Crushes or boyfriends/girlfriends

[violacherry]

my crush is super cute and nice with blonde hair and is atheltic only problem is that he's older than me

[grim.]

I want/need some advice. I like a guy and everyone I know keeps telling me he likes me but I'm one of those people who wouldn't know someone liked me unless they outright told me they did, so here's the story.

Back in January I stayed back at the school with my best friend V to watch my soucin N's basketball game. While we were waiting for the game to start we started to play pingpong or just sat in the cafeteria paging through books and making fun of the pictures. Meanwhile there were these guys who took the pingpong table after we were done so we watched them play for a bit. Eventually one of the guys left and there was just the one left. He dragged V into playing pingpong with him and I went to the book cart to find this cool book called the Encyclopedia of Rock. It was behind this guy, and I was behind the cart, croushing down so it probably looked creepy. Anyways this guy turns around and looks at me and say "What're you doing?" I just say "Looking for a book." And he just shrugs, then V yells to me "Come play pingpong, he's cheating!" So I grabbed a book and joined V, using the book as a paddle. We still lost, and afterwards all three of us went outside and played on this huge snowpile. Me and this guy got into a kind of grappling match, trying to throw each other off the 'mountain'. We both fell down together. Eventually we all got cold and went inside, J went to get a drink and me and V went to the cafeteria. V just nudged me and said "You two were getting close." I laughed and then she had to go so it was just me and J. We mostly just played pingpong until N's game was over, then he went home, and I went home.

We didn't really talk much after that, every once in a while we would hang out, and somehow we became really good friends and spent a bunch of time together. We actually became really good friends after he dragged me into to Archery club. I was nervous at first, but I loved it there and we got to talk lots. (And he looks hot when he draws a bow.) Every once in a while when I was eating lunch with my friends I would look up and see him looking at me, but then he would just turn away real fast and talk to one of his friends. We usually went snowboarding on weekends until the snow melted, then me and my brother JS started going to J's house. Usually because JS wanted to chill out with J's brother T and I was too shy to go their house myself.

Eventually we started to skip classes together every once in a while, usually just hte last class and we would go to this nice field thingy that has tall grass and is sheltered in by trees. it's actually real private. Then we started to have grappling matches while we were out there. I lost every time, and then we started making 'crop circles' as J likes to call them. Basically after I lost a grappling match I would lay on his chest and we would roll around flattening the grass.

My friends reasons of why they think he likes me:
V's Reason: "He stares at you like you're food or something."
S's Reason: "He always tries to talk to you, but only when you're by yourself. I think he's scared of us."
JD's Reason: "His eyes kind of light up every time he sees you."
N's Reason: "He likes you. That's all I can say."
M's Reasoning: "I think he likes you, I've never seen him act like this before."

[Midnight_Shadow18450]

*Sighs* Going on holiday tomorrow... and I won't have internet. So I can't talk to Cub much until I get back (i'm taking my mobile phone with me so I can text but still. I'm gonna miss him. I haven't seen him since Friday. I might try and meet up with him the day after I get back.

Cub is so adorable sometimes ^_^.

We've been roleplaying over msn. Normally, i'm not a fan of RPing, but we roleplay with each other loads <3

[TubsDeGoat]

so i told dylan i dont feel good. and so he was like :i wanna come over and make you feel better!" and i told him not to because his bike is at my house and i wont let him walk here in the rain. and he said "dont make me go out and get my drivers licence just so i can see you." (that means a lot because he dosnt want one...he is prolly the most interesting 16 year old for choosing a bike over a car.) and so i told him i was taking a nap witch worried him because he knows i NEVER take naps unless im really really really really really tired, or super duper sick. so he is like "i havent stoped thinking about you sence you said you were taking a nap." and he said that is he had his bike he would be over here because he dosnt care if he gets sick one- becuase he wants to try and make me feel better and two- he thinks feeling sick feels good. xD so yeah.

(sorry for a ton of grammar and spelling errors prolly, when i dont feel good i cant spell and stuff)

[marimoon]

Need help to find out if stick likes me or not, if he does, then i'm sorry for punching his friend in his stomach, but IT was annoying the living F*** outta me. o.o scared.. very very scared...

TOD Is outta here! <3

[dddddonuts]

God. I can go on for hours.
Once your in love, you really do see an imperfect person perfectly.

My boyfriends name is Travis. He has blonde hair and blue eyes.
Travises dad was in the army when Travis was 10 years old. Travises mom was dating an abusive man while his dad was away. He also had to support 3 younger siblings at age 10 while his dad was away.

His dad never wrote to him while he was away. When he came back, all his stuff was repo'd because the mom never paid for it. All of his dads stuff was gone. And the mom cheated on him with the abusive man. His dad took Travis and his mentally handicapped little sister with him and they began traveling all across the southern portion of the country living out of a suit case.

Travis lived in Louisiana, Kansas, Texas, and Nebraska. Jumping back and fourth for years. They literally stayed in one town for approximately 2 weeks at a time. Travis got to the point he didn't want to get close to people because he was scared to end relationships and friendships. For years he went with not many friends because he moved around so much.

Finally it happened. Travises dad settled in the town just next to me here in Missouri. We go to school together and actually had a class together last year where I got the guts to get his number, which turned into us going to a concert and finally going out. <3 On the first date he kissed me and constantly called me pretty and beautiful. He even lifted me up and carried me several times. He was just so so so kind and courteous. <3 We were constantly holding hands and we were so comfortable around each other so fast. He even kept forcing me to wear his jacket, even though I wasn't all that cold.

His dad is mean to him. Travis can't even get his drivers license or a job because he has to stay home and take care of his mentally handicapped sister. I drive us everywhere we go. He lives in the middle of nowhere in the woods 20 minutes from where I live here in town.

When were together we constantly make every second together count. He has told me I was the best thing to happen to him in years. That made my heart melt. ^-^

Next year, in May, when he turns 18 he will move in with me and get away from that dreaded house and that unfit father. He will no longer have to deal with him and he will never have to see his mother again. I will finish my last year in high school while he works, then I will go to College. In the first or second year in College we will get an apartment together. We have already told each other we want to marry one another and have kids.

So there you have it! That is our long love story. The moral? High school love IS real love. Even having the worst life and not having anything to your name, someone will still be madly in love with you. I wouldn't care if he was broke and incredibly poor, I am so in love with him it doesn't matter.

OMIGOSH that's so sweet... but I still don't want to grow up and get mushy like that...

[Poison Reaper]

This boy that I went out with still loves me,{{We broke up}} and I absolutely do not. He purposely makes me jealous, and clings to people. He just texted me saying "I miss you.(:"

I really don't know how to respond. We haven't talked in about.... 2 months?
Advice on what to say to him please?

[anarchy, inc.]

How about:
Go away. (I don't feel for you that way anymore. I'm sorry you still do. But we had our time. It's over now. Please treat it like that.)

[DarkFireFox]

OMIGOSH that's so sweet... but I still don't want to grow up and get mushy like that...

haha oh hun you'll understand some day. The truth? Me and Trav had only had one bf/gf before each other but it was in middle school. I always thought guys were jerks and such. It's just that I always saw him go to to school sometimes so depressed when normally he is always laughing and having fun. I brought him a Cosmic brownie one day to cheer him up (they're his favorite ;3) and I pretty much forced him to be happy from then on .

I think the thing that people think is mushy is the fact I was the only one who seemed to really care. But one day when you find a guy that you think is sweet or cool you will want to make sure he remains happy at all costs.

Little story: He was sick once so I got some food and walked all the way up his mile long gravel road (since my car can't take it) to give it to him to make him feel better. it worked wonders.

[TubsDeGoat]

This boy that I went out with still loves me,{{We broke up}} and I absolutely do not. He purposely makes me jealous, and clings to people. He just texted me saying "I miss you.(:"

I really don't know how to respond. We haven't talked in about.... 2 months?
Advice on what to say to him please?

i had that same problem. just ignore him or face him in person and just say "we broke up for a reason, i dont like you, i dont wanna get back together no matter how hard you try to make me jealous or say you miss me. back of fi dont like you anymore." that is almost what i said to my ex. but it was at a dirtbike track infront of a crap lode of people and they were all like *twitch* "i would leave her alone" xD and he finally got it. after 3 months of grades dropping and him crying every night. but he still asks to hook up but i just tell him off. sence last time he asked me and i did tell him off he hasnt talked to me.