Crushes or boyfriends/girlfriends

[s y n]

Daily Question (Friday, July 22nd)
On a scale of 0-10 with zero being not at all and 10 being love more than anything, how much do you like your crush/boyfriend/girlfriend?

On most days, 8 or 9 and a half. When I really miss him, 10, when I'm mad at him, 7. When I'm really sad, also a 10, because I talk to him and he makes me laugh and makes me feel better <3

I'm complicated.

[borneofash]

I was wondering if I could come here to talk to some one. I have these two guys. I mess with one, and everyone thinks we like each other. On the other hand, theres a guy who I've liked for 3 (Almost 4 now) years, and I don't know if I like the guy I mess with or not. Help?

[~*Angel*~]

It's ok to flirt it's healthy. What you need to do is step back and not flirt with the guy you mess with and see if the attraction is still there. If not he's not the boy.

My bf as brown hair and blue eyes that change different shade of blue depending on his mood. He's tall and doesn't have a sense of humor but tries to when I'm around which makes it funny and sweet. I talked to him today and he said sorry for a mix up that was clearly my fault, and I said he was very chivarlirous to do so. He said thank you and told me he tries to respect me because he doesn't want me hurt or to have me think he's just another jerk guy <3 and with him chivalary never dies. he is bad at showing affection because he himself has never been in a affectionate relationship but I don't care. He's sweet to me and calls me beautiful.

Dq: A flat out 10. <3 <3

[CaliDutchess]

It's midnight in about half an hour and I haven't heard from B at all today. Usually I wouldn't be worried, but with what's been going on recently, every little thing that's even the slightest bit of bad to B can worry me. I really hope I'll hear from him tomorrow.

[fly away.]

Too bad my crush is my best friend, lives several states away, and has no idea.

[~*Angel*~]

It's midnight in about half an hour and I haven't heard from B at all today. Usually I wouldn't be worried, but with what's been going on recently, every little thing that's even the slightest bit of bad to B can worry me. I really hope I'll hear from him tomorrow.

if you don't call him, it shows you care and you're concerned. Be there for him and do what you can, still consider about telling him your feelings but show it through your actions as well. Show him you care and that your friend doesn't and she doesn't deserve him.

Too bad my crush is my best friend, lives several states away, and has no idea.

That sucks. I had a relationship with a boy in another state. We eventually came to a mutual agreement that we should see more people simply because we thought of each other as only friends.

[CaliDutchess]

@~*Angel*~ - That's the problem. There's only one way we can communicate, and I haven't gotten an IM from him at all today or yesterday evening. I'm still considering telling him, but I'm still not sure. If anybody could convince him to get over her, it's me. However, he really loves her. It breaks my heart to see his broken yet again by the same person. He knows how much she's hurt him, but he just can't get over her.

[Lilo.]

Mine's complicated really...:S

See, there's this boy, brown hair, deep eyes, really funny. And I've liked him since the start of the year but I kept it a secret. And then my friend told me she liked him. Then she said a few months later she'd gone off him slightly, because he wouldn't date her. Then not long after that he said he'd go out with me but I don't really want a boyfriend but I love him soo much! D:

Well, I would say that maybe you two should just go out on a date or two and see how it works out. It's great that you both like each other. You don't have to be bf & gf, nobody said you had to be. You can both be friends, and if you're ready, you two can become bf & gf. Usually it's both beneficial and safer to be friends with your date before you date them, because you have more of a chance of getting to know their personality and if they might be suitable for you.

I can see where you're coming from, and to be honest we're actually pretty close friends but that's another thing i'm afraid of, if we went out would it ruin our friendship?

[~*Angel*~]

@~*Angel*~ - That's the problem. There's only one way we can communicate, and I haven't gotten an IM from him at all today or yesterday evening. I'm still considering telling him, but I'm still not sure. If anybody could convince him to get over her, it's me. However, he really loves her. It breaks my heart to see his broken yet again by the same person. He knows how much she's hurt him, but he just can't get over her.

That's why he needs you to take him away from this unhealthy fad he has for her. It's eating him up and he needs to be loved and taken away from it. I know what it's like and I remember I only wanted someone to love me and to hold me. Pathetic I know but when your hearts broken you don't care. Be there for him as much as you can then when the moment comes tell him.

[icarusAbstracted]

@~*Angel*~ - That's the problem. There's only one way we can communicate, and I haven't gotten an IM from him at all today or yesterday evening. I'm still considering telling him, but I'm still not sure. If anybody could convince him to get over her, it's me. However, he really loves her. It breaks my heart to see his broken yet again by the same person. He knows how much she's hurt him, but he just can't get over her.

That's why he needs you to take him away from this unhealthy fad he has for her. It's eating him up and he needs to be loved and taken away from it. I know what it's like and I remember I only wanted someone to love me and to hold me. Pathetic I know but when your hearts broken you don't care. Be there for him as much as you can then when the moment comes tell him.

*randomly popping in after not posting for a long time*
Skin hunger sucks. It's not pathetic at all though. It's human nature to want to be held, to be with someone. What's pathetic is when people try and hide it and end up wanting to be touched more than anything in the world but denying their want just because they don't want to seem weak.
/ranty rant rant rant