Lanayru wrote:ThunderCedar wrote:Lanayru wrote:To be fully fair, it WAS 2/2 (3/3 if you consider the sapphic and achillean flags too)? 2 lesbian flag mice vs the blue and green mlm flag bird and the rainbow flag mouse, so the 2 gay pride flags :] I feel like everyone overlooks the poor mousey...
I thought the rainbow flag represented the LGBT as a whole? Unless there's something I'm missing (which is very possible)
I feel the Philly and Progress flags (we got the Philly one in the mouse litter) are more general community flags but tbh just the rainbow flag will always be the OG gay pride flag! There is so much love and history put behind it and it's what most gay men I know irl still use.
Those three are all varieties of community flags. Most of the young gay men I know use the "toothpaste flag", because it's the one specific to us, not just a community flag that everyone uses. It might be what the majority of gay men YOU know use, but I know a lot of lesbians who use the rainbow flag and I would never suggest that makes it the lesbian flag so the other lesbian flag doesn't need to be included.
AudreyPotter wrote:onion wrote:ugh are we really gonna argue over the amount of flags each orientation got? x3 just be happy! we almost ALL got representation! no need to go comparing numbers!
im just surprised intersex got TWO mice!!!
Some people are looking far too deeply into it, looking past just how much representation everyone got, I'm sure the artists are proud of what they've done and they should be!
Or, and here me out, we are pointing out we didn't
get representation, because forgetting the gay male flag or lumping it in under the "community" flag is a common theme in a lot of places. The blue-green gay male flag IS different from the Achillean flag (which is inclusive of all queer men/mascs who love men/mascs) - it's the male equivalent of the lesbian flag vs the Sapphic flag. I've never seen the lesbian flag not included, and there are flags here I've never seen before, which is why it hurts to not see my own flag. I love the pride mice, they're really adorable. That's why I'm disappointed there's no gay male flag, especially when they took the time to make two almost-identical lesbian flags that have no difference in meaning - it's not like they didn't have the resources to make a mouse, they just decided that lesbians would get two mice and gay men wouldn't get one.
I'm really disappointed to see people who HAVE their flags represented, and/or are marveling at less common flags being included being mean or dismissive when those of us who didn't get a flag while a some-what equivalent orientation got two, as did many other queer subgroups. I'm not mad at the artists, I'm just a little hurt because it feels cruddy to feel forgotten and not as important as other people, but I'm more hurt to see how many people are pretty much telling me and others to shut up because we're looking "too deeply" at a problem you just haven't noticed because it doesn't affect you. ESPECIALLY when some of the people being mean and dismissive are people who are marveling at how much representation
they got - you know how happy it makes you to see how included you are, why is it wrong that I and others want to feel that same happiness and are sad we don't get to?