MoonLesbian wrote:Verdana wrote:Yeah, lol, unfortunately gotta walk before you run. What's lunging hard gonna teach her, but that being far away from you is safe? You're trying to tell her where to put her feet, and how fast. Gotta do that slowly. Starting it right from the beginning is the best way to get a good horse who doesn't respond out of fear/desperation, but who tries to solve problems. Also, if she was acting up for the farrier, and reluctant for you, have you ruled out foot pain/tender-footedness?
Yeah, both the vet and farrier told me she’s not in any pain. She was doing things that would have just hurt her worse if she had sore feet too, and it definitely seems like someone just didn’t correct her when she tried to avoid being handled. This girl put all her weight on the hoof stand to stand up on it and tip it over. /facepalm
lunging until exhausted is.. not a nice way to train and is a bit of a lazy way to train.. exhaust the horse so they stop fighting you

instead of lunging, i would focus on working with her to train her the behaviors you DO want. first step.. figure out what her reward style is.. does she like scratches or is she more food motivated? you can cut up a carrot or a couple horse treats into tiny pieces and stick in your pocket to reward her for good behavior if thats her jam, if shes too mouthy, dont do this/feed treats from a bucket and not your hand. she likely has trust issues and it can take a couple months for an animal to decompress and show their true personality.
I'd start working with picking up her feet and handling her legs.. personally, I like Clinton Anderson's method. just do a short 5-10 minute session, then groom her or do something else with her and do another. you can play games/teach her tricks and make sessions fun but also sneak in the important work so that she is learning too
p.s. Penny is a really cute name!