Dog Owner Chat V. 5

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Re: Dog Owner Chat V. 5

Postby vervainium » Mon Jan 27, 2020 4:37 pm

Imzadi83 wrote:
TheLostLioness wrote:
Hello!
I am excited to see this thread and all the resources it has to offer.
I do not currently own a dog. I do plan to get one in the distant future, two - five years from now.
I am planning on getting a pitbull terrier to be a companion, or "fur baby" might be a better term. I found a breeder in my state that breeds pitbulls for friendliness and health.
So I have plenty of time to learn everything I need to know about training a pitbull. I am all ears to anyone that might have some advice for me.


Pitbulls are one of the most likely dogs in shelters to be euthanized, including their healthy friendly puppies simply because of over population. Please consider going to a shelter or rescue instead. If all you want is a companion you won't have difficulty finding one.

As for training I recommend clicker training. Here are some videos to help you out. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4dbzPoB7AKk


      I don't mean to be a sticker for information or be rude, but most of the dogs in shelters that are claimed "pit bulls" are not true American Pit Bull Terriers, and if OP wants a true APBT they're going to have to go to a breeder to find it, whether or not they're looking for just a companion or not.

      It also just seemed completely uncalled for to tell them not to go to a breeder (which you implied) instead of just helping them out. There is no issue with going to a responsible breeder or adopting a dog, it's up to the individual.
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Re: Dog Owner Chat V. 5

Postby avaloafe » Mon Jan 27, 2020 4:54 pm

TheLostLioness wrote:
Hello!
I am excited to see this thread and all the resources it has to offer.
I do not currently own a dog. I do plan to get one in the distant future, two - five years from now.
I am planning on getting a pitbull terrier to be a companion, or "fur baby" might be a better term. I found a breeder in my state that breeds pitbulls for friendliness and health.
So I have plenty of time to learn everything I need to know about training a pitbull. I am all ears to anyone that might have some advice for me.

      please don't call them a fur baby ew i don't get why people insist on calling them that it bothers me so much rip

      i love pitties, all types of 'em <3 best of luck!
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Re: Dog Owner Chat V. 5

Postby Imzadi83 » Mon Jan 27, 2020 5:13 pm

bondurant wrote:
Imzadi83 wrote:
TheLostLioness wrote:
Hello!
I am excited to see this thread and all the resources it has to offer.
I do not currently own a dog. I do plan to get one in the distant future, two - five years from now.
I am planning on getting a pitbull terrier to be a companion, or "fur baby" might be a better term. I found a breeder in my state that breeds pitbulls for friendliness and health.
So I have plenty of time to learn everything I need to know about training a pitbull. I am all ears to anyone that might have some advice for me.


Pitbulls are one of the most likely dogs in shelters to be euthanized, including their healthy friendly puppies simply because of over population. Please consider going to a shelter or rescue instead. If all you want is a companion you won't have difficulty finding one.

As for training I recommend clicker training. Here are some videos to help you out. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4dbzPoB7AKk


      I don't mean to be a sticker for information or be rude, but most of the dogs in shelters that are claimed "pit bulls" are not true American Pit Bull Terriers, and if OP wants a true APBT they're going to have to go to a breeder to find it, whether or not they're looking for just a companion or not.

      It also just seemed completely uncalled for to tell them not to go to a breeder (which you implied) instead of just helping them out. There is no issue with going to a responsible breeder or adopting a dog, it's up to the individual.



Considering millions of dogs that would've made great companions are dying every year in the US alone I think letting people know what is going on and encouraging them to consider adoption is very called for. People should remain aware of what the problem is and how they can help solve and not contribute to it.

I don't know this breeder or their practices. I hope they are responsible, but I've met far too many people who don't really know what that means. People who think that because the puppies/parents have seen a vet that that is all that is required for "health testing". Or people who think that as long as the parents seem friendly that makes them worth breeding in the first place.

If the OP is responsible and is confident they are going to a responsible breeder then they will already know where I am coming from as they will have done their due diligence to make sure that they and the breeder they are supporting aren't part of the problem. The only thing they mentioned however is temperament and health which in my experience every breeder claims including the ones running puppy mills.

I hope the OP has/is educating themselves and knows what a responsible breeder really is. That good temperament should be proven by titling in things beside just conformation, that specific heath tests should be done depending on breed for generations and they should have and provide proof of that. That they should have contracts that state that pet quality puppies are not allowed to be bred, and that the puppy should always be returned to the breeder if the buyer can no longer care for it to prevent their dogs from winding up in shelters.

If they're unsure of this then hopefully what I said will make them think twice and do more research. If they are already confident of this then they should realize my post came from a place of great concern due to all the dogs dying in shelters and all the bybs who are pumping out puppies for selfish reasons and duping the public into somehow thinking their dogs will make better companions then the ones in shelters/rescues. You're right that it is an individual choice, but I feel that people should be making educated choices.

And your right I did imply that they should look into getting a dog from a shelter/rescue before committing to get a dog from a breeder. What is wrong with encouraging people to consider adoption? In the end it is still a choice. You're right about their being a difference between a purebred APBT and a Pitbull that might be found in the shelter system, but since the OP didn't state that they were long for a true to type APBT I didn't feel the need to bring that up. If they know that then well, they know what they're looking for and fine. If they don't, again, that is valuable information that they can use when deciding where to source a dog.

Shelters and rescues are invaluable sources of information. So to add it what I said earlier, I suggest OP look into some local ones. Volunteering/fostering can give one great experience and knowledge in regards to training and what one does/does not want in a future pet. It also helps save lives.
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Re: Dog Owner Chat V. 5

Postby spectacular. » Mon Jan 27, 2020 6:08 pm

@Imzadi83

In a sense, I understand where you are coming from─ but the way your comment came off didn’t seem like you just wanted to help educate. It sort of came off as “don’t go to a breeder, check a shelter instead,” which seemed uncalled for. OP stated they found a breeder, and that should be the end of it. At the end of the day, it’s up to the OP to come to the decision of if said breeder is reputable or not and if they choose to ignore help (which I don’t imagine they would, considering they are here asking for it) it falls on them. I don’t think we can question the breeder because, as you stated, we don’t know this breeder or their reasons for breeding. But there’s no reason to automatically assume that the breeder they have chosen is bad, either. That can go both ways.

Also, if OP wants a purebred─ less than 2% of the shelter dog population are purebreds, despite what a lot of people are led to believe. Other than going to a breeder, however, OP might be better off finding a reputable, breed-specific rescue group, who are more likely to actually know the breed that they rescue and are likely to be much more helpful than any shelter staff. Which, in my own personal experience (as well as a couple of friend’s experiences) are pretty subpar and often extremely rude.

Onto the topic of shelters being a good place for information, long story short─ they aren’t. They are not the end all be all of all dog experience/ownership and information. Actually, in fact, many shelters (and keep that keyword in mind ─many─ not all) are very uneducated in dog behavior, training, health, etc. A better idea would be to go to an expo or even a dog show, where you can talk to people who actually make their life about their dogs, and people who know their dogs better than a shelter would. Somebody who knows the breed can offer much more valuable information than most shelters would.

While I don’t recommend it─ because you have to cherrypick and find the best ones to join, facebook can offer educational dog groups that give off good information as well. But again, you have to really search for them and know what you’re looking for.

Another thing you mention that I can’t ignore─ backyard breeding (BYB) and puppy-mills. Both of those words are highly overused and often people will rush to label normal hobby breeders and pet breeders as puppy mills.

Yes ─ a dog should be health tested with the OFA and have been tested for what their specific breed recommends and I would never recommend someone buy a dog that has not been health tested.

No ─ true titling is completely optional.

(ig.) The AKC doesn’t recognize some dog sports (and some dog breeds), therefore those dogs have to go through off registries like the ADBA, NCA, etc. Also, titles often don’t transfer over through certain registries. I’m absolutely sure that several people would say that my Doberman is not from a reputable breeder because, according to the AKC, his parents aren’t really CH dogs. :|
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Re: Dog Owner Chat V. 5

Postby Velveteen Hound. » Mon Jan 27, 2020 6:56 pm

So. I worked in a rescue for 5+ years.
I really love the support for shelter pets, but I really hate the shove down your throat attitude. ( not directing that at any particular person. This is a very sensitive argument and things can be taken very wrong)
Let’s me just throw in my two cents.
Along with what every one is saying about “pits” in shelters not being purebred ....
I am going to probably state the likely very unpopular opinion of the pro-shelter argument - that if this is your first dog, or first dog in a long time ... and your heart is set on a pit, I think you are doing absolutely the right thing looking for a breeder rather than trying to take on a rescue pit. Absolutely down the road once you know the temperaments of pits better and have an established training disciplinary routine look for another rescue pitty to add to your life.

Pits are fantastic dogs, and can be rehabbed. But they are not really beginner dogs in general. If you are just starting out with one it is best to get it as a puppy. Because I can honestly say that with the over 50+ pits I have seen come from shelters very few came with out a quirk of some sort. Many where not obviously apparent at first either, but potentially very dangerous. If you are not ready for that, and don’t have a plan to counter, you could get hurt and will likely have to rehome (more often than not return to the pound) the dog anyway, so your adding to the problem not subtracting from it.

That said. Absolutely do a lot of research on your breeders. Pits are a common enough breed there is a lot of good material out there to pick a good breeder, and there are a lot of really good ones. That said there are also a LOT of really bad ones. Be careful.
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Re: Dog Owner Chat V. 5

Postby Imzadi83 » Mon Jan 27, 2020 7:20 pm

spectacular. wrote:@Imzadi83

In a sense, I understand where you are coming from─ but the way your comment came off didn’t seem like you just wanted to help educate. It sort of came off as “don’t go to a breeder, check a shelter instead,” which seemed uncalled for. OP stated they found a breeder, and that should be the end of it. At the end of the day, it’s up to the OP to come to the decision of if said breeder is reputable or not and if they choose to ignore help (which I don’t imagine they would, considering they are here asking for it) it falls on them. I don’t think we can question the breeder because, as you stated, we don’t know this breeder or their reasons for breeding. But there’s no reason to automatically assume that the breeder they have chosen is bad, either. That can go both ways.

Also, if OP wants a purebred─ less than 2% of the shelter dog population are purebreds, despite what a lot of people are led to believe. Other than going to a breeder, however, OP might be better off finding a reputable, breed-specific rescue group, who are more likely to actually know the breed that they rescue and are likely to be much more helpful than any shelter stall. Which, in my own personal experience (as well as a couple of friend’s experiences) are pretty subpar and often extremely rude.

Onto the topic of shelters being a good place for information, long story short─ they aren’t. They are not the end all be all of all dog experience/ownership and information. Actually, in fact, many shelters (and keep that keyword in mind ─many─ not all) are very uneducated in dog behavior, training, health, etc. A better idea would be to go to an expo or even a dog show, where you can talk to people who actually make their life about their dogs, and people who know their dogs better than a shelter would. Somebody who knows the breed can offer much more valuable information than most shelters would.

While I don’t recommend it─ because you have to cherrypick and find the best ones to join, facebook can offer educational dog groups that give off good information as well. But again, you have to really search for them and know what you’re looking for.

Another thing you mention that I can’t ignore─ backyard breeding (BYB) and puppy-mills. Both of those words are highly overused and often people will rush to label normal hobby breeders and pet breeders as puppy mills.

Yes ─ a dog should be health tested with the OFA and have been tested for what their specific breed recommends and I would never recommend someone buy a dog that has not been health tested.

No ─ true titling is completely optional.

(ig.) The AKC doesn’t recognize some dog sports (and some dog breeds), therefore those dogs have to go through off registries like the ADBA, NCA, etc. Also, titles often don’t transfer over through certain registries. I’m absolutely sure that several people would say that my Doberman is not from a reputable breeder because, according to the AKC, his parents aren’t really CH dogs. :|


I'm sorry if my post came off as anyway other than education. I stated it was their choice and pointed them in the direction of where they could educate themselves in regards to making an informed one. I'm not assuming the breeder is either responsible or irresponsible, I'm just hoping and encouraging the OP to find that out. I'm not trying to question the breeder so much as I want to encourage OP to question them if they haven't. Since we don't know I see no harm in providing information OP can use (or not) to make an informed choice. As I want to see less dogs killed in shelters I personally don't think asking someone "Please consider going to a shelter or rescue instead." especially when talking about one of the breeds most commonly seen in shelters is such a bad thing to ask. If they don't want to fine, if they've never thought about it what's wrong with asking them to think about it or look into it to see if it's right for them? Personally I think one of the best pieces of training advice I could give is for someone to do their due diligence in sourcing a dog. Many people I've personally known have gotten a dog from someone they thought was a good breeder only to find out and regret their decision later.

If the OP wants a purebred is a an IF because they didn't state such. They stated Pit Bull which is more a type then a breed and is one most common to end up in and killed in shelters. I do agree with you about breed specific rescue groups which is why I mentioned rescues as well as shelters. I'm sorry you've had bad experiences in shelters; like rescue groups, breeders, etc. all are not the same however so I stand by my recommendation to look into them rather than just assuming. If you or OP doesn't like or feel that they are a good resource you/they don't have to use them. I also agree with your idea of going to an expo or dog show. Thank you for mentioning that, I think they should do that as well.

To me if the idea of breeding for "hobby" is a moot point and not one I use in discussions about responsible versus irresponsible breeders since both could consider breeding a "hobby". When I say BYBs I'm referring to irresponsible breeders as that is the most widely used and accepted form of the term in my experience. I'm not rushing to label any breeder in particular. Untimely one has to decide for themselves what they require in a breeder. I don't agree that those words are overused however. I think there are sadly many BYBs and puppy mills around pumping out dogs that end up in shelters/rescues. Again over a million dogs are killed in shelters/rescues every year in the US alone, where do you think they came from? Irresponsible breeders. Considering the extent of the problem I'd said irresponsible breeders likely outnumber the responsible ones though I don't know for sure. Either way I would recommend caution and research to anyone. If OP has already done that, decided their breeder is responsible and that is the best choice for them great! They can just ignore that part and focus on training advice (which I did also provide). What I said was said (as nice as I know how given that typed responses don't show tone) came from a place of love for dogs and concern for the OP that I wish them to find a companion that is right for them.

When I say titling I'm not concerned with what registries those titles apply to or can transfer to though I see your confusion. I'm referring to the fact that a breeder does their due diligence to prove that their dog fits the breed standard and is worth breeding to better the breed. Also this prevents kennel blindness to compare ones dogs to others to again make sure they are breeding with an intent to better the breed, not just make more pets that have the physical characteristics of the breed standard.


Araphen. wrote:So. I worked in a rescue for 5+ years.
I really love the support for shelter pets, but I really hate the shove down your throat attitude. ( not directing that at any particular person. This is a very sensitive argument and things can be taken very wrong)
Let’s me just throw in my two cents.
Along with what every one is saying about “pits” in shelters not being purebred ....
I am going to probably state the likely very unpopular opinion of the pro-shelter argument - that if this is your first dog, or first dog in a long time ... and your heart is set on a pit, I think you are doing absolutely the right thing looking for a breeder rather than trying to take on a rescue pit. Absolutely down the road once you know the temperaments of pits better and have an established training disciplinary routine look for another rescue pitty to add to your life.

Pits are fantastic dogs, and can be rehabbed. But they are not really beginner dogs in general. If you are just starting out with one it is best to get it as a puppy. Because I can honestly say that with the over 50+ pits I have seen come from shelters very few came with out a quirk of some sort. Many where not obviously apparent at first either, but potentially very dangerous. If you are not ready for that, and don’t have a plan to counter, you could get hurt and will likely have to rehome (more often than not return to the pound) the dog anyway, so your adding to the problem not subtracting from it.

That said. Absolutely do a lot of research on your breeders. Pits are a common enough breed there is a lot of good material out there to pick a good breeder, and there are a lot of really good ones. That said there are also a LOT of really bad ones. Be careful.


I disagree though I see where you are coming from. Personally I think a puppy is a bad idea for anyone's first dog. A lot of dogs in shelters started out as normal puppies but end up with problems because the owners just weren't ready for all it takes to raise a puppy for it to turn out as a well balanced dog. That's one of the reasons I recommend fostering/volunteering as at the least you'll see the problems that can happen and know to find out how to not do that with your own dog. Where I am most problems we see from dogs in shelters is simply a lack of training/socialization as a puppy then they grew up and the owners couldn't handle the dog once it was fully grown and still biting,jumping, dog reactive, etc. Although honestly people moving/change of lifestyles are still major reasons why dogs end up in shelters/rescues. A good shelter/rescue should match people with a dog that is a good fit for them and be honest about any quirks, so should a good breeder. Some do it better then others so people should be careful regardless of which they choose.

I agree with Pit Bulls not being an ideal first dog, but would extend that to add I don't think most terriers are something I would recommend as a first dog to most people.
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Re: Dog Owner Chat V. 5

Postby TheLostLioness » Mon Jan 27, 2020 10:13 pm

I am sorry for causing an issue. I wasn't expecting this sort of reaction both here and on a blog for my choice in words or the use of a breeder. I was more so hoping for advice on training and behaviors I should be wary of. . .

Again, I do thank you for the resources collected in this thread. I will be sure to put them to use when and if I get a dog.
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Re: Dog Owner Chat V. 5

Postby .Middy. » Tue Jan 28, 2020 4:39 am

TheLostLioness wrote:
I am sorry for causing an issue. I wasn't expecting this sort of reaction both here and on a blog for my choice in words or the use of a breeder. I was more so hoping for advice on training and behaviors I should be wary of. . .

Again, I do thank you for the resources collected in this thread. I will be sure to put them to use when and if I get a dog.


Please don’t feel bad! No matter what people say, breeder dogs are absolutely a valid choice, even if you only want a pet. Everyone deserves the right to choose if they want to take a risk on a dog with a unknown history who could have genetic issues, such as temperament or even physical. Personally all of my dogs are from reputable breeders, and they have been absolute dreams to own. Imo there is nothing better than laying out exactly what you want to do/have in your dog, and being matched to a exact match for what you want. I love knowing that all of my dogs have good solid foundations to build off of. It has made training them SO much easier than my past shelter or byb dogs.

It’s also amazing to know I have someone in my corner no matter what. My Mal breeder is taking Bones with her to a show next weekend, she also watched my Aussie this weekend so I could go show him. She regularly posts pics of him on her FB to brag when he does well. My Dane breeder knew I was having a little trouble getting her to eat after the move to my house, so she bought me a insta pot and sent me a recipe to make a topper so we could get her eating better. Both my BC and the stud owner are super involved in my girls life. I see the stud owner fairly often since she’s local, but I can go to either of them at any time for advice or anything I need. My Aussie breeder recently invited me out to see her current litter, and is always supportive on my posts or willing to answer questions for me, and Kes is now 4. I adore each and every one of my breeders and am so PROUD to own a puppy from them, it’s a great feeling knowing a reputable breeder trusts you with a piece of their heart.

They are right in you want to make sure to look into your chosen breeder closely. You want to make sure they are health testing their dogs, and breeding for a purpose not just to breed. If you want to send me their website in a message I can look and see if they are reputable for you. I can also send you a fantastic Facebook page that’s a great resource for looking into breeders and asking for opinions on them.
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Re: Dog Owner Chat V. 5

Postby Star_Bun » Tue Jan 28, 2020 5:17 am

TheLostLioness wrote:
I am sorry for causing an issue. I wasn't expecting this sort of reaction both here and on a blog for my choice in words or the use of a breeder. I was more so hoping for advice on training and behaviors I should be wary of. . .

Again, I do thank you for the resources collected in this thread. I will be sure to put them to use when and if I get a dog.

For a bit of advice on training, start right away. Like as soon as you bring your pup home, keep sessions short though (around 30min) to keep their attention. Bullies are a bit stubborn but their biggest thing is that they're strong, so I think the most important things to teach after the basics is not to jump on people and not to pull on the leash. Socialize the pup as soon as possible with both people and dogs. I'd recommend watching Victoria's videos(its me or the dog, there's quite a few on yt) there's lots of good training tip and tricks in her videos!












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Re: Dog Owner Chat V. 5

Postby avaloafe » Tue Jan 28, 2020 7:01 am

      imzadi - personally from experience i think a puppy is a good starting pet. you get to learn about your dog and teach them the ways of their owners life. they will adapt to their owners life while with an adult dog, it has to get changed which can be very difficult to impossible to do. most people go to reputable breeders because they are experienced in the practice. and people can breed for a hobby and not their main job. my grandparents are both retired and we just had a litter after three years, and we are hoping to have two more this upcoming year. honestly i feel like it can't be someone's "main" job as you would need so many dogs in the house and that can feel like a type of breeding "facility" and not a safe place for dogs.

      thelostlioness - don't feel bad! a lot of people have their own opinions and some people are very distasteful at breeders whether they are responsible or not. if you are going to the breeder, make sure they do health testing! ask for the tests on the sire and the dam. make sure the mother is in the same house as the puppies, and make sure they don't give the puppies away too early. my recent litter of pups was born december 11th, and we don't plan on re-homing them til almost the end of february. that's when they are fully off their mothers milk, weaned onto solid food, AND crate trained. i HIGHLY recommend crate training! it is really helpful and useful to your pup and isn't cruel at all if you have the correct size crate for the dog. i can link you to a crate training video that my grandfather made and it has millions of views on it and is super useful. it gives the dog a safe, comfortable place to go while you are out of the house or if they just want time alone, or even if they get scared from fireworks or thunder, they can safely go in to their crate. if you have any questions about breeding or breeders, PLEASE send me a message and i will be more than happy to help you! <3
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