OneDayMore wrote:Darren might not be completely ticked at me, but I still don't think things are perfect. He texted me right after school from Justin's phone to tell me he could help me set up a Facebook account. He seems very set on me getting Facebook, but I hate Facebook with a passion, it goes against everything I stand for, and I'm not changing that for a guy. However, we didn't continue texting after we exchanged like four messages about Facebook. Usually we'll just text from the minute he gets home until a lot later in the evening, doing whatever to make conversation, but it just kind of stopped today, rather than keeping on going. (It could be because he was using Justin's phone, but that's never stopped him before). I really need to talk to him tomorrow. Maybe I'll get out of the pool early so I can catch him before things get to crazy. Hopefully he doesn't think I'm a complete doucheface and this thing can still work out.
*edit* He texted me, so he can't be completely mad, but I feel bad because I couldn't reply because I am completely and totally out of phone credit. I really need to talk to him tomorrow. He probably really thinks I'm an a******.
Don't worry about it, really. If he likes you, he'll understand when you explain in full what happened with your phone. Be sorry, and mean it. Your words alone should be enough to get him to no longer be mad. It's understandable if he's still ticked, but give him a few days and he'll calm down, I'm sure. Don't constantly apologize though, that won't get you anywhere. Saying you're sorry over and over again doesn't do it; three times MAX. Just be entirely honest with him and things will work out fine. But don't stay mad at yourself for it; that'll just make him more mad. Good luck in telling him, I'm sure he'll understand.
.Dawn. wrote:I've only talked to you twice, yet, I cant stop thinking about you!! where ever I go, whether im with my friends, walking to class, walking home I just cant stop! You dont even say hi to me, I know you see me, but you just dont say anything! I dont want to have a crush on you but I cant help it?
we were walking home together one day and it was the first time i've seen you since primary, And I talked to you without even trying to act like someone else, that was a first. I see you everywhere.
Where ever I walk, I look for you, when im with my friends at lunch I always look around for you, when im walking home I always look behind me, around corners etc.
And your not the kind of guy I would go for in my life! but somehow I did...
All my friends think I like this other guy I have liked for years.... But I like you more
Ps. To top it all off, I also have this blushing problem, so whenever I see you, I probably go red to.
Any help? my feeling are all mixed up :L
I'm not sure what you're asking here. x.x Do you just need help getting to know him, or talking to him, or what...?
RestInPeace wrote:Matt did it again today. :/
Hugged me. o.o
I seriously, only see him as a friend, as family really, and the way he is acting... >.<
He gets every excuse possible to touch me, trys to get my attention, make me laugh, the usual with guys. :/
Hate to say so, but it really does seem like he likes you. :/ Sorry kiddo, not much I can say. You've got a few choices.
A. You can let it be and put up with it, letting him go on liking you.
B. Tell him exactly how you feel and risk damaging your friendship.
C. Lead him on and pretend you like him, just so you don't lose him.
Yeah, don't go with C. I would go with B, if anything. It's a 50/50 chance that you'll stay friends, just as normal. Or, you might just put a dent in the friendship and it'll be like a small fight. Either way, you end up friends. Or, he won't be able to get over you and he won't be able to face you anymore because of the rejection. But that's highly unlikely, as you've been friends for a while. Anyways, tell him how you feel and show him his place in the friend-zone. As much as he hates it, that's where he belongs, at least to you. Be. Honest. It'll just be worse if you let him go on and let his feelings grow. The best of luck to you, hope I helped!
Tofuudog wrote:Advice please? C:
So there are at least three guys who like me. But I don't like them back. They all know that, but one is still trying. I have an eye for somebody else, but I don't actually want to date them. I told my friend {she is in his class} to tell him that I like somebody else. But he is still trying. If their class does lunch job or something, they all call him to come. "Hey *name*! Its *my name*" And everybody goes like "OMG do you know *name*? He likes you." I heard enough, and I can't stand it anymore. I can't participate in school plays or go outside, cause they're just going to tease me more. What can I do?
Also, one more thing. My friend's boyfriend dumped her, and now she's so depressed. Are there anyways to cheer her up?
Thank you in advance ;u;
Hmm, not sure. The only thing I can come up with, is when you're at lunch and you hear people whispering about you or asking about him to you, stand up on the nearest table and yell out, "*NAME* AND I ARE NOT DATING, NO MATTER WHAT YOU THINK. I KNOW HE LIKES ME, BUT THERE'S NO WAY I LIKE HIM BACK, SO WOULD YOU LAY OFF?!"
...But that might be a little extreme. Next time someone asks you about it, calmly tell them what's REALLY going on. Rumors spread fast, and it sounds like yours has really set off. Spread around a new rumor, that's the real truth. You really have to work at it though; you'll be telling people for ages before it really sinks in. People hear what they want to hear, and that's why rumors spread like wildfire. It's because it's hot gossip, and it's so unlikely they love to believe it's true. Once you start telling people the truth, they're more likely to believe you and not the rumor. I really hope this helps you, and good luck!
Nellas Lissësúl wrote:Oh hahaha yeah it's always K who messes it up, isn't it. :/ Well, I could call M some other initial, because M is only his nickname. And I would never ask a guy to dance, ask a guy out or anything- it's against my code. I have a medieval mind, some say.
No, don't worry, if I'm anything, it's definitely not obsessive. What I thought I had with M was... Something else, something better, something that adults don't believe teens are capable of feeling. I thought we had something together. And it was magical. But I was a fool. I was so happy, happier than I'd ever been in my life, and then he turned his back and started going out with K. And he didn't say anything about it to me. Now don't get me wrong; I don't want to try to sabotage what he has, I would never in the life of me think of doing anything like that. I care about him too much. But he didn't tell me he started dating this other girl, this K. And how did I find out? Over a text. By someone who doesn't even like him. I should have seen the signs, known he didn't like me anymore. Of course, we would have been friends in the first place even if we didn't like each other, but now I can only hope he won't hate me. I have no idea what to do. No idea at all. It would have been easier if he just told me. He's caused me to doubt many of the things I thought I was and, more importantly, many of the things I thought he was. You know what I thought, Nim, if you got that RP (Edit: Meant to say PM :3) replying to the chat on here. But I guess M just didn't like me as much as I felt for him. I think, though, that I knew it, really deep in my heart that he didn't feel the same way, but as much as I've learned about myself in the past few months, it didn't help me. And the thing is, it's not even that he's going out with someone else that really hurts; as much as I care about him, we weren't even going out in the first place, and anyways I don't want to be in the way of his happiness. It's that he didn't tell me. Why wouldn't he tell me? Because he didn't want to hurt me? Well, he hurt me even more by letting me find out from someone else and not from him. And of course I may be wrong, because I really don't know what's true and what's not right now, but I didn't think he was the type to do that sort of thing. He used to like me. I thought we would have been friends anyways. So why couldn't he tell me?
I just can't figure it out.
Maybe my mind doesn't work as well when my heart's in pieces.
ClarrissaK wrote:Dachshund Lover^-^ wrote:Tell your boy firend 'bout the truth and How ya don't like him talking with other girls like that. 'bout the other guy I don't know
I could try tomorrow @ school, but I don't know if breaking up with him would hurt his feelings... :?
No matter what you do, breaking up with someone is always going to hurt their feelings. Always. Unless it's mutual, but even then both people are going to feel hurt at one point or another. You're leading him on by staying with him, as you no longer feel for him and you like someone else. You've got to break up with him, or you're just going to hurt him more. The longer you wait, the worse it's going to be when he realizes you don't like him. So, make your decision. Are you going to tell him yourself, or wait around until he figures it out? You really just need to be honest with him. Honesty is always the best policy when it comes to relationships, and the sooner you're honest with each other the sooner the problem can be solved. But always remember to wait at least a week before you get together with someone else. At the least. And always break up with them in person, don't send someone else off to do it, and don't do it in a note esp. I hope this helped, and good luck!
Regs~! wrote:I'm in need of help. I really like this kid, and I don't know if he likes me back . I know he probably knows I like him, but I can't tell if he likes me back. He keeps sending mixed signals! For example, he told my friend he liked her, but he took me to islands of adventure and PAID for it ! We even got matching thing 1 and thing 2 sweatshirts. then, he took me on a sushi date and didn't even talk to me the next day. whenever we are alone, he's so much fun, but around his friends, I'm not even there. One time, I didn't want to go somewhere, and he said that he'd stay with me just in case I got hurt. and he tackled me playfully. but at school, its like none of that ever happened. I'm so confused! Does he not like me?
He likes you, that's for sure. But he's too used to being a bro, and he's not quite ready to show you off. He probably wants to change you to fit his image of the ideal girlfriend, to make you "presentable" to his friends. This isn't uncommon, but it is a jerk move for sure. He does like you, don't get him/me wrong, but he's being a jerk by not owning up. I say break it off. No guy is worth that. Confront him, at the least, and explain to him how rude he's being. Give him a chance to explain myself, he might have a good reason, but if he doesn't feel free to end it right there and then. Tell him you can get back together after he's not embarrassed by you. I know it seems harsh, but it's the right thing to do. I hope this helps, and good luck with him.
My Friend In Need wrote:So let me recap/summarize.
I like this guy who've I've known and been friends with since I was little. I want to tell him that I like him but I'm worried that if I do and he doesn't like me back it will completely ruin our friendship. I hardly ever see him but I text him from time to time. He only replys to texts, he's never sent one to me that's not a reply. Only once and a while have the texts lasted very long. I try to invite him to group events but he's always busy (no, I don't think he's avoiding me). I really enjoy talking to him and a lot of the time I'm smiling after we've stopped texting.
What do you think? Feel free to ask others what they think, just please don't tell them my username.
Hey guys, wanna help my friend out? She's shy ;)
