A Tale of Two Packs (Discussion)

[belloblossom]

@Spirit - Noted.

@Lucy - *hugs* I'm sorry if I made you uncomfortable. Trust me, I totally get anxiety. My anxiety tends to rear it's head in private conversations and I can't tell the tone of a conversation to save my life. I always assume someone's reaching out because they're angry or upset with me Dx

Did I hallucinate or did someone tag Thunder a few pages back?

[LucyWiggle13]

Its fine. I'm just sensitive to people and it got me anxious Bello. I'm sensitive to when people get annoyed and I also say sorry about everything even if it is a mistake in school so to speak. Just goot me anxious that's al.

its fine.

[LucyWiggle13]

ya know, I'll just put things out there im sensitive about with roleplaying.

[LucyWiggle13]

1.People get annoyed and I always think I did something.
2.Talking to people about things
3. Some odd reason Ih'… sensitive about if someone has to talk.
4. The fear of getting in trouble.
5. I'm not the best writer so it gets me nervous about things sounding wierd, don't make sense or things being to over dramatic.
6. (Most important one) Fighting in the roleplay IDK why that triggers my anxiety or why I'm sensitive to it.

[LucyWiggle13]

Im also very sensitive to posts specifically directed to me that doesn't involve the roleplay and speaking my mind and creating ideas.

[Spiritstar3]

I understand #1 and 6

I want them to have pups in the future

[LucyWiggle13]

Ya, I do,

[Spiritstar3]

[LucyWiggle13]

Gkot a horse question. Come to me. I love horses and hope to own my own someday. I want a mare and stallion and they can have a foal and then I have three horses. I want rescue dogs and other animals.

[belloblossom]

While I'll definitely try to keep these anxieties in mind, I hope you realize that I may not be able to avoid doing certain things that make you (or anyone for that matter) anxious in this RP.

I always try to stay away from things that might *really* bother people, but writing out your list for the knowledge of others is coming across a little bit like you want everyone to avoid making you uncomfortable and in a roleplay with this many characters and roleplayers, that just doesn't seem realistic.

One of the hardest lessons I learned as a roleplayer was that the RP will continue regardless of what you're comfortable with. Things may happen that you don't like or that you aren't comfortable with. While you can approach the host of the RP to try and sort it out that way, ultimately it'll come down to one question. Is it so severe an instance that you want to leave the RP?

I don't mean to imply that I think you should, if you see things that bother you. I'm just trying (and perhaps fumbling my words with) a bit of "I've been roleplaying for over a decade, so listen to me young one" advice.