i found a couple of cats that look kind of like cole:
(christmas 2016) (august 2021)
mgnomes wrote:i found a couple of cats that look kind of like cole:
(christmas 2016) (august 2021)
starlapelle wrote:I'm so sorry for your loss. I have lost several pets and I've found that keeping their favorite toy has helped ease the grief a little. I have my cat's favorite mousie and my guinea pig's stacking cups that he loved to play with, and I have a little shelf dedicated to the both of them in my room. It helps me feel like they're still around.
I am so sorry. Grief is incredibly difficult, and sometimes it feels like you'll never feel normal again, but you will. You will be okay again eventually. I like this quote from Andrew Garfield talking about his late mother:
"This is all the unexpressed love, the grief that will remain with us until we pass because we never get enough time with each other, no matter if someone lives until 60, 15, or 99. So I hope this grief stays with me because it's all the unexpressed love that I didn't get to tell her. And I told her every day. We all told her every day she was the best of us."
Grief is the love we carry with us for the rest of our lives. I hope you find peace soon in these difficult times, all my best wishes to you.
P0LYPH0NIE wrote:What a sweet baby boy. Know he loved you forever and ever and always will!
I just met you, but you seem like a great person and I want to know I'm here for you. We all are!
I wish you luck in getting those pets that look like him that someone suggested above. They really do look like him! He's so fwuffy! He looks so grumpy but cute! /pos
Stay safe and I'd love to see more of Cole. <3
pearljam wrote:when my beloved cat felix passed away last year, i couldn’t sleep very well until i was snuggling a plushie in the spot he would sleep (i would be lying on my side while he was under the covers resting his head/upper body on my arm with his back against me). i found that the pressure of a plushie in the spot where he used to sleep is really comforting to me. i really miss the little man, he was more than a cat. im not sure how to explain it, but he just.. was. (please don’t judge, i am totally not a young adult who can’t sleep without a plush toy.. )
i think the plushie thing is a great idea. maybe you could put some of coles fur inside along with the stuffing when making it if possible. ❤️ i am very protective over my ‘felix plushie’ and i used to snuggle up to him but im so paranoid about making him dirty that i snuggle up to a unicorn plush now. this white unicorn has seen better days lol i totally didn’t get really upset when i accidentally managed to melt some CHOCOLATE into his fur.. it’s all good now though xd
cole will always be here with you. i saw/see felix as a brother and when i look back, he entered our lives at the right time and when it was his time, he knew i was ready even though it certainly didnt feel like it. it took me a few months to realise that. he definitely opened and closed a chapter in my life for me. within the last year and a half my life has changed so much. in a good way - and i like to think that felix guided me along the way.. i know he did.
im sending you my love !
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