WaraiNeko wrote:"It's mere infatuation." I tell this to myself whenever I see my friend Brandon. I know it is because my feelings for R are definitley stronger.
My friend Brandon well we were just friends we didn't really get along that well like me and R. We joke around make fun of each other etc. You know stuff like that. I hit him in the head at rude comments and he calls me a bully but it's just joking around x.x
Well lately I've been noticing him more you know? I've been finding him cuter and I laugh at his jokes more. We're talking more and stuff. I'm nicer to him etc. I have an itty bitty crush on him okay? I'm really hoping this will pass because it's troublesome liking 2 boys at once
Ugh, been there, done that. It's easier to stop fighting it and admit you have a crush on him, honestly. It's going to come later, you might as well get it over with now. You do like both of them, as much as you want to like the other. I'm in your exact situation, with like, three other guys. Well, maybe not three. I've got John, who I know is the one for me. But then there's Noah, who I know I would never be with, but we'd be so perfect together. In your case, Brandon is Noah. (WOAHMAN, DROPPING THE NAMES FOR THE FIRST TIME. Yes, my sweet, sweet J is John. <3) You'll get over him, trust me. You have to fall into it first.
Here's what you do.
1. Accept the fact that you have a crush on both of them.
2. Wait a long time, always keeping the thought that R is the right one for you and Brandon is just a phase tucked in the back of your mind.
3. Realize in a while (days, weeks, months, it varies from person to person) that while Brandon is a very nice guy and you do like him, R is the guy you want to be with, because there's that one thing that just makes him that much better.
If you don't want to wait so long, it'll help shorten the time by making a pros and cons list. (Any How I met your mother fans out there? Bwahaha) Make two vertical columns. Right R's name at the top of one column, and Brandon at the top of the other. Draw a horizontal line in the middle of those two columns. Write pros at the top two boxes, and con in the bottom two. Write the pros and cons for each guy and see which one out weighs the other. This is a pretty simple, effective way to figure out which guy is for you. But be warned, you might find that Brandon is better for you than R. But always take into consideration that you've got a spark with one of them that you'll never have with the other. (The two dealbreakers for Noah and John was that John is a Christian an I have a spark with him, whereas Noah is agnostic and no spark. Yeah, Noah's been friendzoned for like, 2 years, and he knows it. x) Doesn't stop him though >.>)
I really hope that this helps you, and good luck with juggling those two for a while! It's easier than you think, depending in the guy. It was easy with Noah, because he knows that I'm not into him and we're very open with each other. You might not be that lucky. x(
a w k w a r d wrote:I like a guy, Tony, and his mom said to mine "Yeah, Tony was wondering if Jasmine was going to the dance, but was too shy to ask." ..confused, but yeah.
My sister whispered to him to hug me, and he gave me a hug, and it felt right.
Opinions?
Obviously he want's to go with you. So call him. And tell him you would like to go with him. :P Then go to the dance. Bam. Magic. Oh yeah, and the hug is a sign too. (Lol, sign. Wut) It's always a good thing when siblings and parents are encouraging someone to get together. They know you two best and can see that it's a good match. So, ask him out.