Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[Livalathia]

@black.wolf.101 - No problem :] Ah, see, in my eyes that isn't a huge problem x3 Mostly because in my school like half my grade in 6th grade was dating. But if you don't feel comfortable with it then just say no, and explain that you just don't want to date at the moment. That might help.

[arcticwolf]

Arcticwolf- if he is hurting you and u live him so much tell him if he hurts you anymore it's over...

Last year, my best friend told him those exact words. I sat there and watched her talk to him.
Granted, he stopped for a day.
The next morning, he was after me again.

;-;

@arcticwolf - I'm not sure that's being exactly 'playful'. At this point I would say hes being more abusive than anything...but i'm not sure you should stay with him even though you like him so much. But maybe you could talk to him about it?

I've tried to talk to him, too. I don't even think he heard half of what I was saying..


Sunday, me, my best friend and him are going to the fair. Maybe I can talk to him then.

I also have another problem. All of my friends hate him, and keep saying he's flirting with other girls. I don't believe them, because one of them has lied about it before. But I don't know how to make them stfu or ask him about it without making him think I can't trust him.

[sushii]

arcticwolf- Well, i know it is hard, because you love him, but the best thing is to end your relation ship. Who wants to be stuck with a guy who everyone hates, and who hurts you?

Sweet silver- lol yeah. I was thinking maybe a year or two i can start dating.

[arcticwolf]

If it helps, try listening to 'Love the Way you Lie Part 2" or looking up the lyrics. It describes our relationship perfectly, to the point it scares me. Maybe you guys can get a better understanding, then... I dunno.
"On the first page of our story,
the future seemed so bright.
Then this thing turned out so evil,
I don't know why I'm still surprised.
Even angels have their wicked schemes,
and you take that to new extremes
But you'll always be my hero
Even though you've lost your mind."

[sushii]

Arcticwolf- Awww... well, i would tell him almost exacly this: "Hey.. i am really sorry, but lately because you have been hurting me, i havent been loving you as much. I am sorry but i dont want to be kicked or.. or hurt anymore. I am realy sorry but its over" And yeah.

[Livalathia]

@arcticwolf - I would definitely try to talk to him when you go to the fair, and explain things a little bit to him. If he still doesn't listen..well at that point I would say to break it off with him. Really the fact is, if he liked you a lot he wouldn't be basically beating you up all the time.

@black.wolf.101 - Well its whatever you feel most comfortable with, and just explain that to him and say you aren't ready to date yet.


Onto my little problem x3.

Okay, so my ex-friends brother is like 6 years older than myself and we talk quite a bit, mostly because hes fun to talk to and he likes half the things I like. Now, I'm used to be around older guys than myself, and I tend to get along with them much better than guys my age [go figure x3] but anyways...he really does like me quite a lot. He makes it pretty clear with a lot of statements he makes, and I don't really mind it all that much but it sort of bugs me sometimes.
Hes pretty nice, but hes rather...perverted...with a lot of things, although since he knows I don't like when he acts like that hes normally pretty good about it. But he does flat all call me hot and stuff all the time when were texting or skyping. I don't mind the comments because its not like anythings going to happen with us anytime soon, or anytime for that matter. But still it can get a little awkward at times.

Does anyone else find this as weird as I do? x3 Mostly because hes so much older than me [I'm used to talking to guys only 3 years older than me xD] Now obviously i'm not going to do anything with him but my best friend is worried that I will...I mean he tries but i'm not stupid enough to do anything with him...
Also...I don't know...thoughts about it are welcome as well [xD]

[sushii]

Sweet silver- if you like him back at all, like you told me, give it a try! also yeah its kinda weird..

[arcticwolf]

Arcticwolf- Awww... well, i would tell him almost exacly this: "Hey.. i am really sorry, but lately because you have been hurting me, i havent been loving you as much. I am sorry but i dont want to be kicked or.. or hurt anymore. I am realy sorry but its over" And yeah.

But I'd be lying.
I do love him as much. We've been together nine months and my love for him grows stronger for him each day. {That sounded cheesy, my apologies}.
And, as I said, I'd like to talk things out with him being ended our relationship.

At least, he can't really hurt me, badly. A good portion of the school knows how he treats me, and I've had guys walk up to me & threaten to beat him up if he doesn't knock it off. :S


@ .:Sweet-Silver:.I will talk to him, and if I get nervous at the last moment {happens to me a lot} I'll make my friend force me.
I would defiantly try to help you out, but I'm really in no mood to answer problems today.</3 I'll try to make sure to stop back tommorow, though.

Thanks, everyone.

[sushii]

arcticwolf: Okay okay... well yeah, it also looks like some other guys are stepping up fer yah! Looks like yah got some lovey coveys around you,... ((THAT was cheesy... xD)

[CaliDutchess]

black.wolf.101 - Please don't ask for help twice in less than ten minutes, double post, and give away personal information. This is your first warning.