Blackombatboots wrote:I Own a little brown boston terrier, he just turned 2 in august. I need some help, I honestly can't get him to behave at all, he really only behaves when he's tired, what do I do? Is it just a boston terrier thing? Will he mature as he gets older?
He's in need of training and more exercise. He won't suddenly start behaving when he hits a certain age. I recommend only positive reinforcement training. "Balanced" training incorporates positive punishment and can cause physical and psychological harm to your dog, as well as damage your relationship. It doesn't always happen, but it can, so you need to be aware of the pitfalls if you choose to go that route. Punishment isn't necessary for training and studies have shown it's no better than positive reinforcement anyway. Zoo animals, military dogs, service dogs, competition dogs, protection dogs, etc. all over the world can and are trained using only positive reinforcement. So you defiantly don't need punishment of any kind to train your dog.
Working with a trainer is great, though I'd stay away from board and train. The dog needs to learn to work with you and you'll miss out on the great bonding opportunity training can be. Also I live in the US and as long as it's done in the name of "training", pretty much anything can be done to your dog legally. Dogs have even died in board and train and the trainer didn't get in trouble because of this. It's rare compared to all the board and train situation out there, but I personally wouldn't risk it with my dog. If you do decided to go that route use due diligence in researching the trainer/facility.
I suggest you feed only through training or puzzle toys (no more just dumping kibble in a bowl). Keep training sessions short (five to ten minutes) and spaced through out the day. You might also want to keep certain toys as rewards for training if your dog is highly toy motivated. The fact that he finds it easier to focus when he's tired out is fine, and understandable giving his age. Do some exercise before your training if necessary to let him get some of that energy out. Also work on impulse control and attention games.
Remember whatever you do be consistent. You can't allow your dog on furniture most of the time then get angry when he does it when company comes, for example. Dogs also don't generalize well, so while he may be great at sitting on cue in the living room, he may not understand what you're asking him in the dining room. Train him in as many different areas/places as possible. Same goes for distractions, you can't expect him to go from your quiet house to a busy park and get everything right the first time. You need to up one criteria at a time (distraction, distance, duration, etc.) and do so slowly. Also consistency also goes for what cues you use. You can use almost anything, but everyone in the household has to use the same ones. For example, if you use "down" to mean 'lay your body flat on the ground' then don't expect him to understand "down" also means to get off the bed/couch.
Here are some links to training videos/articles to get you started...
The Science Behind Positive Training -
https://positively.com/dog-training/positive-training/the-science-behind-positive-training/Impulse Control Games -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IbWFVwrW9qwWhat is Clicker Training -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_wv1uvvqaSwNo Mugging -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PRT6r6d79OUWhy newbies FAIL using TREATS and TOYS to TRAIN DOGS -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=71T6K9IU9P0Kikopup Building Attention Playlist -
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEBF2B84BEEEA6DFAReward Scaling -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n7XxG5KchQ8&t=4sHow to Phase out Treats and Fade Lures -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yZ74wVgoEzY