Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[Official-Enjolras]

Alright so my friend has a crush on this guy named Tyler, but I think he likes me because he made a big deal about Me saying I was going to the Iceplex and then me not going and I said "Like you care." and he just shrugged a bit and said "Better people to talk to anyways." but in 7th period he sat behind me and made constant conversation and he held my eye contact. I don't want to hurt my friend by telling her he likes me, because....well a lot of boys like me -.- Grrrrrr some need to stop liking me! I'mn getting annoyed now

[scourgestar4117]

ok, so NOW my boyfriend stuffed a note (i caught him doing so) into my locker and it said that he loves me and asked if i loved him.I dont want to say what i put, but heres my real problem: I dont think he likes me!How do i figure out if he's lieing?

[nikilynn12]

Ok so a few days ago me and my friends were talking and every single one of them is always saying "oh my gosh i want a boyfriend so bad!" All i say is ok then go find one and they start getting all giggly, im like oh my god everyone really does make a big deal of relationships dont they? Now that i am in high school i have to start figuring out what i am gonna do and major in when im in college, and thats the problem, between worrying about my friends and me and if boys like me and my studies and all this drama i think i came to the conclusion of not even dating at all. Like i mean seriously, its not like anyone likes me ( or will) anyway so why do i just keep up the hope that i could be the girl kissing her boyfriend in the rain. Hmm my friend like flipped on me and told me this is the best years of my life i have to take advantage of it. But is my desision a good one? with not dating? i really dont know what to do at this point.

[Cirque]

Elly - My best friend
C - Very attractive guy at my school that I sort of have a crush on, but until today, I had never talked to him before.
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So today at lunch, Elly and went to the lunch line for the cafeteria, and at the end of the line, C and his friends were there, and our friends were in front of them. Elly and I just went in line with our friends, in front of C. Well, when we did that, C was like,
"Woah, wooahh. You can't just come here and cut in line." [He was joking, of course] But he was only talking to me, not Elly, even though she had cut, too. He went on about for a couple minutes with me just standing there and staring at him with an 'are you serious?' expression on my face. A minute later, I was still standing in line and talking to my friends, when I felt someone tap my shoulder. I turned around, and C was standing with his arms crossed while staring off into space and trying to keep a straight face. When he saw me staring at him, he said, "It wasn't me! It wasn't me, I swear! It was him, he likes you! [as he points to his friend, a random guy I had never seen before] I swear to God, he likes you!" I looked at him skeptically, then shook my head, amused, and turned back around. About 45 seconds later, C started clapping really, really loudly. At first he just clapped behind me, then he clapped by my ear and I turned around to see C quickly cross his arms and pretend that it wasn't him.

[Darkest.Nation]

Ok so a few days ago me and my friends were talking and every single one of them is always saying "oh my gosh i want a boyfriend so bad!" All i say is ok then go find one and they start getting all giggly, im like oh my god everyone really does make a big deal of relationships dont they? Now that i am in high school i have to start figuring out what i am gonna do and major in when im in college, and thats the problem, between worrying about my friends and me and if boys like me and my studies and all this drama i think i came to the conclusion of not even dating at all. Like i mean seriously, its not like anyone likes me ( or will) anyway so why do i just keep up the hope that i could be the girl kissing her boyfriend in the rain. Hmm my friend like flipped on me and told me this is the best years of my life i have to take advantage of it. But is my desision a good one? with not dating? i really dont know what to do at this point.

Wanting to focus on academics and being independent is by no means a bad idea. Just let whatever happen happen, enjoy your school years, and if you meet a guy -- go for it. (:

[kimmy1479]

Grr.... Problem people!!! So I think this kid who is 5 years younger than me, has a crush on me. I can kinda tell by the way this ussually grumpy and mad kid goes out of his way to help me and stuff. Plus, hes kinda an open book.

The BIG problem however, is that his older brother ALSO has a crush on me.(This I know for fact. Because he told me a year ago, then walked away, and though we never talked about it, he, like his brother is an open book) I don't like either of them, and I am not gonna just come out and say it, but I just needed to let this out and ask for advice.

PS- Why do German people like me so much!??!

[nikilynn12]

Thanks for the advise Water for Elephants i have noticed you always give really great advise to everyone. Yeah i have thought about that and yeah i can say that i do get jealous when i see couples kissing or holding hands its just an automatic thing when u dont have a boyfriend or anyone like that. so yeah i am gonna try to see what happens......... hopefully something good happens!

[Shadow0290]

Okay...so. There's this boy - K - I've liked since like 5th grade. He knows I like him, and he told my friend he likes me, too. He said that he was going to ask me out, but he wants to 'wait for somewhere romantic' but we are both pretty much the shyest people in our grade, so we usually just try to avoid each other because we're so shy. He hardly ever talks in school, but he's really nice.We text eachother sometimes, but we don't really talk.
But my real thing is...should I just ask him out or would that be weird? I'm thinking a note or something...but I'm not so sure. So how should I? I'm so shy around him, I'm afraid I'll embarrass myself. Any suggestions or advice?

[F e a r l e s s.]

Hun, I'm going through the same exact thing! I wasthinking of asking out my crush of 3 years- N- but I wasn't sure how! Glad to knowim not the only brave girl out there! *high fives*

[East]

...
T is still going out with M.
But even my few friends think that when he breaks up with her, he's going to ask me out. But I've never had anyone ask me out. And he's so..amazing .__. Every single person loves him.
And he acts like he likes me. Always saying hi, and calling me out in the middle of class. Stealing my food, laughing, and encouraging me. Whenever he gets the chance he touches me. Today, he came up behind me while I was standing and started playing with my hair.
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