Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[Darkest.Nation]

Okay, he's probably bottom bass. Then yes, offer to carry it for him, or trade instruments. (: (I must warn you, that bass drum is one hell of a load to carry. (:)

Just text "What's up?" or something like that.

[Prussia]

Okay, he's probably bottom bass. Then yes, offer to carry it for him, or trade instruments. (: (I must warn you, that bass drum is one hell of a load to carry. (:)

Just text "What's up?" or something like that.

Thanks! I'll try that! Also, just a random question, what do you play? x'D

B obviously doesn't get on facebook much so it might be a while until he messages back.

[CaliDutchess]

You have GOT to be kidding me... This is both a good and bad thing.
I was hanging out with D today when I told her about IL and TG. D said that A is only trying to be like his older brother, M, who broke up with his girlfriend of 10 or 11 months because he wanted a break and then dated (and still is dating) his ex one week later. Even T agrees A is only trying to be like M. Also, D said that A doesn't have feelings for a lot of people, but he did for me. I think he may still like me. Well, when I know more I'll fill everybody in.

[Darkest.Nation]

Okay, he's probably bottom bass. Then yes, offer to carry it for him, or trade instruments. (: (I must warn you, that bass drum is one hell of a load to carry. (:)

Just text "What's up?" or something like that.

Thanks! I'll try that! Also, just a random question, what do you play? x'D

B obviously doesn't get on facebook much so it might be a while until he messages back.

The boy might be tired -- MB is tiring after all, even if you don't have practice that day.

I play the boards (marimbas, xylos and vibes) in the pit/ Front ensemble.

[CaliDutchess]

@Water For Elephants - Don't spam. Talk about instruments and band can be taken to PM. This will be your warning.

[anarchy, inc.]

-Cali
It seems to be good.

S was very nice today. I told him I'd need luck (via text) for my grueling soccer practice today, and ^^he sent me a smiley face and a good luck. He always sends me s lot of cure faces.
I'm pretty sure ^^he knows I still like him now. ^^he had thought I was ignoring him and didnt like him anymore, neither of which are true.

[mukade]

How do you know if someone likes you?
My crush always acts sweet to me, plus today we had a argument over a movie we were watching in class then over who made more sense, it went on forever until it was almost time to go home x3

[East]

No suggestions?

[starstream<=]

uggghhh major problems you wouldn't believe.
is it really bad when you tell him the truth? maybe i said too much...

ok, so, here we go.
my boyfriend, his name is sawyer, and i have been dating about four months. he's a sophomore and i'm a junior, so we don't see each other much during the school day other than the three minutes between classes, lunch, and one study period on monday and wednesday(though he usually kind of does schoolwork the entire time with some of his classmates).

a very big thing about sawyer.
he's phlegmatic. he's so chill and easy going it's almost weird, but he's a hardworker and an all around good guy. the thing is...
he doesn't talk much.
it's kind of a miracle we even started talking, but i actually went to school with him for three years in elementary, and somehow during the time we had driver's ed together, we swapped phone numbers and started texting and hanging out like crazy. and then eating together at lunch and saying hi in the hallways.
another important thing is that my school is rather small. ok, very small by public school standards. this year there are are about 81 of us, and last year 76. so when something happens, everyone knows.
we started dating about two months after talking and were doing good.

until about three weeks ago when school started again.
now that we hardly see each other, everything has been so strained. even when my entire school went on a three day retreat and we saw each other every morning and night, something just didn't feel right.
we can't seem to talk about stuff as much, all my jokes fall flat, and i can't seem to make him laugh or even smile, really.
and when we're sitting or walking together, he doesn't hardly look at me or hold my hand or anything anymore. i almost feel like he doesn't even care that i exist.

but back to the not talking thing. he's the kind of quiet one in the group, rather shy, and is okay with that, but in a relationship you have to have communication and he just won't tell me if something i do bothers him, make decisions (or help me make decisions) that affect our relationship, or open up to me about his problems. i've told him everything about me, but it seems like i'm almost shut out.
i'm not the pushy type, and i'd never bully or nag him into telling me things. and i'm not the best at conversation either, but with him it used to always be so easy.

he says he still loves me and that i make him happy, but i'm the kind of person who has to see it to believe it and he's not coming through. i told him all of this during lunch today because i've always been very honest about my feelings with him. he kind of gave me a blank face, i still don't know what it meant. after that i kind of left him alone and since one of my classes was canceled, my friend and i went out and got ice cream and talked about all of this too, i just feel like i need more advice.

it feels like something has changed in our relationship, and i'm not sure exactly what. i just know it's not very good.
any idea what could be wrong?

[riley.∞]

Okay, so I'm really confused 3:
There's this guy in my class, let's call him W. I used to really like him but I don't think I do anymore.
Ever since I started secondary school, people in my year (for you Americans I'm in 9th grade haha) have always thought we're perfect for each other (although I dismiss it sometimes), and here's why, I think anyway;
~we get along so so well
~we text alot
~we talk a lot
~we're like perfect heights
~close friends
~both class reps
~occasionally flirt methinks;]
~people say things hehehe
But nowadays I wonder if I think about him as more of a friend or not..so naow I'm confused. I care for him a lot and get peeved if he doesn't text back. Help anyones? D: