Crushes or boyfriends/girlfriends

[MyHamsterRanAway]

My crush's bestfriend asked me out T.T
I don't want his best friend i want him NO I will not go out with him he is fat and short T.T
I didn't want to be evil (I didn't reply)

[Darkest.Nation]

I don't have a boyfriend and have never had one, but I figured you guys would be best to help me out.

I have placed this and quoted it in "Younger People Seeking Advice From adults Post Here" thread, but I've only gotten two responses. So, here goes nothing. (Please PM me is you want to have a discussion or have questions, as opposed to just giving advice. Thanks. ^^)

I need helps mahself.

See, I am anxious as he**. I can't go anywhere without worrying someone I know is there, or if someone is looking at me. It drives me insane and it makes me hate myself and the world around me.

So, the point, is, I might, possibly, somehow, with the help of some really strange brain functions that go off-wire one day, say yes to a boy asking me out. I know plenty that want me as their girlfriend (I'm not bragging... It's annoying to have boys all over you) and I'm so anxious around them. When they look at me and say I have a beautiful face and that I'm really nice, I can't help but vomit a bit in my mouth and get a bit dizzy. I'm. So. Nervous.

And everytime I walk with my guy buddy (that wants to be my boyfriend so badly it's unbelieveable) and he looks at me, I nearly start crying. I'm not surw what's wrong with me, but I just hate... something.

[MyHamsterRanAway]

It is normal to be nervous around boys.Maybe thet represents such a pressure for you because you don't wanna hurt somebody?I don't know,really...

[Darkest.Nation]

Well, there's always the risk that I'll hurt a boy's feelings, whether in a relationship or not, but I don't think that's it. Thank you anyways. (:

[MyHamsterRanAway]

No problem

[CaliDutchess]

I might not hang out with B tonight. Things at home are hard, and I don't know if my parents will let me go out. They keep trying to choose my friends, and the only one they approve of I don't consider as a friend. Two of my best friends, B and D, are on my parents' bad sides just because they're older than me (by one grade) and B is a guy. They just told me I'm not allowed to be spending a lot of time with D anymore, and I don't even know what'd they'd restrict if they knew I was hanging out with B, and sometimes alone. They overreacted when I wanted to hang out with D and the "friend" this morning at 8:00 AM. My mom asked why we wanted to hang out that early, and I truthfully answered that D just got back from vacation was jet lagged. She woke up at 3 AM the previous day and was really bored, and she wanted to hang out with me as early as possible. That's when she said she talked with my dad and they both agree she's too old for me (again, only one grade ahead.) Plus, I stayed up all night for no reason now. There wasn't even anything to eat for breakfast but one small piece of toast (the end piece.) I usually eat around two peanut butter bagels. So, I'm now hungry, tired, angry, and sad. I also have have to wait about two and a half hours to hear from B, at the minimum. If they don't allow me to be alone with B (and maybe have D there) tonight, and if B doesn't tell me I shouldn't, I'm just going to go anyways and just leave my phone at home. I'll bring my iPod so I know what time it is and be back the normal time they expect me home. I'm just so done with them taking over my whole life because they're too overprotective to let me do what kids my age do. It's not like I'm planning on doing drugs, shooting somebody, having sex with some guy I just met that's way older than me, and then getting kidnapped by that guy. I just want to hang out and talk with two of the around ten true friends I have.

The point is, I may not hang out with B. I'll let you all know if anything new comes up.

[xXEmeryXx]

I'm so excited! C: I get to see my boyfriend Kevin friday. And sunday is our seven-month anniversary. <3 Kevin's mom decided she was gonna take him, all of his 6 siblings, and me to the movies. So I'm finally gonna get to Kevin's mom and his brothers and sisters. <3 I'm a little nervous, but he convinced me that I have nothing to worry about and they'll like me. I've only seen Kevin once this summer, when we were texting about it he said he was so excited that he was shaking. Cx Hes the most adorable thing ever, I just cant wait to see his gorgeous face and hold his hand again. <3

Daily Questions I missed but feel like answering:

He reminds me of a Tiger. Idk if thats because he really does, or if thats just because thats what I call him. C| He wants me to call him that because thats what Mary Jane calls Peter Parker. Hes a little nerdy, that one. <3 But I love it. Cx I guess the nickname is fitting though, even though hes very sweet and loving to me, he is a tough guy and has a short fuse with most other people, little things offend him, and he's gotten into a few fights. He's also quite protective of me, but he's confessed its only cause hes terrified of losing me. <3 He says I've tought him to be an overall more gentle and patient and understanding person, which makes me happy. C:

Its always amazing when we hang out together, we just make each other very happy and we talk and laugh the whole time. <3 We used to hang out after school once a week about.

The song that reminds me the most of him? That changes all the time, but our song will always be "You Had Me At Hello" by A Day To Remember. <3

I'm missing you so much, I'll say you died tonight-
Just so I can get to you before, the sun will rise.
I know these times are hard, and I feel this too.
None of that ever seems to matter when I'm holding you.

And I'm wasting away, away from you.
And I'm wasting away, away from you.

What have I gotten into,
This time around?
I know that I have sworn,
I'd never trust,
Anyone again, but I didnt have to.
You had me at hello. <3

And today's daily question:
I honestly dont feel at liberty to answer. xD

[peachie.]

I might not hang out with B tonight. Things at home are hard, and I don't know if my parents will let me go out. They keep trying to choose my friends, and the only one they approve of I don't consider as a friend. Two of my best friends, B and D, are on my parents' bad sides just because they're older than me (by one grade) and B is a guy. They just told me I'm not allowed to be spending a lot of time with D anymore, and I don't even know what'd they'd restrict if they knew I was hanging out with B, and sometimes alone. They overreacted when I wanted to hang out with D and the "friend" this morning at 8:00 AM. My mom asked why we wanted to hang out that early, and I truthfully answered that D just got back from vacation was jet lagged. She woke up at 3 AM the previous day and was really bored, and she wanted to hang out with me as early as possible. That's when she said she talked with my dad and they both agree she's too old for me (again, only one grade ahead.) Plus, I stayed up all night for no reason now. There wasn't even anything to eat for breakfast but one small piece of toast (the end piece.) I usually eat around two peanut butter bagels. So, I'm now hungry, tired, angry, and sad. I also have have to wait about two and a half hours to hear from B, at the minimum. If they don't allow me to be alone with B (and maybe have D there) tonight, and if B doesn't tell me I shouldn't, I'm just going to go anyways and just leave my phone at home. I'll bring my iPod so I know what time it is and be back the normal time they expect me home. I'm just so done with them taking over my whole life because they're too overprotective to let me do what kids my age do. It's not like I'm planning on doing drugs, shooting somebody, having sex with some guy I just met that's way older than me, and then getting kidnapped by that guy. I just want to hang out and talk with two of the around ten true friends I have.

The point is, I may not hang out with B. I'll let you all know if anything new comes up.

I know how you feel. Overprotective parents suck. Well good luck and I cant wait to hear from you again. :3

[TubsDeGoat]

I might not hang out with B tonight. Things at home are hard, and I don't know if my parents will let me go out. They keep trying to choose my friends, and the only one they approve of I don't consider as a friend. Two of my best friends, B and D, are on my parents' bad sides just because they're older than me (by one grade) and B is a guy. They just told me I'm not allowed to be spending a lot of time with D anymore, and I don't even know what'd they'd restrict if they knew I was hanging out with B, and sometimes alone. They overreacted when I wanted to hang out with D and the "friend" this morning at 8:00 AM. My mom asked why we wanted to hang out that early, and I truthfully answered that D just got back from vacation was jet lagged. She woke up at 3 AM the previous day and was really bored, and she wanted to hang out with me as early as possible. That's when she said she talked with my dad and they both agree she's too old for me (again, only one grade ahead.) Plus, I stayed up all night for no reason now. There wasn't even anything to eat for breakfast but one small piece of toast (the end piece.) I usually eat around two peanut butter bagels. So, I'm now hungry, tired, angry, and sad. I also have have to wait about two and a half hours to hear from B, at the minimum. If they don't allow me to be alone with B (and maybe have D there) tonight, and if B doesn't tell me I shouldn't, I'm just going to go anyways and just leave my phone at home. I'll bring my iPod so I know what time it is and be back the normal time they expect me home. I'm just so done with them taking over my whole life because they're too overprotective to let me do what kids my age do. It's not like I'm planning on doing drugs, shooting somebody, having sex with some guy I just met that's way older than me, and then getting kidnapped by that guy. I just want to hang out and talk with two of the around ten true friends I have.

The point is, I may not hang out with B. I'll let you all know if anything new comes up.

my freinds parents are like that. i know how lame it is. im the only one but like 2 other kids that they like and let her hang out with. she always wishes that she had my mom and dad becuase i just tell them in going out woth my freinds and ill be back by 8 and i just bike away. but it is kinda lame too. because i feel bad if i dont hang out with her because her parents wont let her out. i hope you can see h im, good luck! ill be hopin for ya!

[JamBlack]

@Emery - good choice of song!

Badger messaged me but I wasnt on He said he'd be on around 6ish tomorrow though

DQ - Its gone as far as a snog xD