Belle's Advice Column!!!

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Re: Belle's Advice Column!!!

Postby .Arrow. » Sun Feb 07, 2010 7:24 am

Don't fret about not having a BF for your Valentine's Day Dance. Just hang out with your friends and have fun! Sure, it'd be nice to have a BF, but it shouldn't be a priority in your life right now. Where I live, people don't start dating until they're grades 10-12, rarely younger than that. You've been friends with him awhile, so maybe if he does like you he still doesn't wanna go out with you because it could wreck your friendship. Don't prioritize a boy over your marks, if you can get into better classes, go for it. Chances are, this boy won't be a major part of your future, would you want to wreck your chances at a good college or university just for a boy? If you and him are really good friends it shouldn't matter if you're not in all of the same classes, you can still hang out and talk outside of school or during breaks and lunches. Remember, this is a school crush, and the people around you are going to change as they get older, including you. Chances are you're not going to like this boy in a few years or even a few months.

If he really likes you, and doesn't have a GF, he'll ask you out. Especially if he knows you like him. If he does, that's awesome. If he's just broken up with a girl he really liked, let him get over her first. And do not get a friend to ask him out for you, it doesn't make you look good.

Hopefully this helps and everything works out, and I do speak from my own and my friends' experiences here. :)


EDIT: Hun, I've never even had a BF before and it's not a big deal. I still go to all the dances and just hang out and dance with my friends. If him and his GF are off and on a lot, there's nothing you can do about it, especially if he really likes her. Just try and have fun, don't stress about tings that won't be important in a few years :)
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Re: Belle's Advice Column!!!

Postby charity5462389 » Sun Feb 07, 2010 11:23 am

thanks
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Re: Belle's Advice Column!!!

Postby .Arrow. » Mon Feb 08, 2010 12:22 pm

No prob


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Re: Belle's Advice Column!!!

Postby correlate. » Mon Feb 08, 2010 12:46 pm

animalswhispers wrote:Username:Animalswhispers
*Nickname: u can call me Ani
Good at giving advice?: in some areas, yes
Have a suggestion for the thread:seems good to me


I guess I can add one more...
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Re: Belle's Advice Column!!!

Postby ghostboy » Mon Feb 08, 2010 2:43 pm

We do enjoy fellow staff...
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Re: Belle's Advice Column!!!

Postby .Arrow. » Mon Feb 08, 2010 2:46 pm

lotustail wrote:We do enjoy fellow staff...


Yesh we do XD

It's always good to get more than one opinion, too XD Or, in this case, five opinions :D
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Re: Belle's Advice Column!!!

Postby ghostboy » Mon Feb 08, 2010 2:50 pm

Indeed it is.
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Re: Belle's Advice Column!!!

Postby Maryritai » Mon Feb 08, 2010 5:43 pm

YESH.Advice heroes unite *Puts on heroic music*.
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Re: Belle's Advice Column!!!

Postby Shai » Tue Feb 09, 2010 2:10 pm

I kind of need some advice...

These is this guy that I'm friends with, and I normally see him every Thursday, but I haven't for a while, and I'll in theory be seeing him this week. I have this other friend who has a crush on this guy, and she has been getting really mean to me about it, because the guy never even speaks to her, only to me... My other friends tease me about having a crush on this guy, and so do my parents, but I DON'T have a crush on him!!! I don't know what I should do...
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Re: Belle's Advice Column!!!

Postby .Arrow. » Tue Feb 09, 2010 3:13 pm

Dancer101 wrote:I kind of need some advice...

These is this guy that I'm friends with, and I normally see him every Thursday, but I haven't for a while, and I'll in theory be seeing him this week. I have this other friend who has a crush on this guy, and she has been getting really mean to me about it, because the guy never even speaks to her, only to me... My other friends tease me about having a crush on this guy, and so do my parents, but I DON'T have a crush on him!!! I don't know what I should do...


Try and tell your friend you don't like him, although that might not work. If she gets worse, like threatens you or does something then you'll want to get help probably from parents or an adult you trust. Try not to let the teasing from your friends and family bug you, 'cause they'll probably bug you even if you do convince them that you don't like him. Chances are that if you don't react to their teasing then they'll get bored of it and quit.

Not much I can really think of to help ya there, maybe someone else has a couple more ideas?
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