amour. wrote:Could I please get some adivce or help?
My boyfriend D and I met yesterday. We talked a little but it wasn't much. We hung out for like ten minutes then he had to go home because his parents were making lunch.
I am afraid. I think we ruined our friendship by dating. I love him and all but still... we hardly talk now and it's akward. We used to talk 24/7 now we practically avoid each other. Some people call him a player and such, but he isn't. They don't know him enough to call him that.
I cant believe I am saying this but in the back of my mind I am thinking about ending it. I just want my best friend back. But I have already ended one relationship this year and also I love him so much. I care about him until the ends of the earth and this is the first guy I really care about that I am dating.
There is a dance on friday and I am going. D and I slow dance at the dances, that's when I really feel a connection with him.
Do you guys know anything I could ask to make conversation with him to get through those akward silences?
Oh wow. I feel so bad for you! I had that happen to me last year with my best friend, Trev. He lives across the street from me and our families have been friends for a long time. I ruined it all last year by asking him out. He's gotten over it since then but I miss our closeness. I know how you feel. I wish I could go back and stop that from happening..

As for your dance friday, good luck. Make small talk to fill the empty silence. Just trust your gut to say what you feel is right.
