Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[Roonil Wazlib]

Do you think dying my hair purple and chopping more than half of it off will get my crush to notice me? I don't see him much anymore

[spaceferrari]

By any chance, do you live in America or near it?

America as in the United States? I do actually. East Coast.

We're transporting fish tonight... joy of joys. Thankfully, Glasses is helping out- he thinks my fish are cool. He can carry buckets of water more easily than I can too. X3 I feel jealous because he's so much stronger than me.
And he has a tan! It's only March and he's already got his fabulous farmer's tan going. It's hard for me to tan without getting burned first and he makes me even more jealous. :C
Also, my birthday is tomorrow. That's right, Saint Patrick's Day. I'm anxious to see what he got me (I'm not assuming; he told me he found something I'll like), but I sincerely hope he didn't spend too much money. XC I would feel bad.

[Lanana]

There's this guy I kind of like..
More information is below here.

C = Best Friend /female
L = Older friend /female
W = My Crush ouo /male
J = Crushes friend /male
S = Crushes bestie /male
Sr = Crushes friend /male
T = Crushes brother /male
M = Another friend /female

Btw, M is a new person.

I've known her for ages,
but she's not introduced
until the quoted post. [:

Okay.. now for the story.. here it goes.

C and I are on facebook chatting to each other in private message, and we're talking about random stuff. We;re talking about W, and then she tells me that he added her on facebook. Blushing, I tell her he hasn't added me yet. Then she tells me, "Add him then!" and I say, "No, I don't want to!". But I do.. I'm just to shy. So she sighs, and asks me if I want her to message him and tell her that I want him to add me. I say no, since he'll think I'm a weirdo. J told him that I like him, since J is a really good guy friend of mine. C likes him, and he knows it. But used to like her a little bit.. no he doesn't. Anyway, C and I are having this conversation, about this. Then I say I have to go, and we both log off. The next day, she rings me and tells me to go on facebook. So I do, and see I have a friend request from W. I tell C, and she teases me. Slightly embarrassed, I say that he didn't do anything else. Soon, I discover he tagged me in a picture, along with S, Sr, and I think J as well. I check, and the tag says something like, 'always stressed'. I remove myself, since I was quite popular that year and believe me, I do not get stressed easier. Then, I carry on talking to C, and then J comes on. C quickly goes offline, and I talk to J, about random stuff. He doesn't tell me anything about W, luckily, and doesn't mention him at all. Last time we had an awkward conversation about him, and he said that W had said that I was cute. Anyway.. soon, he goes offline, and I ring C back and she comes on. So we're talking, and then she has to go off again. -- ABout a week ago, C and I are at a new school, which is an all girls school. And W, J, S and Sr are still at the old school. C and I probably won't see them again, unless they ended up going to the all boys school down the road from out school. SO anyway, I tell J that I'm coming to see their class in our school holidays since they will still be at school, and C and I have planned to walk in and just pretend we've come to see the teacher and our friend in the class they're in {their teacher used to be our teacher once}. So he says okay, and then logs off. Six weeks later, L {who is older then me} comments on my wall on the school website that Fred is a human {Fred is a random drawing on her hand, which I think is a potato} and she says that T {W's brother} almost punched someone to say that Fred is a Person. I said that Fred is a potato, as usual, and then logged off. Then, I go back on facebook about a week later, and message W saying this; "Just out of interest, did your brother almost punch your face to make you say Fred is a human?" So now I cant go on on facebook until Easter {it's some celebration, PM me if you need to know about it} and I"d like some advice on my reaction.

If he says 'yeah', and then something else, I'm not sure what I should do. If he says 'no', I'm not sure what I should do. If he randomly says 'I like you', then I definitely have no idea what to do. Do I tell him I like him too, or just leave it.. and react how? Thank for all advice.

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~Lana ♥

I just asked L who T punched, and she said his brother. So I asked which one, and she said younger.. which is W. Then today {that talk with L was like four days ago} I was walking home with my friend, M. We were kind of 'gossiping' a bit, about what some boys told her at our old school. This girl had betrayed all of the older girls and told three boys our secrets. Aaaand M told me that the girl then got the boys to spread the word. So our secrets were all spread.. and I was so surprised and disappointed. Then, M told me all the people that had a crush on my last year.. which was over six. That included W, S, Sr, and a little bit of J {by the way, M is J's sister}. So now, I know loads of secrets. And I feel so stalked.. I don't knw what to do. And I don't know if W still likes me.

{Finished off the rest..}

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~Lana ♥

[Luvtomfelton!!!]

Hi i have posted on this about this guy qutie often Nathen who i love and would do anythnig for!

Well...Every day i am in the nearly every single class as Nathen and in history i am in a group with him,this other boy Michael teases us saying"Ohh Sophie and Nathen are sitting beside eachother"And Nathen looks away blushnig but smilnig and then looks at me and starts squeknig and maknig funyn noises like he cna't speak to me.He does it often now and qutie often i catch him staring at me or daydreamnig t me,i fell so emabrresed but thrilled he is acting like that so does he like me or not?And he also in most class i am in a grouo with him,when the teacher says Nathen and Sohpoie will got together everyone in the class like everyone!goes"OHH!!!"And we both blush but he always seems so happy when he is around em and he often tries showin goff for me which i find funny.

[Lanana]

Hi i have posted on this about this guy qutie often Nathen who i love and would do anythnig for!

Well...Every day i am in the nearly every single class as Nathen and in history i am in a group with him,this other boy Michael teases us saying"Ohh Sophie and Nathen are sitting beside eachother"And Nathen looks away blushnig but smilnig and then looks at me and starts squeknig and maknig funyn noises like he cna't speak to me.He does it often now and qutie often i catch him staring at me or daydreamnig t me,i fell so emabrresed but thrilled he is acting like that so does he like me or not?And he also in most class i am in a grouo with him,when the teacher says Nathen and Sohpoie will got together everyone in the class like everyone!goes"OHH!!!"And we both blush but he always seems so happy when he is around em and he often tries showin goff for me which i find funny.

I think that means that he likes you. You should tell him on the last day before your school holidays, or earlier.
It's also good to tell them over a website, like facebook, skype, msn, twitter, etc. Just as long as it's private.

But if you tell him on the internet, I'd say something like, "Hi Nathan.. I've been to shy to tell you, and I know
that this might be pretty awkward to you, and it's very embarrassing to me.. but I think that I kinda like you."

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~Lana ♥

[christine-marie]

I'm so jealous of the girls who get asked to homecoming/prom/other school dances in the most adorable ways.

Like today, in my 3rd hour class, somebody's boyfriend got a real life police officer to come into my class room and "arrest" the girl. She had no idea what was going on, but in the end, she came back with a bouquet of roses, and was asked to Prom.

I hope that if I ever get a boyfriend that he does things like that. <3

Anyways, I have a cold, and so I was sitting there in my 6th hour class, and I really felt like I had to sneeze. So first, I made that turtle-face that you make when you have to sneeze, and then all of a sudden I sneeze, and I didn't have enough time to cover my face with me elbow. So I sneeze really disgustingly, all in-front of my crush. I have never hated having a cold so much, and I have never been so embarrassed.

And...Well, here's the story in short. I meet this guy, start liking him, we go out, I have a major mood swing, we break up, and never talk again. I get his number, start texting him, start liking him again, tell him I love him, and then stop talking again. Now, he tries to talk to me, but I just...can't. I've lost all interest now. It really was just a quick phase I was going through. But apparently, he likes me now, and he goes out of his way to say hi, and all I can do really is just smile back. I don't want to tell him I have no interest in him. I mean, I've already broken his heart once. I dunno.

[bast,]

Anybody remember me? Anyways, I got my crushes number, and we've been texting non-stop since. Well, there are some highlights from the texting I'd like to ask some stuff about.

Okay, so I told him that I was having a sleepover, so in the morning, he texted me asking how I slept. All of my friends thought this was adorable. I know he likes me, so what do you think?

Today, before the next thing, we were talking about our favorite class. We both like our fourth hour, which we happen to both be in the same class for. I said "Yeah, it's got a great group of kids that aren't annoying, and the teacher is amazing." and he replied 'Yep. and your in it. :)" Isn't that ADORABLE?!

Also, today we were talking about how people keep on bothering us on "How cute we look together" and "Has M asked you out yet?" and "When are you going to ask out O?[me]" So obviously he likes me, and I like him. Why do you think he hasn't asked me out yet? Do you think that he's not allowed to have a girlfriend?

[Lanana]

Anybody remember me? Anyways, I got my crushes number, and we've been texting non-stop since. Well, there are some highlights from the texting I'd like to ask some stuff about.

Okay, so I told him that I was having a sleepover, so in the morning, he texted me asking how I slept. All of my friends thought this was adorable. I know he likes me, so what do you think?

Today, before the next thing, we were talking about our favorite class. We both like our fourth hour, which we happen to both be in the same class for. I said "Yeah, it's got a great group of kids that aren't annoying, and the teacher is amazing." and he replied 'Yep. and your in it. " Isn't that ADORABLE?!

Also, today we were talking about how people keep on bothering us on "How cute we look together" and "Has M asked you out yet?" and "When are you going to ask out O?[me]" So obviously he likes me, and I like him. Why do you think he hasn't asked me out yet? Do you think that he's not allowed to have a girlfriend?

I think he does like you, and that he really does want to ask you out.
He's probably to shy to though, and doesn't want a big buzz at school.

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~Lana ♥

[bast,]

Anybody remember me? Anyways, I got my crushes number, and we've been texting non-stop since. Well, there are some highlights from the texting I'd like to ask some stuff about.

Okay, so I told him that I was having a sleepover, so in the morning, he texted me asking how I slept. All of my friends thought this was adorable. I know he likes me, so what do you think?

Today, before the next thing, we were talking about our favorite class. We both like our fourth hour, which we happen to both be in the same class for. I said "Yeah, it's got a great group of kids that aren't annoying, and the teacher is amazing." and he replied 'Yep. and your in it. " Isn't that ADORABLE?!

Also, today we were talking about how people keep on bothering us on "How cute we look together" and "Has M asked you out yet?" and "When are you going to ask out O?[me]" So obviously he likes me, and I like him. Why do you think he hasn't asked me out yet? Do you think that he's not allowed to have a girlfriend?

I think he does like you, and that he really does want to ask you out.
He's probably to shy to though, and doesn't want a big buzz at school.

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~Lana ♥

[You seem to be "The" person to talk to here... x3]

That's probably a good guess. There's already a ton of gossip about us going around. We're not even that popular. In fact, there's more gossip about us, then there was about the two most popular people when they started going out... e3e

Anyways, do you think I should ask him over text? I don't want to seem like it's not a big deal, but I just can't ask him in person.
We're pretty open with eachother, and can practically talk about anything, so I don't know why I'm having trouble. Do you think he'd mind if I ask him over text?

Then there's my friend, who keeps on telling me it's "Traditional" for the guy to ask the girl... >3<

[Lanana]

Anybody remember me? Anyways, I got my crushes number, and we've been texting non-stop since. Well, there are some highlights from the texting I'd like to ask some stuff about.

Okay, so I told him that I was having a sleepover, so in the morning, he texted me asking how I slept. All of my friends thought this was adorable. I know he likes me, so what do you think?

Today, before the next thing, we were talking about our favorite class. We both like our fourth hour, which we happen to both be in the same class for. I said "Yeah, it's got a great group of kids that aren't annoying, and the teacher is amazing." and he replied 'Yep. and your in it. " Isn't that ADORABLE?!

Also, today we were talking about how people keep on bothering us on "How cute we look together" and "Has M asked you out yet?" and "When are you going to ask out O?[me]" So obviously he likes me, and I like him. Why do you think he hasn't asked me out yet? Do you think that he's not allowed to have a girlfriend?

I think he does like you, and that he really does want to ask you out.
He's probably to shy to though, and doesn't want a big buzz at school.

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~Lana ♥

[You seem to be "The" person to talk to here... x3]

That's probably a good guess. There's already a ton of gossip about us going around. We're not even that popular. In fact, there's more gossip about us, then there was about the two most popular people when they started going out... e3e

Anyways, do you think I should ask him over text? I don't want to seem like it's not a big deal, but I just can't ask him in person.
We're pretty open with eachother, and can practically talk about anything, so I don't know why I'm having trouble. Do you think he'd mind if I ask him over text?

Then there's my friend, who keeps on telling me it's "Traditional" for the guy to ask the girl... >3<

Aha, I just like helping out. ^^ lol.

Hmm.. I personally think that it's alright for a girl to ask a guy.
I mean, it's not against the law.. well, it isn't here, at least. lol.

And yeah, it should be fine if you ask him over text.
I find it better over that, instead of face to face...

Maybe your friend is just wanting a little bit of adventure.
She may end up asking a guy out, since he might be to shy.

If I were in this situation, I would probably text him nicely
and ask him if he's okay, and if he'd like to go out sometime.

If you don't sound too nervous and you're not too hard on him,
then it should be fine. [: But it might not work for every boy,
I personally haven't been in that situation. I'm haven't been put
in that situation before, but it seems like the right thing to do.
Especially if he's as sweet as you explain he is, then it's good. ^^

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~Lana ♥