The Love Doctors <3 Advice for Your Love Life! (V.2)

[petluver17]

sorry! didn't mean to spam right there wrong post! i am really sorry!!!

[steadyasthestars]

I have a crush on my best friend's brother. I see him all the time when I go around her house.

[Mysterious_Viking]

I have a crush on my best friend's brother. I see him all the time when I go around her house.

Are you looking for advice, or just stating your situation?

[Foi]

Okay. I changed my username just so I could talk about this kind of stuff without my friends who are active users knowing. I'm in quite the situation right now.

My friend, let's say 'one' had a boyfriend, and we'll call him 'two'. I never really noticed him before, but then I moved to a school he moved to, with my friend, one. They were still happily going out, and I started noticing him more. One walked home with me, and Two also lived down the road that I walked to get home. So we all walked together. One lived the closest, and she would go into her house to leave me and two walking together. I'd often stutter, and he would occasionally as well. We'd walk for about 50 meters and then he'd turn in to his street, leaving me alone.

This happened for a few weeks, and then, he dumped poor one. One and I continued walking together, and two walked with his friends. One would tell me about how she still liked him and all. Where one turned into her house, two's friends would turn into their house. Two would run across the road to me and we'd talk. We became friends. One day two told me he was thinking about asking one out again. I felt hurt, but I told him about how one still liked him and that he should go ahead.

The next day he asked one out and she said yes. For some reason I started longing for two. My heart ached when he wasn't around. After a month he dumped her and went out with someone else.

Then he dumped that someone, and is now single.

My heart doesn't ache for him anymore, but I can't get him out of my head.

I think he likes me too. It's just the way he looks at me that makes me certain that he does.

I know I'll never have the guts to ask him out, but I dream of him asking me out. And he has been about to ask me something and his friends interupt.

But what if he does ask me? Should I say yes to my friends's ex? It's so confusing and I feel so torn. Please help.

Also sorry if the end posts twice, my iPod won't let me scroll down to see what I've written.
Yes, I wrote all this on my iPod touch. XD

Thanks!
Sun dappled

[BPeppers]

I know there's a lot of relationship issues on here but... I kind of need help right now.

There's this boy and... I think I love him. I've at least liked him for the past eight years I've known him, even if I've dated other guys on/off when I did. Or do. Whatever. You know how it is. But I've always had a sort of "spark" with him.

Many times he's been told I liked him. In grade school a couple times. Once my friend told him, the other time my ex best friend told him when I was right there and I ran away (I was such a dumb little twelve year old xD ..personally..) And then once in high school I hooked him and my (again) ex best friend up because she liked him. Because of this, I pretended to like someone else. But yes, I hooked them up personally ;n; Anyway, in the event of this happening, a different friend told my ex bff about it on that current day, so he eventually found out, yadda yadda.

But this year was different.

This year I thought he felt the same.

Well, here's the all over scoop. My crush (Let's call him Red) falls in love with a different girl in 2010, let's call her Blue. Well, Blue decided to go to boarding school for this year in 2011. Well, they were dating, and Red didn't want to give her up. But the fact was that he already had guarenteed the high school we were going to that he was going to be there in 2011. So he figured he'd just beg his mom to let him go year 2012 (next year ^^). Well, they ended up breaking up which practically scarred him I think. He claimed that when he was older he could marry her. (He did that with my ex best friend too, actually, so I didn't think much of it.)

Well, for our Junior year, I think me and Red got really close. We were good friends, and would hang out a lot. He talked to me (sometimes) more than the other Juniors. I figured it was part of his heartbreak, but at this point I didn't care. I'd loved this boy for eight years; I'd take whatever I could get.

Well, aparently he really liked me too. I never said anything about me feeling the same way towards him though because I was too scared I was wrong about the whole thing. I wasn't, but that's not the issue now.

The thing is, towards the end of Junior year, Red announces to me that he's still thinking about going to boarding school. It hurt like nothing ever before. On top of this, I was one of the only people he told (before word got around).

There's nothing for him there except for her. He still wants her after all this time (at least that's what I thought, but we'll get to that later). She's been a bit trampy too. She is around with a bunch of guys all the time. I know because I see her sometimes. xD Anyway. Summer came, and I haven't seen him at all during. But I saw him today.

And there was still that spark.

He wouldn't stop talking to me. Even with his brother there (WHO HE LOVES ... and his friends xD)
Now I have the choice to go to that boarding school in 2013, too. It's like a loop before college :3 My mom put up the funds, but there are some great colleges I could go to too, with some of my friends who are going there in 2012, or possibly some going in 2013. Should I drop everything and run for him?

I don't know what I should do. After eight years, I feel like I'm at my rope's end. Should I tell him I like him (I'll see him next week). Or should I keep it a secret because I won't see him all next year? Or should I go to boarding school with him and tell him there? ;m;

I honestly love him. And I would do anything for him - anything at all. Anything. He. Asked. <3

I just don't want Blue to stomp all over him like she did before. And with the other guys shes's been dating.

help.

[Foi]

Bump

[Dangitbobby]

Okay. I changed my username just so I could talk about this kind of stuff without my friends who are active users knowing. I'm in quite the situation right now.

My friend, let's say 'one' had a boyfriend, and we'll call him 'two'. I never really noticed him before, but then I moved to a school he moved to, with my friend, one. They were still happily going out, and I started noticing him more. One walked home with me, and Two also lived down the road that I walked to get home. So we all walked together. One lived the closest, and she would go into her house to leave me and two walking together. I'd often stutter, and he would occasionally as well. We'd walk for about 50 meters and then he'd turn in to his street, leaving me alone.

This happened for a few weeks, and then, he dumped poor one. One and I continued walking together, and two walked with his friends. One would tell me about how she still liked him and all. Where one turned into her house, two's friends would turn into their house. Two would run across the road to me and we'd talk. We became friends. One day two told me he was thinking about asking one out again. I felt hurt, but I told him about how one still liked him and that he should go ahead.

The next day he asked one out and she said yes. For some reason I started longing for two. My heart ached when he wasn't around. After a month he dumped her and went out with someone else.

Then he dumped that someone, and is now single.

My heart doesn't ache for him anymore, but I can't get him out of my head.

I think he likes me too. It's just the way he looks at me that makes me certain that he does.

I know I'll never have the guts to ask him out, but I dream of him asking me out. And he has been about to ask me something and his friends interupt.

But what if he does ask me? Should I say yes to my friends's ex? It's so confusing and I feel so torn. Please help.

Also sorry if the end posts twice, my iPod won't let me scroll down to see what I've written.
Yes, I wrote all this on my iPod touch. XD

Thanks!
Sun dappled

I know how you feel, I was almost in this exact situation. It seems he might like you and you think he does, but before you can date him, talking to 'one' about it. If she is your friend she will understand, but if she objects, be a good friend and reject him. So in other words, talk to 'one' first! Thanks! and good luck!

~Slate

[weeper]

So, there's this guy I've liked for over 2 years. Let's call him B, shall we?
Well, I never talked to B. And on the last day of school 2 years ago, I hugged him. That was it. The only interaction we ever had. And then summer came and I had no way to talk to him. No one had his number and he didn't have a Facebook. Only recently did he actually make a Facebook. We started chatting and then it turned to texting. He's called me pretty a few times and has said, "I like you." I'm not sure if he meant it in the way I dream of, but that's what he said. But yesterday at my work, he came and we hung out on my break. The only catch is that he has a girlfriend. Why is he calling me pretty and saying, "I can't wait to see you! (before we met at my work)" when he has a girlfriend?
I mean, I like him so much and am so flattered when he tells me nice things. But it's wrong when he has a girlfriend.
Is this a bad sign? I mean, I know his girlfriend hasn't known him longer than I have. I know it. But this whole situation just urgs me. :[

[Dangitbobby]

I know there's a lot of relationship issues on here but... I kind of need help right now.

There's this boy and... I think I love him. I've at least liked him for the past eight years I've known him, even if I've dated other guys on/off when I did. Or do. Whatever. You know how it is. But I've always had a sort of "spark" with him.

Many times he's been told I liked him. In grade school a couple times. Once my friend told him, the other time my ex best friend told him when I was right there and I ran away (I was such a dumb little twelve year old xD ..personally..) And then once in high school I hooked him and my (again) ex best friend up because she liked him. Because of this, I pretended to like someone else. But yes, I hooked them up personally ;n; Anyway, in the event of this happening, a different friend told my ex bff about it on that current day, so he eventually found out, yadda yadda.

But this year was different.

This year I thought he felt the same.

Well, here's the all over scoop. My crush (Let's call him Red) falls in love with a different girl in 2010, let's call her Blue. Well, Blue decided to go to boarding school for this year in 2011. Well, they were dating, and Red didn't want to give her up. But the fact was that he already had guarenteed the high school we were going to that he was going to be there in 2011. So he figured he'd just beg his mom to let him go year 2012 (next year ^^). Well, they ended up breaking up which practically scarred him I think. He claimed that when he was older he could marry her. (He did that with my ex best friend too, actually, so I didn't think much of it.)

Well, for our Junior year, I think me and Red got really close. We were good friends, and would hang out a lot. He talked to me (sometimes) more than the other Juniors. I figured it was part of his heartbreak, but at this point I didn't care. I'd loved this boy for eight years; I'd take whatever I could get.

Well, aparently he really liked me too. I never said anything about me feeling the same way towards him though because I was too scared I was wrong about the whole thing. I wasn't, but that's not the issue now.

The thing is, towards the end of Junior year, Red announces to me that he's still thinking about going to boarding school. It hurt like nothing ever before. On top of this, I was one of the only people he told (before word got around).

There's nothing for him there except for her. He still wants her after all this time (at least that's what I thought, but we'll get to that later). She's been a bit trampy too. She is around with a bunch of guys all the time. I know because I see her sometimes. xD Anyway. Summer came, and I haven't seen him at all during. But I saw him today.

And there was still that spark.

He wouldn't stop talking to me. Even with his brother there (WHO HE LOVES ... and his friends xD)
Now I have the choice to go to that boarding school in 2013, too. It's like a loop before college :3 My mom put up the funds, but there are some great colleges I could go to too, with some of my friends who are going there in 2012, or possibly some going in 2013. Should I drop everything and run for him?

I don't know what I should do. After eight years, I feel like I'm at my rope's end. Should I tell him I like him (I'll see him next week). Or should I keep it a secret because I won't see him all next year? Or should I go to boarding school with him and tell him there? ;m;

I honestly love him. And I would do anything for him - anything at all. Anything. He. Asked. <3

I just don't want Blue to stomp all over him like she did before. And with the other guys shes's been dating.

help.

Honestly, you have to let what happens, happen. Tell him how you feel before the boarding school, that he can decide to stay or not. If he still decides to go, let him be, if Blue stomps all over him again, he will be hurt for a while, but then fully understand. It's tough to let someone you love go, but if you truly love him, you will respect his decisions..

[Dangitbobby]

So, there's this guy I've liked for over 2 years. Let's call him B, shall we?
Well, I never talked to B. And on the last day of school 2 years ago, I hugged him. That was it. The only interaction we ever had. And then summer came and I had no way to talk to him. No one had his number and he didn't have a Facebook. Only recently did he actually make a Facebook. We started chatting and then it turned to texting. He's called me pretty a few times and has said, "I like you." I'm not sure if he meant it in the way I dream of, but that's what he said. But yesterday at my work, he came and we hung out on my break. The only catch is that he has a girlfriend. Why is he calling me pretty and saying, "I can't wait to see you! (before we met at my work)" when he has a girlfriend?
I mean, I like him so much and am so flattered when he tells me nice things. But it's wrong when he has a girlfriend.
Is this a bad sign? I mean, I know his girlfriend hasn't known him longer than I have. I know it. But this whole situation just urgs me. :[

First, I tihnk this is all really nice, how a little summer romance start..err sorry..

Anyways, if he does have a girlfriend and he is flirting with you as much as you say, you need to remind him he has a girlfriend. Because if his girlfriend finds out, there will be drama. Small flirting can be harmless, as long as it's not in front of his girlfriend. But remind him, possibly tell him how you feel a bit, and see what happens.