♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

[slugjelly]

yesterday was my 2nd anniversary with my fiance! i feel so happy and just... safe in his presence. that's a rare thing for me. my headmates like him, my decent family members like him, my friends like him. i am so lucky. i have had a horrible week, but he makes every day, bad or good, so much easier

[Aaron✦]

just need somewhere to complain and vent about my not so great situation i've found myself in.

iv'e been with a boy since 2019, and was very close for years before. our relationship was, normal. we bickered every once in a while, but it was healthy. i loved him and he loved me- or so i thought. he cheated on me since before december this past year. i had a feeling he was doing some things behind my back, but i loved him and trusted him when he said otherwise. he dumped me last month and immediately got with the other person, a girl who's just like me without the difficulties. im disabled, with a service dog, which means i can tend to be a bit of a burden. she's just like me, much much older, without the difficulties. [removed]

im so incredibly heartbroken. i suffer from bpd, so i feel so incredibly betrayed and i have not been taking this well at all. he continues to message me on social media, almost taunting me. calling me petnames then apologizing since "its instinct." his mother sent me a text, knowing that i wasn't doing well, basically ridiculing me for everything. getting on me for being "lazy," not having my license, and not having a job, stating that i was essentially a burden to him and that yeah i was replaced.

i genuinely am so depressed, everything reminds me of him. i still adore him with my whole heart, and i know i shouldn't. i don't know what to do at this point.

[Constellation.]

My boyfriend just left today, so we're starting long distance now. (': He's coming back to visit me in 3.5 weeks and staying with me for 3 weeks, so I know it's not too long. We have a great game plan going into summer for visits and all, I'm worried about after summer because I know grad school is tough. I'm going to miss seeing him around all the time and just doing so much together, but I love him and we want to make long distance work. Our relationship had improved so so much these past couple of months, and our plan is for me to move with him a year from now if all goes well. Fingers crossed it does! ❤️

[Goldstarwolf]

Very glad to be his, but I do always he'll break up with me because how my toxic ex was just randomly breaking up with me but I know he wouldnt but I still get worried. But other than that he makes me very happy and I'm glad we get over the small bumps.

[Penelopekitty]

Venting in the Chicken Smoothie forums seems like a great idea ngl.

I've liked this boy for just over 2 months now, and I've liked him from the day we met. I think about him all the time. I ALWAYS overthink relationships, I overthink everything. With him, I didn't overthink. I finally felt comfortable with someone and like I could be more than my anxieties, more than myself. We have hung out so many times, he drives me home, we've cuddled, pretty much dating just not officially.

Last night, he told me he still likes the girl that he liked back in March. They've known each other for months. He told me he didn't like her anymore.

He told me he just wants to be friends with me.

I have genuinely never felt more used in my life. Just last week he told our mutual friend that he wants to ask me out. What changed? How is it possible for him to lose feelings that fast?

I was just his rebound, just caught in the middle while he tried to figure things out. I've talked to him every day and hung out with him every week, I've met all of his family.

I don't know what to do, I've never liked someone this much. She has already told him she doesn't want to date him. I thought this would work. I imagined our entire Summer together, now what am I supposed to do?

[Penelopekitty]

Venting in the Chicken Smoothie forums seems like a great idea ngl.

I've liked this boy for just over 2 months now, and I've liked him from the day we met. I think about him all the time. I ALWAYS overthink relationships, I overthink everything. With him, I didn't overthink. I finally felt comfortable with someone and like I could be more than my anxieties, more than myself. We have hung out so many times, he drives me home, we've cuddled, pretty much dating just not officially.

Last night, he told me he still likes the girl that he liked back in March. They've known each other for months. He told me he didn't like her anymore.

He told me he just wants to be friends with me.

I have genuinely never felt more used in my life. Just last week he told our mutual friend that he wants to ask me out. What changed? How is it possible for him to lose feelings that fast?

I was just his rebound, just caught in the middle while he tried to figure things out. I've talked to him every day and hung out with him every week, I've met all of his family.

I don't know what to do, I've never liked someone this much. She has already told him she doesn't want to date him. I thought this would work. I imagined our entire Summer together, now what am I supposed to do?

Honestly if anyone has advice for this I'd be all ears. I have not stopped crying since 11 PM last night.

[medimedes]

I really want a gf, but where I live is pretty old gashionrf and I’m pretty female presenting lol

[Captain. A. Stark.]

I would really like to date someone and I would like someone to love me. However, unfortunately, all the guys I like are blowing me off and it's horrible. I'm a pretty girl, I'm young, attractive, I support myself. But there seems to be something wrong with me, since guys keep telling me off.



no ! there's nothing wrong with you, don't ever think that. it's hard to find someone that can support you in the way you need; you just haven't found the right person yet and that's totally okay. if people are telling you off, maybe you just need to reassess what kind of people you're talking to and what you're looking for in comparison to them. just don't put yourself down; you're shouldn't have to change your sides to find your matching piece. if you're happy with the way you are, you'll find that person who sees you the way you want to be seen one day, just don't give up on yourself :)

[h2rtkos]

I really love the idea of dating a person, but then every time someone has asked me out I panicked and turned them down, even if I liked them, because I'm so convinced that I would be a bad boyfriend. I just really hate it! I want to be confident in myself and have solid and happy relationships but I can hardly maintain friendships because I'm so convinced that everyone hates me.

[frogpeex]

I've been in an online relationship for over a year and in a month and a half he is coming to visit. I've been feeling extremely nervy due to this. What if he doesn't like the way I am in person. Not that I'm any different online than in person but I dunno. Maybe I'm too tall or too short or too skinny or my hair isn't the way it is over our calls. My voice may be different.