Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[Skrillex The Fox]

{{ Okay, so sorry for the supertastic-long rant, but I've gotta get this out. I've been dealing with it since what, last March? I've gotta get this out before I explode.}}

Last March, I moved across the country, thousands of miles away from my old school. This guy that I didn't like much was the only person to talk to me the entire way. All of my 'best friends', ditched me or forgot about me aparently, because they never would text me back. Anyways, this guy really brightened me up, and it eventually became more than being friends.

Now, I know that long-distance relationships are always gonna die in the worst way possible. Someone almost always ends up cheating, or someone gets 'bored' with their bf/gf and breaks up. I didn't care. I loved him more than anything. It was all new to me, because to be honest, I never really loved my boyfriend before him. But I loved 'B', which is what I shall call him.

B and I were together for almost a year. Then, on Nov. 26, he sent me a text reading,

'S', I don't think this is gonna work...

I swear, my blood froze when I read that. I mean, I loved him more than anything, even though he was half-way across the planet. But sure enough, we spilt up. You know why? My best friend really liked him. And he'd been taking advantage of that.

The past few months had been hard, but I thought I'd gotten over him. I was okay, until this afternoon, I got this text,

'...loves you. I haven't let go of you yet, I loved you 'S', I still love you. I'm not saying lets get back 'together' or anything, but what we had, was more than I thought it was....'

.... And this all starts again. I really don't know what to do. Q~Q

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whoa.


amour. I mean no disrespect in the least, but this will not go on. If D were to find out, and the chances are immensely likely he will at some point or other, and you are still dating him when he does, you will hurt him beyond belief. Dragging this on is like cheating, I strongly suggest you break one off now. It may be thrilling and all, to know R likes you, but you are lying to D if you say you "love" him, but "love" R.

[InuEsca]

@Blink.: Seems to me you must be very confused. But all in all, it's best you stay friends. At least, that's what I would do. Sure there may be feelings left for him, but he was with your best friend. You won't always be there to know if he's not doing it again or actually putting all focus on you. And he even isn't sure about being back together. Just stay friends, maybe there will be someone else down the road who will make you very happy.

@amour.: I agree with Karasu-Chan^^, you shouldn't let this keep going. It will only put you in alot of trouble. If you break up with D you have to remember these things. Tell him the truth. Tell him how you feel. Tell him why. I think you should give him that satisfaction since he knows nothing of R, but R knows about you and D. See how unfair that is?
But, you never know if the relationship with D will work out as well. You have to decide who you really want to be with, D, R, or maybe just yourself to get things cleared up. Whatever choice you make is up to you, but it's better than being in a rut like this.

Wish you both the best of luck! Hope it helps!

[Keletheryl]

So, I get to walk by my crush's house ALLL week next week, starting tomorrow.

Cause I'm walking a dog and his house is along the way to the school. ^^
I have a feeling that something is going to happen.
I don't know if anybody remembers, but I told you about my friend that has a crush on him as well?
She thinks of it as a competition, but I don't.
Does that mean anything?
Anyways, so I went with a walk with her, and we actually talked about things other then him. xD Which I liked.
The history me and this guy has is.. it's just amazing.
I met him in grade 4- He liked my best friend Bailey, but I liked him.
In grade 5- We went to the same Daycare. Things got to a point were he almost kissed me. But it was to soon (Only grade 5!) and so I pushed him away... But he still ran after me. xD We were really good friends.
In grade 6- We were in the same class, and at Halloween, I dressed as a dead bride, and he dressed as a dead groom. And it was totally unintentional. All the girls were pushing me into him, and all the guys were pushing him into me. I didn't like that day ;n;
In grade 7- He would hold doors open for me, and he was such a gentleman. But then at the grade 7 dance, I danced with my friend Matthew cause he had no friends... to a slow song. And then his best friend danced with me pretty much the whole night. Amg, it was horrible. And he stomped on my foot at the end of the dance :C
In grade 8- We both hated eachother. We had no classes together, but if we saw each other in the hall we would glare at eachother. I said his name with disgust.
In grade 9 (Now)- At first, things were slow. but then he would stare at me ALL the time, he would talk to me, he would smile at me, he would do the 'eyebrow wiggle' at me... and then things slowed down when my friend came in. :C
Now, do you think I have a chance with this guy? Should I tell him I like him? Or.. I was already thinking of it, but you guys are awesome and I want the get-go from you first.
Remember- My friend wants to tell him too. But I think she will chicken out. She's said she was going to for three months now. Hasn't.
Thankies! Sorry for the long post ;n;

[Kneesocks]

I can't tell if I have a crush or a "squish" on this person, ever since I saw her I have been really interested in her.
She is very smart and really funny and into alot of the things I'm into.

I have no idea how to approach her though to be friends, you see she is my flight commander and I only see her once a week.
Its really nerve wracking to actually go up and say hello because she is usually hanging out with MUCH higher ranks than I.

[jasmine;]

This is driving me nuts.
I'm not sure if A likes me or not.

He's told me I'm truly amazing on the piano, we talked all night that night, I hang out at his house and sleep there-- but he seems to be talking to my sister more. Happy to say, my sister doesn't like him, but that doesn't mean he doesn't like her, me, Clarissa or anyone else.

A reason he might like to talk to her more is because she looks almost THE SAME like his sister, who he's very close to. ^^

He's very nice, sweet to me and my family, funny and likes to pull pranks. He usually sits next to me or near me and staring in my range.

What do you think?

[garnet.]

This is driving me nuts.
I'm not sure if A likes me or not.

He's told me I'm truly amazing on the piano, we talked all night that night, I hang out at his house and sleep there-- but he seems to be talking to my sister more. Happy to say, my sister doesn't like him, but that doesn't mean he doesn't like her or anyone else.

He's very nice, sweet to me and my family, funny and likes to pull pranks. He usually sits next to me or near me and staring in my range.

What do you think?

with the talking to your sister thing, he might be trying to make you jealous

[jasmine;]

This is driving me nuts.
I'm not sure if A likes me or not.

He's told me I'm truly amazing on the piano, we talked all night that night, I hang out at his house and sleep there-- but he seems to be talking to my sister more. Happy to say, my sister doesn't like him, but that doesn't mean he doesn't like her or anyone else.

He's very nice, sweet to me and my family, funny and likes to pull pranks. He usually sits next to me or near me and staring in my range.

What do you think?

with the talking to your sister thing, he might be trying to make you jealous

Thanks for sharing your opinion ^^

Considering what you said, that does seem very likely.

[garnet.]

my crush taught me the waltz yesterday, i didnt ask, he just offered does that mean anything...

@a w k w a r d
it is very likely
and what do you think of my situation ^^ its at the top

[Luvtomfelton!!!]

Hi i have posted on this about this guy qutie often Nathen who i love and would do anythnig for!

Well...Every day i am in the nearly every single class as Nathen and in history i am in a group with him,this other boy Michael teases us saying"Ohh Sophie and Nathen are sitting beside eachother"And Nathen looks away blushnig but smilnig and then looks at me and starts squeknig and maknig funyn noises like he cna't speak to me.He does it often now and qutie often i catch him staring at me or daydreamnig t me,i fell so emabrresed but thrilled he is acting like that so does he like me or not?And he also in most class i am in a grouo with him,when the teacher says Nathen and Sohpoie will got together everyone in the class like everyone!goes"OHH!!!"And we both blush but he always seems so happy when he is around em and he often tries showin goff for me which i find funny.

I think that means that he likes you. You should tell him on the last day before your school holidays, or earlier.
It's also good to tell them over a website, like facebook, skype, msn, twitter, etc. Just as long as it's private.

But if you tell him on the internet, I'd say something like, "Hi Nathan.. I've been to shy to tell you, and I know
that this might be pretty awkward to you, and it's very embarrassing to me.. but I think that I kinda like you."

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~Lana ♥

I did ask him out last year but he said no but was qutie sad after i did and he knows i love him because he asked me if i do fancy him and i said"I do...i love you"It was embaressing but he seemed happy and nodde dhis head and went bright red and neither of us have facebook