Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[arcticwolf]

My boyfriend was kicking me again today. :\ He stepped on my foot, too. At lunch he was, in general, being an ass.
I wonder where the line meets between being "playful" and being abusive.

[kimmy1479]

That sounds abusive to me.

[arcticwolf]

At least it's not even close to how bad it was last year. I would come home with bruises all over my body, and twice he sliced my hand open with his ruler.

I can take care of myself, though. I'm stronger than him and I can hold him down if I need to.

[sushii]

Hahaha AWSOME thread!

Here is my story and u need some advise on what to do...


There is this kid in my class named Marko. He was born in Egypt... Anyways... He is really cute and nice, but can be gross like most boys. Anyways, i was working on some work at school today. I wasnon the ground near a window ti the hall drawing a wolf on my Bristol board. My friends Mara, Chace, and Marko are outside the window. That's when Mara and Chace come in and tell me "Marko wants to go out with you"
I was so suprused. I don't even love him that much!!! Antwas, u told them to tell him "I dunno" do they did. Tine pasts and Mara comes back jn with Cahce. They ask Je what I answere and I say.... Well I didn't know. Everyone thinks we are dating now...

What should I do????!!!!!!

[kimmy1479]

Arcticwolf- That sounds horrible! Seriously. If this guy is physically hurting you in anyway I would dump him. Its not right.

[arcticwolf]

I know. I should, I would, but I can't.
I can't be away from him.
Every time he hurts me my heart breaks a little more, but I love him. He's my everything. I've tried.
T>T

[sushii]

Can someone help with my problem? Post above if you will.

[sushii]

Arcticwolf- if he is hurting you and u live him so much tell him if he hurts you anymore it's over...

[Livalathia]

@arcticwolf - I'm not sure that's being exactly 'playful'. At this point I would say hes being more abusive than anything...but i'm not sure you should stay with him even though you like him so much. But maybe you could talk to him about it?

@=]RainbowDash<3[= - Well, the easiest thing to do in that situation is just tell you think of him as a friend only, nothing more. Because if you dont say anything, your going to be leading him on. At least if you state that you like him as a friend only then the compliments may have a more 'friendly' tone to them. But either way I would tell him straight out.

@black.wolf.101 - Do you like him at all? If you do dateing him might not be a big problem, just try it out. If you dont like him what-so-ever then the best thing to do is give him a very gentle no to going out. It's the only way to get people to think you arent dateing.

[sushii]

Sweet silver- thanks!! And yeah I like him a bit.. But guess what the issue is? I'm only 11 and in grade six!!!