Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[Arkas]

There's your answer ^-^

[garnet.]

but i love connor a lot too

[ohbreezey]

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So right now, I'm having a freaking love problem. I'm still not over my ex, and I am suddenly thinking of my exex to build self confidence when I run with my track team. I've talked with my Bestfriend, who says that I should go back to the exex, let's call him C. Except my mind's telling me to go with my ex. Let's call him Bay. My friend stated, after I stated that C jumps from girl to girl...: "C is just trying to find the one, jumping from girl to girl when he doesn't realize that it's right in front of his face." and then she went on and on how her sister's boyfriend, H, was really sweet to her sister and her, and then I was just like: "Do you know how much I want Bay to be like H?" and she said: "100%" and I was like: "99.9, because if it was 100, Bay wouldnt have the personality that make him Bay. <3" and she was like: AWEEEE."

So yeah. And when I text C, he usually only replies back one word or one letter, when I type like, a few sentences. -facepalm- I am so confused about what to do here.

Advice?[/quote]

[EpicEquestrian]

If you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second.

Listen to Johnny Depp!

I see what you did there.

And it is good advice.

[Lanana]

There's this guy I kind of like..
More information is below here.

C = Best Friend /female
L = Older friend /female
W = My Crush ouo /male
J = Crushes friend /male
S = Crushes bestie /male
Sr = Crushes friend /male
T = Crushes brother /male
M = Another friend /female

Btw, M is a new person.

I've known her for ages,
but she's not introduced
until the quoted post. [:

Okay.. now for the story.. here it goes.

C and I are on facebook chatting to each other in private message, and we're talking about random stuff. We;re talking about W, and then she tells me that he added her on facebook. Blushing, I tell her he hasn't added me yet. Then she tells me, "Add him then!" and I say, "No, I don't want to!". But I do.. I'm just to shy. So she sighs, and asks me if I want her to message him and tell her that I want him to add me. I say no, since he'll think I'm a weirdo. J told him that I like him, since J is a really good guy friend of mine. C likes him, and he knows it. But used to like her a little bit.. no he doesn't. Anyway, C and I are having this conversation, about this. Then I say I have to go, and we both log off. The next day, she rings me and tells me to go on facebook. So I do, and see I have a friend request from W. I tell C, and she teases me. Slightly embarrassed, I say that he didn't do anything else. Soon, I discover he tagged me in a picture, along with S, Sr, and I think J as well. I check, and the tag says something like, 'always stressed'. I remove myself, since I was quite popular that year and believe me, I do not get stressed easier. Then, I carry on talking to C, and then J comes on. C quickly goes offline, and I talk to J, about random stuff. He doesn't tell me anything about W, luckily, and doesn't mention him at all. Last time we had an awkward conversation about him, and he said that W had said that I was cute. Anyway.. soon, he goes offline, and I ring C back and she comes on. So we're talking, and then she has to go off again. -- ABout a week ago, C and I are at a new school, which is an all girls school. And W, J, S and Sr are still at the old school. C and I probably won't see them again, unless they ended up going to the all boys school down the road from out school. SO anyway, I tell J that I'm coming to see their class in our school holidays since they will still be at school, and C and I have planned to walk in and just pretend we've come to see the teacher and our friend in the class they're in {their teacher used to be our teacher once}. So he says okay, and then logs off. Six weeks later, L {who is older then me} comments on my wall on the school website that Fred is a human {Fred is a random drawing on her hand, which I think is a potato} and she says that T {W's brother} almost punched someone to say that Fred is a Person. I said that Fred is a potato, as usual, and then logged off. Then, I go back on facebook about a week later, and message W saying this; "Just out of interest, did your brother almost punch your face to make you say Fred is a human?" So now I cant go on on facebook until Easter {it's some celebration, PM me if you need to know about it} and I"d like some advice on my reaction.

If he says 'yeah', and then something else, I'm not sure what I should do. If he says 'no', I'm not sure what I should do. If he randomly says 'I like you', then I definitely have no idea what to do. Do I tell him I like him too, or just leave it.. and react how? Thank for all advice.

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~Lana ♥

I just asked L who T punched, and she said his brother. So I asked which one, and she said younger.. which is W. Then today {that talk with L was like four days ago} I was walking home with my friend, M. We were kind of 'gossiping' a bit, about what some boys told her at our old school. This girl had betrayed all of the older girls and told three boys our secrets. Aaaand M told me that the girl then got the boys to spread the word. So our secrets were all spread.. and I was so surprised and disappointed. Then, M told me all the people that had a crush on my last year.. which was over six. That included W, S, Sr, and a little bit of J {by the way, M is J's sister}., Rest to come soon.

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~Lana ♥

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[Cokeyote]

M has a dA account and that basically means he can stalk me to make sure I don't do anything stupid. He sent me notes on there that made me fight tears.

M: Are you going to be alright over spring break?
Me: Hopefully
M: People care about you, including me. Just remember that. Ok?
Me: okay
M: Can you at least promise me you won't do something stupid over the break?
Me: Yes
M: Say you promise, I mean it... you do something stupid... I'll do something stupid....
Me: I promise I won't do anything stupid.
M: Thank you... I am only going to say this in text, not in person, but you mean alot to me. I don't know what I'd do without you, your just a really cool person. Don't ever think different.

I wanted to cry so hard right when he sent me that one... I feel so selfish. I'm lucky he's alive right now. Yet, I'm always falling in a downward spiral .... I can't explain things.

[Doctor! Really...?]

it's driving me crackers!!!

^ Sorry but lolol, that made me giggle.


Anyway, question: Is it appropriate/acceptable, when spending the night at the home of your boyfriend/whathaveyou, to ask to use the shower? I don't want to impose or waste water, but I start to look (and feel) really grody if I don't bathe every morning.

Strange question is strange.

Thanks a lot. By any chance, do you live in America or near it?

[Doctor! Really...?]

ANYWAY.... found out I was wrong, my crush doesn't like me anymore. And I'm moving in a week exactly, out of area... And I'll probably never see him again.

[Chirai]

Smart idea, Amour. XD i hope you don't mind if i borrow the idea.

M- Me
T- The guy me and C like
C- My friend who thinks she is, but she is my worst enemy
Ma- Some guy who has a crush on me and stalks me >.<

So, i like T and so does C. I met T not so long ago, and so did C, since T is a year younger and we just met in orchestra and C sits next to me in orch. And he sits to the other side of her >.<

So, T is really funny, somewhat flirty to the girls, but to any girl, not just one, and does it in a good way, and i just wanna die with happiness when he looks at me <3

So, both C and i like him, but since i will problably never see him in 4 years, since i am going into high school, i plan on giveing him my number and HOPING that he will actually text me. But i never really see him, and when i do, its in orchestra, which C is in my class. Do you think i could possibly give it to him a Hawaiian Falls, which is a place the whole orchestra go at the end of the year, with a chance that he is not going and C might not notice, or at the Spring concert, which i know for sure he will be there and C will see?

Keyword for me is Mangos so i can find this again >.<

[peachie.]

I had a dream. It was so strange, but I think my mind is trying to tell me something about the two most important guys in my life. Here is a table to let you know who is who;

D - my boyfriend/faded best friend/male
R - my best friend/male
J - my boyfriends best friend/male
N - a guy who gets in trouble a lot/male

R and I were hanging out. He was skateboarding and I was walking beside him down this old, quiet street. To our left was this chain fence and we saw around three kids huddled there watching us. I made out some of the people; D, J and N. R and I continued on because they didn't call us over or even say a word. After we kept going for a little while they stopped us. They had skateboards also.
D challenged R to a skateboard trick contest. So We went to the skatepark and they started the competition. It was strange seeing the do tricks just to beat the other. Because the thing is, they count each other as best friends. I stood there and watched the whole time and felt that somehow this was over me.
/then I woke up/

Could I get some help please? What do you think my mind is trying to tell me about these two?