The Love Doctors <3 Advice for Your Love Life! (V.2)

[dooze]

hello! I am looking for some love advice.

Last week I started a two week sailing program and of course, I had to of met the guy of my dreams, who is my age, very kind, funny, and everyone loves him.
I'm afraid I may have a bit of competition or he's just playing hard to get ;) "B" is so funny, I sat in a baby swing and he began to push me (lol).

Tomorrow, I'm going to ask if he has a Facebook. If he doesn't, I'll ask for another way for us to stay in contact.
On Friday, our last day, if I can get some help, I may tell him I like him. I'm afraid for the response.
Can anyone come up with some ideas to help me put?
Thanks :)

[Hoot]

@Berrynose: You sound like one of my friends, who met a guy she liked on a church trip. You just have to be confident. Here's a trick that helps boost self-confidence: when you get nervous, pull your shoulders back and lift your head. It straightens your back and gives you a burst of confidence. Other than that, just try to read his body language and you'll be fine. Good luck :)

[Prussia]

I need some advice... There's this guy I really like but I've never talked to him before. I met him in marching band and he's a year older than me which means, he doesn't go to the same school as me but next year I'll be in his school. He's not really a guy that looks like he has a bunch of girls that like him. I'm not really sure if he's had a girl friend before. We see each other at marching band practice almost everyday of the week and sometimes we have fundraisers for our band on saturdays. I just don't know how to break the ice and start talking to him. I know he loves one of my favorite bands, Three Days Grace. I could ask one of my best guy friend (who also happens to be my ex) about him but I just don't know what I should ask. x'D My phone doesn't work so I can't ask for his number either. D: I don't have much time to speak to him at marching band practice but I may be able to walk up to him during our water break. Help?

-Prussia

[Dangitbobby]

I need some advice... There's this guy I really like but I've never talked to him before. I met him in marching band and he's a year older than me which means, he doesn't go to the same school as me but next year I'll be in his school. He's not really a guy that looks like he has a bunch of girls that like him. I'm not really sure if he's had a girl friend before. We see each other at marching band practice almost everyday of the week and sometimes we have fundraisers for our band on saturdays. I just don't know how to break the ice and start talking to him. I know he loves one of my favorite bands, Three Days Grace. I could ask one of my best guy friend (who also happens to be my ex) about him but I just don't know what I should ask. x'D My phone doesn't work so I can't ask for his number either. D: I don't have much time to speak to him at marching band practice but I may be able to walk up to him during our water break. Help?

-Prussia

On a side note I <3 Prussia ;D

Anyways, back to your advice. It is going to be a bit difficult, to hear what I am going to say. By what it seems it's that your in eighth and he is in ninth, correct me if I am wrong. It would be best to not date him this year, but get to know him more, then when you enter high school or of summer next year, be a bit more flirty and such. It's best not to date him this year due to the different schools, unless he lives close to you and you seem him often. That's the exception. Okay anyways enough of my thoughts to help you ^-^. It's best to talk to him first and not your friends talk for you. I know it can be a bit scary, but just talk to him. Try not to sound nervous, or shake a bit, (or whatever you do when your nervous) simply and calmly walk up to him during the water break and start a conversation about band or Three Days Grace. (love them ;D) Something you two have in common maybe ask him what other bands he likes, slowly branch off from what you know to get to know him better.

Hope this helped, post again or message me for further advice ^-^

~Slate

[Midnight Star.]

Okay, I need ADVISE.

I like this boy that used to be in my class <3 But know we're all going to different schools, I won'r see him that often. I mean, I will, his school is in the same area as mine.

He likes me. EVERYONE I know has said, even his sister. Problem is, he likes another girl as well (if he likes me).
It's a very long story, but I'll tell it for you guy's benefit.


Quite a while back (July ish) he asked me for a favour (on Facebook). I was like "lolwut" then "ooo favour "
The next day, at lunch, I ask him what he means. He says he wants me to ask out ^^ that girl for him. It's doomed, it's never going to work. But he's a sort of friend, so I say yes.
Few days/a week later, every says that I like him (I didn't like him at the time) because we are always talking and stuff.

One week later...
At our school, there are these things called zones. You go to a different one each day. At break of course. Skipping, Catch Your Uncle, all sorts. I was in zone.. 4? With that girl he likes :3 He's in zone 7. He comes out into the playground (zone 7 is just off the main playground) and looks at me. I have a 'lolwut did I do' face on. I hide behind the girl he likes. He comes over and I'm like
"Lolwut? I swear, I did nothing. You're in zone 7. What did I do?"
He said that *inserts good friend that is in same zone as him name here* knows about the favour. I say I swear I didn't tell her. He don't believe me. I ask his crush. She SHOULD back me up, she hates him like... I don't know.
She says she dunno because she has nothing to do with it.
FUUU
a) YOU'RE EVERYTHING TO DO WITH IT
b)You hate him
He leaves, I go to the water fountain where zone 7 is. I ask my friend that knows the favour. She said she heard me and him talking about it.

COUPLE OF WEEKS LATER...
It's almost the holidays and everyone is signing our shirts because we are leaving <3 (Yes I do like him by now)
Most of the boys of our class are playing football. They are still signing shirts though. I sign nearly everyone shirts, and still read back through them. I'm pretty sure my crush signed my shirt with "ur crazy"
I know I am <3


Well, that's my sticky situation. I have his number, but I have no credit and anyway, his sister might pick up
Advice? Any help will be appreciated <3
EDIT: Long post much? I'm sorry.OTL

[Darkest.Nation]

I have a question for you all.

So, you're restricting and blacklisting others that tried to HELP others? And why can't anybody give advice, just the staff members? I think you guys are just as helpful as the guys at the Crushes thread.

[Prussia]

I have a question for you all.

So, you're restricting and blacklisting others that tried to HELP others? And why can't anybody give advice, just the staff members? I think you guys are just as helpful as the guys at the Crushes thread.

I was thinking about that too. :\ You have a good point.

[Dangitbobby]

Honestly I don't know I was asked to give advice so I do, though I tend to give a lot of advice in Crushes, though I tend to be able to keep track better here with the few post flow. Though I love messages the best since it can be any kind of problem ^-^

[sapphire-rose]

I could use some crush advice. I'm really awkward with this sort of thing so I could do with a second opinion on what I should do. It would be much appreciated.

For about a year, I've gotten to know this boy named Chris and I really like him. We've had two classes together and during those moments I got to know him and I fell pretty hard. We could talk so comfortably and for the first time, I could be myself around a guy I had a crush on. We had a lot of things in common to talk about and he never made me feel uncomfortable. Unlike some guys.

For awhile I thought we had good chemistry. We made each laugh and there were times I could have almost sworn he might feel the same. He was one of the first in my class to get to know me. He would sometimes do something funny during class and smile mischievously at me as if to include me in on his joke. On the first day he sat in the seat next to me and stayed there for the rest of the year and when we had to draw names out of a hat for a project, he said he was glad I was chosen to be his partner. We would sometimes leave class together and I even tried to confess my crush to him on the last day but alas that fell through. I couldn't work up enough courage and we both had to leave for home.

So now it's four months later and and I haven't heard much from him outside of Facebook. Now I'm worried that I might have let my crush on him alter my view on things. Do guys act differently with girls that are just friends? I honestly can't tell what he sees me as and it's a tad frustrating. All I know is that he doesn't normally hang out with girls and that he's still single. I want to keep in touch with him but it hasn't been easy. So that's my story. I would love to see what you have to say. Hopefully the post isn't too long.

[leah<3]

Hi every1 if you can help me with a question or you need help with your love life post here

HERE IS MY QUESTION?
If you have had a boyfriend before but i wasnt really true when you thought it was and whenever someone asked you if youve had a boyfriend before you say no beacause you never thought it was true!!
So if youve never experiened love before and you really want to what do you do?
HERE IS MY SITUATION?
There is the boy that lives next door to me i have never spoken to him before but he nos who i am and of course i no he who is!
But he goes to another schooland hes is sorta popular but im not very popular i sorta am? Anyway his friend who goes to my school asked me out for him and i said no coz i thought he was joking? But if i went out with him everyone at his school would be gossiping about it and hes had two other previous girlfriends one o them went to my old primary school? But another thing is that one of my best friends who plays on my netball team that goes t his school likes him to and this other girl at his school to!!!!!

PLEAZ HELP ME WHAT DO I DO?????????????????????????????????????????????????