Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[Lanana]

Hi everyone. ^^ Okay, so as you'd probably known, I have never seen this thread before. But I found it while looking at the "General Discussion" board, so I though it could be interesting, and maybe I could ask for some advice. I'm not quite sure how this works, so could I maybe "introduce" the people, and then tell the story?

C = Best Friend /female
L = Older friend /female
W = My Crush ouo /male
J = Crushes friend /male
S = Crushes bestie /male
Sr = Crushes friend /male
T = Crushes brother /male

Is that alright? Can I explain the story now? ouo Thanks.

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~Lana ♥

[Roonil Wazlib]

I must use this line someday... x3

lol!! Amazing!!

[Arkas]

Ok, so... I sorta need some advice here. My boyfriend is almost always has another girl by his side or one of his guy friends but....everytime i try to talk to him one of his friends interupt and i just dont know what to do anymore..Girls are always flirting woth him and im not sure how much longer i can stand it? Its not jelously just concern he'll leave me for someone beter, im not gunna lie, im a little fluffy and all these other girls wear makeup and thier hairs perfect and thet dress better. I just dont know anymore please help...
He tells me he loves me and kisses me bye but does it mean it?

[Lanana]

Hi everyone. ^^ Okay, so as you'd probably known, I have never seen this thread before. But I found it while looking at the "General Discussion" board, so I though it could be interesting, and maybe I could ask for some advice. I'm not quite sure how this works, so could I maybe "introduce" the people, and then tell the story?

C = Best Friend /female
L = Older friend /female
W = My Crush ouo /male
J = Crushes friend /male
S = Crushes bestie /male
Sr = Crushes friend /male
T = Crushes brother /male

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~Lana ♥

Okay.. now for the story.. here it goes.

C and I are on facebook chatting to each other in private message, and we're talking about random stuff. We;re talking about W, and then she tells me that he added her on facebook. Blushing, I tell her he hasn't added me yet. Then she tells me, "Add him then!" and I say, "No, I don't want to!". But I do.. I'm just to shy. So she sighs, and asks me if I want her to message him and tell her that I want him to add me. I say no, since he'll think I'm a weirdo. J told him that I like him, since J is a really good guy friend of mine. C likes him, and he knows it. But used to like her a little bit.. no he doesn't. Anyway, C and I are having this conversation, about this. Then I say I have to go, and we both log off. The next day, she rings me and tells me to go on facebook. So I do, and see I have a friend request from W. I tell C, and she teases me. Slightly embarrassed, I say that he didn't do anything else. Soon, I discover he tagged me in a picture, along with S, Sr, and I think J as well. I check, and the tag says something like, 'always stressed'. I remove myself, since I was quite popular that year and believe me, I do not get stressed easier. Then, I carry on talking to C, and then J comes on. C quickly goes offline, and I talk to J, about random stuff. He doesn't tell me anything about W, luckily, and doesn't mention him at all. Last time we had an awkward conversation about him, and he said that W had said that I was cute. Anyway.. soon, he goes offline, and I ring C back and she comes on. So we're talking, and then she has to go off again. -- ABout a week ago, C and I are at a new school, which is an all girls school. And W, J, S and Sr are still at the old school. C and I probably won't see them again, unless they ended up going to the all boys school down the road from out school. SO anyway, I tell J that I'm coming to see their class in our school holidays since they will still be at school, and C and I have planned to walk in and just pretend we've come to see the teacher and our friend in the class they're in {their teacher used to be our teacher once}. So he says okay, and then logs off. Six weeks later, L {who is older then me} comments on my wall on the school website that Fred is a human {Fred is a random drawing on her hand, which I think is a potato} and she says that T {W's brother} almost punched someone to say that Fred is a Person. I said that Fred is a potato, as usual, and then logged off. Then, I go back on facebook about a week later, and message W saying this; "Just out of interest, did your brother almost punch your face to make you say Fred is a human?" So now I cant go on on facebook until Easter {it's some celebration, PM me if you need to know about it} and I"d like some advice on my reaction.

If he says 'yeah', and then something else, I'm not sure what I should do. If he says 'no', I'm not sure what I should do. If he randomly says 'I like you', then I definitely have no idea what to do. Do I tell him I like him too, or just leave it.. and react how? Thank for all advice.

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~Lana ♥

[Roonil Wazlib]

@Lana Bear-
How well do you know him? Are you sort of distant, or really close?

[paradox.]

Ok, so... I sorta need some advice here. My boyfriend is almost always has another girl by his side or one of his guy friends but....everytime i try to talk to him one of his friends interupt and i just dont know what to do anymore..Girls are always flirting woth him and im not sure how much longer i can stand it? Its not jelously just concern he'll leave me for someone beter, im not gunna lie, im a little fluffy and all these other girls wear makeup and thier hairs perfect and thet dress better. I just dont know anymore please help...
He tells me he loves me and kisses me bye but does it mean it?

How long have you been together? If girls have been ALL over him every day and hes still with you even if you're not perfect I think thats real love right there. If he didn't like you in the first place do you think you guys would be dating? You should trust your boyfriend and if you don't think you spend enough time together try spending time with him. He hangs with his guy friends try hanging with them too if you can take perverted jokes and talks of video games x.X So what if those girls seem completely perfect to you? To him your perfect which is why you two are together. So yeah I think he does mean it.

Don't be afraid to scream out to the world that hes your boyfriend and he is amazing >:D

[Arkas]

How long have you been together? If girls have been ALL over him every day and hes still with you even if you're not perfect I think thats real love right there. If he didn't like you in the first place do you think you guys would be dating? You should trust your boyfriend and if you don't think you spend enough time together try spending time with him. He hangs with his guy friends try hanging with them too if you can take perverted jokes and talks of video games x.X So what if those girls seem completely perfect to you? To him your perfect which is why you two are together. So yeah I think he does mean it.

Don't be afraid to scream out to the world that hes your boyfriend and he is amazing >:D

:P

Im not afraid to admit it, but thank you for your advice. Our relationship is sorta complicated though, we were just friends at first, but his sister,told him to ask me out a couple weeks before he did.Its been 3 weeks and 5 days since we've been going out, though. And i already tried hanging out w/ his friends no offense but thier really bad about teasing me about us doing certain stuff if you get what im saying, we never did i swear but apperently they think differently?.... :P But i can deal w/ video game talk im a huge gamer :D One of the many things i have in common ;)

[Lanana]

@Lana Bear-
How well do you know him? Are you sort of distant, or really close?

Hmm.. can I ask how you mean by that?

If you mean as friends.. while, we act like we despise each other, but he always used to sit next to me.
If you mean how distant our schools are.. his is a few streets, east to walk to from my school. lol. [: Yeah.

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~Lana ♥

[DragonLoverHere]

Okay, I just met the sweetest guy at track! I will call him E.
So, first track night; He bikes up, a cute blonde with stunning blue eyes. Though out practice, I couldn't help but compete with him a bit <3 Sure, E beat me every time, but he seemed to notice....
Second practice; I try to get to know him a bit. We say hi, give each other tips, just get a little friendly.
Third; After practice, he could have biked home. My mom was running late, though. He stayed behind and we chatted, even though it was getting dark. I inquired why he didn't get going, and he just smiled and said he had biked home in the dark before, and it wasn't that bad. <333 So, I at this point feel a little weak in the knees for him. My mom pulls up, and I get in and say bye. He then gets on his bike.
Forth; After practice, I was waiting for my dad. He was late, and I spotted E straightening a bike tire. I went over and helped. After that, we spent a while talking about our lives. He insisted I get an email, he didn’t say why, though. So, as we were talking, it was getting dark again. He didn’t mind, though. Actually, as we were talking, there was a pigeon that flew over and landed in an old broken vent system on the storage shed we were by. Another pigeon stuck its head out, and we heard chicks! He smiled and said he would bring some bread to feed them next time we came. He actually said bad bread, then stumbled on himself and said quickly he meant old stale, and he didn’t mean that he wanted to hurt them or anything <33333 Is that cute, or what?
So, I really warmed up to this guy, and it’s only the first week! I can’t wait to see him again…. He is so cute and sweet! Any advice as to how I can find out if he has a thing for me?

[fly away.]

Have you ever wanted to not wake up because you really liked the dream you were dreaming? This has only happened to me once, and it was the only dream I've ever had about a boy. Then, this year, when I came to school. There he was. He was practially the guy from my dream. Played guitar. Blonde hair. Green eyes. Understood me. Cared about me. LOVED me. I dated him for two months. And I still like him, because he really is my dream boy. He's humorous, serious, loving, caring, lazy, a skateboarder, a guitar player, romantic, tall, blonde, green-eyed. He's... everything I want in a guy.

What do I do?

Help?