by arcticwolf » Fri Mar 30, 2012 8:43 am
If it wasn't for the asbolutely amazing girls at my school I don't know how I would be doing at this moment.
Long story:
My ex boyfriend and I broke up yesterday. Well, he went to my absolute, practically-a-sister best friend. He gave her a note saying that he hadn't trusted me since the first time we broke up, he told her he had wanted to break up with me for weeks, he told her he liked her, he asked her out and he told her not to tell me.
Well, she did tell me. And I wasn't happy. I was hurt. I was hurt beyond belief.
Then, he pulled my best friend into him. He told her she was sweet and nice, he wrote her notes saying he trusted her, how he liked her, how he promised he would treat her better than me. He blinded her with his stupid words and promises that I too believed at one time.
Then, today, he threatened to kill me. Why? Because I laughed when one of my friends was being a good friend to me, because I was hurt and called him a nickname he doesn't like. He turned to her and said "I'm going to kill you." Then he turned to me and flat out said "I'm going to kill you too." Now he claims he was kidding. It really didn't sound or look like a joke at the time. It makes me sick to think about the look on his face when he told me that.
Then, he told me I'm more coldhearted than him and that I don't even know what that means because of my blonde hair- no wait, it just comes with girls like me. That I'm an (youknowwhat) hole. That I was nothing but a suck up little girl that rots in gayness. First of all, I'm straight. Second, what's wrong with gay people? That's offensive and it hurts my feelings for those people. They don't deserve his hatred. Some people these days, I swear..
He said I look like... something not appropriate enough to write here.
He told me all I do is complain and ask questions and that I need to shut up and leave him alone.
But what crossed the line was when he made fun of me for crying over my mom- my mom who is in liver failure and has MS, and may be dying.
He didn't mean that to be mean, either. You know. Because I can believe that.
My best friend told him she wouldn't date him because it wasn't right. She found out he lied, because when he asked her out he also asked out two of our other friends at the same time. Before he went out with me, he went out with my other best friend. (I know that was wrong for me to date him, and I broke up with him but he begged and pleaded until I felt so guilty I took him back.)
Then he went off on my best friend for rejecting him because she knew it wasn't right to date him when I was still hurt over him. She finally realizes the kind of person he is. He threatens to kill himself all the time and says he doesn't care about his family. Then he says he's not going to and is back to being in a perfectly happy go lucky mood. Despite him hurting me I've told him he doesn't deserve to die. Yet he says he'll kill me and I'm worthless. He yells at me all the time.
So now because he can't have her, he told me he likes me still. That he kind of trusts me but he doesn't know, and that he likes her but me more.
But we're done. Me and my friends, we're all done with him for the rest of forever.
Tl;dr:
He was an absolute jerk that threatened to kill me and went after my best friend. We dated for two months and I found out he was lying to me the whole time when he told me he loved me.
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