LittleSparks wrote:HI!
I have a question:
Well, recently, I had this really awesome Bf. He was so nice to me, and he said all this nice stuff to me, but it was all through text. Then I would say hi to him in the hallways and he barley acknowlegded me. I asked him why he never said hi to me in the hallways when I said hi, and he said he never saw me. And we have this thing called four areas at my school, it's where you can go to any teachers classroom before the bell. And so I would always invite him to go with us a lot. He would either not show up, or come, but be all awkward and sit like, 4 tables away. But if you say it was shyness, it wasn't, I know the difference between being ignored and shy. He was avoiding me. But then he'd say all these nice things to me through texting....I was just torn. So being the bigger person instead of breaking up with him through text, I did it like a normal person and did it in person. Did I do the right thing? I still really like him!!!!
I will congratulate you on doing it in person. Sadly, not many people do. Did you let him explain? Give him a chance? He may have really loved you, but he was too afraid of what the
others would say. Talk to him to find out. Maybe he was embarrassed and if his friends found out he would just die. Anyway, you could tell he was as torn and confused as you.
If things do not work out smile and keep going.