Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[Alyth]

So my boyfriend broke up with me Saturday night (i think..) Though i didn't quite understand his reason. He told me that his dad, whom he hates, pissed him off extremely. He said that hes never been this mad before and i can understand that being in a similar situation with my mother. The problem is it seems like he took his anger out on me. Im fine about the whole situation Its just if he decides to ask me back out im not sure what id say. I care for this boy terribly. More than intended. I kinda thought he would stay, at least a while longer. I would like to tell him know but im afraid i cant. Im clueless at what to do.

[Alaric Dixon <3]

So my boyfriend broke up with me Saturday night (i think..) Though i didn't quite understand his reason. He told me that his dad, whom he hates, pissed him off extremely. He said that hes never been this mad before and i can understand that being in a similar situation with my mother. The problem is it seems like he took his anger out on me. Im fine about the whole situation Its just if he decides to ask me back out im not sure what id say. I care for this boy terribly. More than intended. I kinda thought he would stay, at least a while longer. I would like to tell him know but im afraid i cant. Im clueless at what to do.

Right now, my advice would be to do nothing. If he was really that angry, then he probably needs some time to cool off. My guess is he's going through some personally issues and probably needs to sort those out, or at least find out where his head is. Wait a couple of days. If you really care for him that deeply, your going to regret it if you stand by and don't do anything about it. Trust me, I've been there. Tell him your worried for him, and you don't understand why he broke up with you. Tell him why your hurt and if things are going right, how you truly feel about him. To me, this sounds like a relationship that shouldn't have ended, a rash decision made in a bought of anger. Good luck <3

~Clove

[Alyth]

So my boyfriend broke up with me Saturday night (i think..) Though i didn't quite understand his reason. He told me that his dad, whom he hates, pissed him off extremely. He said that hes never been this mad before and i can understand that being in a similar situation with my mother. The problem is it seems like he took his anger out on me. Im fine about the whole situation Its just if he decides to ask me back out im not sure what id say. I care for this boy terribly. More than intended. I kinda thought he would stay, at least a while longer. I would like to tell him know but im afraid i cant. Im clueless at what to do.

Right now, my advice would be to do nothing. If he was really that angry, then he probably needs some time to cool off. My guess is he's going through some personally issues and probably needs to sort those out, or at least find out where his head is. Wait a couple of days. If you really care for him that deeply, your going to regret it if you stand by and don't do anything about it. Trust me, I've been there. Tell him your worried for him, and you don't understand why he broke up with you. Tell him why your hurt and if things are going right, how you truly feel about him. To me, this sounds like a relationship that shouldn't have ended, a rash decision made in a bought of anger. Good luck <3

~Clove

Thank you<3
I haven't really been much able to talk with him since then. Its usually really late before we both can talk or ive been out of town and have had no service. Im nervous. I don't really know what to think about all this.

[Shadeslayer243]

8th grader is a football player and he admitted staring at my butt!Oh, that kid is going to get it.

I will gladly bash this person up for you ...... If you want me to though

Lolz- go Teags, I would do the axact same thing for a friend.

haha yeah, theres a kid at school who grabs the girls as they walk by, he grabbed my bestie... Then i kicked him in the stomach, the some other kid tried to hit me with a 'paper wasp'. he hit me but it didnt hurt XD Males fail miserably XD not all of them are bad though

Luvs you Sammich <3

[paradox.]

wait an actual paper wasp or a wasp made out of paper? >.<

[Shadeslayer243]

wait an actual paper wasp or a wasp made out of paper? >.<

wasp made outta paper XD. It didn't hurt but it hurts if you do it properley thouhg -_-

[paradox.]

Lol males truly do mystify me. Yesterday they were throwing a tea bag around that they got from my friends tea from dunkin donuts and saying "YOU GOT TEA BAGGED" when it hits someone. Yeah a horrible pun >.<

Good thing it was only the paper and not the actual thing! ^.^

[Shadeslayer243]

Lol males truly do mystify me. Yesterday they were throwing a tea bag around that they got from my friends tea from dunkin donuts and saying "YOU GOT TEA BAGGED" when it hits someone. Yeah a horrible pun >.<

Good thing it was only the paper and not the actual thing! ^.^

i have one word for the teabag thing..... TROLOL. yeah that wouldve really hurt, and I dont know if i am allergic or not /:

[greysilence]

So you know how when J and I were texting-Sunday I think-and he said he "kind of likes me"? Well...I've been doing a lot of thinking.

Like I said, I never before considered him more than a friend because I thought that was all I was to him. But now I can see that's not true. Would he really text me/talk to me every day if we were just friends? And would I willingly do it back? Well, no not really. So that also pointed out to me that he's not just a friend.

Also, I always want a hug from him, I SUPPOSE it's kinda our thing now. I don't really care about hugging any other guys, he's the only guy I ask for hugs anyways, and there's not a lot of guys that gives hugs willingly at my school.

I also should have realized something more was going on when those 3-4 days he stole my pencil bag. So, I was just being oblivious. Why would I think he likes me when he has a girlfriend.

So, now off of all that stuff. XD I texted with him yesterday, and this is basically what happened.

Me: Wanna know a secret? You'll like it.
Do ya? Huh? Do ya, do ya? lol
J: Yeah.
Me: My birthday is Thursday. But that's not a secret, so that's no really what I was gonna tell you. Wanna know the real secret?
J: Sure.
Me: You don't sound very excited to find out the secret. And I think you'll like it, but you may not.
J: What's your secret?
Me: Well...I kind of like you back.

And we were talking and stuff then I sent, "So did you like the secret?" and his reply was just "Yeah." ._. I know I'm probably just overreacting, but I still feel stupid now. He probably just said that though because, again, the whole girlfriend thing. Then later on I was just like "I won't wait foreverr lol" and he was sent back lol.

I don't want him to break up with his girlfriend because of me, but honestly whenever I see them together he doesn't look very ecstatic, or he's paying more attention to me than to her. And I'm kind of over the whole age difference thing. I'm a year older then him, oh well! We're both in junior high, it's not like one of us is in highschool and the other's in grade school.

I don't know, but I have this weird feeling that something might possibly happen tomorrow since it's my birthday.

Oh!!! And Monday when we were texting, and this was our conversation.

J: Whatever.
Me: What's wrong?
Do you need...


a...


PIECE OF GUM?!?!
J: Hug.
Me: Awww, what's wrong?
J: Nothing, why?
Me: Well you said you needed a hug, so I thought something was wrong.
J: Nope.
Me: So you just wanted a hug?
J: Yup.
Me: lol Kay, I'll give you one Monday at school if you still want it.
J: Yay(:

So...yup. Awwkwwwaarrdness. XD

[peachie.]

R biked me home today (: I walk home alone and he had his bike so he biked and I walked beside him. We talked about some of our favourite songs, our day etc. He has a Domo hat and I wear it all the time. I wore it all the way home C8
At school was good too, we hungout at lunch and goofed around. Then at recess we hung out. Sadly our friends know we like each other also and they kept teasing us. But we told them to shut up. My other friend came up and pulled me away. She asked me if him and I were dating. I said no. She said it seemed like we were dating since we hangout always. But no, we arent dating. I am not even sure if we are going to date.