite a while. Soon though he got a little stiff and he had to take his arm off my shoulder but that didn't stop him from taking my hand again. Also during the movie we watched, since hes Chinese he sometimes has issues with saying some big words so when he tried to say a big word I kinda corrected him or said it fast for him and he was like "Shut up!" really cutely and then pulled my closer to his side. Honestly that movie could not have been any better for me x3

So after the movie it was about 11 and I was pretty exhausted, so he decided it was probably time he went home before I passed out. I agreed and we drove him home, the whole car ride too he was holding my hand which I loved since it was the first time he and I had held hands (the only main reason is cause I'm to shy to grab his hand and normally hes a bit shy around me). But when we got to his house, I jumped out of the car with him and walked to his front door where his dad was and it was kinda funny cause I saw his dad back up a little when he noticed that D was probably going to want him not to watch us. So when we were standing on his front steps he hugged me and then kissed my cheek, and when I turned to look at him he kinda just..kissed me. It was so sweet and after word I was like "OMG!". See before in the night when we were talking to the guys on Skype one of them asked if D and I had ever kissed. I didn't rally want to tell him we hadn't so I said we maybe had. With that D had given me an odd look I couldn't quite place...so when he kissed me at the moment I was like "Wow...". So yeah...last night was my REAL first kiss with a guy....and it was amazing <3

So yeah...I just really had to get that all out cause I'm like super happy right now ^^

Omg. <3 You guys sound so cute together. Like, seriously. It just made me "Awwww c:"